I just wanted to comment on the phrase, make it up to you. I think when a lady says that, in a situation like this, she is trying to get you to come back and she will show you a nice time.
I mean, stuff can sometimes come up at the last minute, and you never know with this business. I would appreciate the fact that she got back to you. I hear stories about girls that are just total NCNS and don't even bother to give the courtesy of saying anything. Just move on, there are plenty of ladies that would never do that to you.I have seen her before had a good time. try to set up another appointment after emails and text set it up. Arrived at in call waited 30 minutes and no response. Left got a text from her saying she was sorry and she would make it up to me. i said how and she was offended i asked that question and did not respond to me. If we as hobbyist were no shows are names would be mud.
I just wanted to comment on the phrase, make it up to you. I think when a lady says that, in a situation like this, she is trying to get you to come back and she will show you a nice time.
I mean, stuff can sometimes come up at the last minute, and you never know with this business. I would appreciate the fact that she got back to you. I hear stories about girls that are just total NCNS and don't even bother to give the courtesy of saying anything.
Just move on, there are plenty of ladies that would never do that to you.
Like you, I ask the same question, how? I let her know that I was pretty bummed out and then she got mad at me for making her feel worse about cancelling.
Here is what I don't understand about chicago. I've lived in 3 different cities, Chicago providers require the highest donations by far and I've encountered more flakey unresponsive providers here than anywhere else.
But which 3 cities? Just curious cause flakey and unresponsive seem pretty much universal.
I mean it happened in other cities, just happens all the time here
I get the feeling that cancellations or more often last minute "rescheduling" happens WAY more often to the hobbyist than the provider.
I have NEVER done something like that less than 48 hours away. It seems like it happens all the time to me when I show up at an incall and it is a NCNS. Silence. Or the day of, there are no more emails suddenly. Or you get all sorts of bullshit excuses. You think I am fucking just waiting around for you all day ?
I know for a fact that many girls will blow you off for longer dates. It is all about the money for most. This site is supposed to be for hobbyists to tell the rest of the mongers about good or bad experiences. So why can't there be a NCNS or cancellation review system or tally???
No kidding, just had another cancellation. However, this way was at least night before
A little common courtesy would go a long way. Some of these gals just don't get it. This is what makes me not want to try out new girls too, I'll just stick to the one or two that I know are reliable or go to an agency otherwise.
I think given enough time, those providers go out of business anyway. I don't schedule a lot dates; frankly, the hobby is expensive and I generally just don't have time. The TWO that did this to me, (both higher end massage providers), did have the courtesy to call and/or email several hours before. They are also both no longer in this line of work. One was a visitor and never returned. The other was local and I think the hobby got in the way of family - it was becoming a stress point when I tried to see her.
It's best to let hobbyists to know.
I had scheduled a date for Friday night with a certain Russian provider visiting from NYC. I showed up at the hotel only to get no response from her after sending 2 texts and waiting in the lobby for 20 mins. I gave up and made my way to the bar around the corner to drown my sorrows. In my 5 years of hobbying, this has never happened.
Consider yourself very lucky sir.
blonde Lauren Gold does not take texts nor send them..
Is this the Lauren that you are referring to ?
Why didn't you include a link when there are more than one Lauren in chicago ?