All I want is ONE reference from a verifiable provider. If you give the name of a woman who doesn't have a website and reviews then how do I know any of what I hear is even legitimate? Idc what you call yourself or what you do for a living. I just need to feel comfortable knowing that you're not going to turn into a kickboxer when the door closes behind us and that I won't be using my blow job proceeds for bail. This isn't a get rich quick scheme and I'm not supporting a drug habit. Ijust love a good orgasm and I don't want to worry about who I am cumming with. It's not a gahd dayem career move it's avery simple reference request.
Everyone wants to come see me but when asked for reference info the communication stops. That is really aggravating! Isn't it commonplace to request such information? I feel like I'm doing something wrong.
No idea why a request from references would make someone go away unless they have none.. but , for me, P411 simplified the entire process.. a history on TER helps too I suppose..
Agreed but the recent trend is they disappear lol
Keep with what works. Doing a verification process is very important in today's society. Many of us on TER / P411 have submitted our information so we can easily hook up with all you lovely providers out there. So, if they don't play by the rules? Well, their loss and more time for me to play. Good topic this morning Erin
Time wasters are many and just when you think you are getting hundreds of emails and requests
Lucky if 5% will reply back
That is the biz for all of us
Thankfully I have the best regulars that a gal could possibly ask for. Real men who love sex and are my friends which makes the sex much more enjoyable.
Lucky if 5% will reply back
That is the biz for all of us
The reason I signed up for Date-Check is so I no long need to give out my information.
Certainly makes things much easier on my end
... I never rely on any as a sole means of verification. Gentlemen must still forward the information I ask for on my appointment form. I also tell gentlemen this in my ads/posts.
I stopped posting/advertising on DC, as my gentlemen find me through Eros, P411, and TER; in that order.
Not sure where in the thread my message will land, but if the OP is not newbie friendly, this should be addressed in ads, and sites.
See y'all soon!
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
what city are you in? ive been wanting to meet you
...Philly May 5-6, and Stamford May 6-8.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
.... to get complete silence when I actually ask for the screening info I clearly advertise is a must in my ads lol. Maybe they think you're kidding? I have a buttload of screening alternatives outside of just provider references tho lol and sometimes still silence. Maybe they confuse the word screening with "totally anonymous no info at all required sure i'll let anyone come by" haha smh. Sometimes (only sometimes) it feels like some who say they screen or ask for it in their ads don't actually go thru with it hence some guys going ghost when it's really time for them to cough it up to a serious provider. *shrugs*
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Someone via pm suggested and I agree that some fellas may not want to divulge such info because thier atf might get pissed. This would also probably ring true when providers refuse to provide a reference. I am happy to say that I am reference friendly.
Personally I hate the "Verification" process and usually wont even bother trying to see a woman who asks for TOO much information. I have seen providers asking for Full name, Name of workplace or business, work phone#'s, multiple provider referrals and more......
My personal feelings is that is WAY too intrusive and I typically won't waste my time with someone who wants this amount of verification. My thoughts are that if what they can read here from my reviews of other providers I have visited, my REAL phone number (I'm divorced) and my REAL name then we just are not going to ever meet.
If I had started the process with a girl to meet and she starts asking for this sort of info I will kindly tell her I can not give any more info then what she currently has about me and thank her for her time...some will still choose to meet with me while others move on to the next guy.
I will never give out my personal information to any verification website to make the "Process" any easier as my feelings are that any of these sites (P411, DC or others) are always open to hacking or themselves using the info supplied in damaging ways....
So in answer to your question...the guys who vanish after you ask for verification were not your type customer to begin with. If you start off feeling uncomfortable (you or client) how can things ever get any better once you meet...just let them run off and find someone who will see them with little to no verification or change your method of verification....cool thing is that it is all up to you
All I want is ONE reference from a verifiable provider. If you give the name of a woman who doesn't have a website and reviews then how do I know any of what I hear is even legitimate? Idc what you call yourself or what you do for a living. I just need to feel comfortable knowing that you're not going to turn into a kickboxer when the door closes behind us and that I won't be using my blow job proceeds for bail. This isn't a get rich quick scheme and I'm not supporting a drug habit. Ijust love a good orgasm and I don't want to worry about who I am cumming with. It's not a gahd dayem career move it's avery simple reference request.
Dudes who wont reference are probably sketchy and dangerous
Agreed
DC is good site to use, because even new providers can not gain access to their site unless they personally know another lady that will vouch for them. Anyone can gain access to p411 within minutes.
Lots of people have been busted off p411 in the past 2 years, google "The Honest Courtesan something in the milk" and then google " The honest courtesan The proof of the pudding" and you might think twice about using that site again.
Thanks Gina that's solid info
Love em given that they are from a well reviewed provid