Having met many outstanding men in this biz who have given my heart/ body a flurry, want to thank all of you for all the pleasures!!!, and also express that we occasionally meet the guy we hope no other woman has to meet.....

So, in light of that, here are some of my further recommendations to ensure the best encounter takes place:

1) Be honorable.  After a passionate kiss, you'll know if she is for real, assuming you also did your TER research!, and give her the envelope right then.  Much more tasteful than doing it after a hot, steamy session when you feel sad/awkward as she's packing up, and when you know she also had a great time and can't believe she's actually taking your money!  HOWEVER!!, if she's not widely, consistently reviewed on TER, I would DEFINITELY wait til the end to pay!!!

2)  If the experience was more than you had imagined, tips, of course, are practically the norm, as in any service industry -- no offense taken if you don't, but you have no idea what a little surprise does -- a little gift certificate slipped in her purse, an extra 20%, even as little as an extra $20 shows you thought it was extraordinary and more than you had hoped for!!!

3)  When you want to book an appt, always kindest to schedule a few days to a few weeks in advance, leaving the lady you would like to see ample time to coordinate her other plans.  Shows you are more seriously interested.

4)  So you want to keep seeing her, but feel her published rate is too much for regular encounters....  Providers usually give discounts for regulars, obviously.  Next time you, as a regular, write her, ask what if we met for x/ hrs this time, or met at this destination, what would my rate be?  Be upfront. You might be surprised, and, if not, you know where you stand....

We ALL love to keep our circles small and intimate -- the fewer, most well-selected ones, the better!!!

Kisses from NYC!!!