hello all,
So in 2 months my workplace will be sending me to a conference out in the midwest, have the corporate card so the car, hotel, and food will be taken of.
Now Ive never been to the midwest, curious to see the talent out there, Kinda wanting to live out a Tonight's Girlfriend type fantasy, though Im a bit nervous Since I am there on business and Ive never done an outcall to a hotel.
Just looking for a little guidance, if its even a good idea, some do's and dont's
thx in advance
think you'll like it here. Just remember to use your screening service & don't get careless.
Check the alerts on the local board of whatever city you'll be visiting. Reading the local newspaper is also recommended.
Being polite goes a long way here. Some generalizations below:
I'm always a bit shocked at how blunt & brazen some big city people can be (New Yorkers, I'm looking at you). Just blurting out whatever's on your fucking mind really isn't appreciated. It's a big turnoff to everyone in flyover country, including your midwestern provider.
Tact is preferred. Clint Eastwood = Yes, Donald Trump = No. Taylor Swift = Yes, Kanye West = No. Kanye is probably a bad example, because most Chicago natives tend to have midwestern manners, so they usually fit in well here. I hope you enjoy your stay. Y'all come back now, ya hear! --
...the same rules apply, do your research, be respectful, clean, communicate well, show up on time with the proper donation amount and you'll be fine.
The Midwest encompasses a pretty large area, but most metropolitan areas will have a pretty good selection of choices, so I'm sure you'll find someone who'll tickle your fancy within whatever budget you have.
If you'd like some suggestions, feel free to PM me.
The Midwest encompasses a pretty large area, but most metropolitan areas will have a pretty good selection of choices, so I'm sure you'll find someone who'll tickle your fancy within whatever budget you have.
If you'd like some suggestions, feel free to PM me.
Guided tour of lobby, got it
Any other tips for hobbying on a business trip?
...or by yourself? If you're with others, you need to be sure your room is away from theirs and will need to coordinate times when they won't be suspicious of you spending time away from them. That is, unless they share your secret life and will be doing the same themselves. LOL
As for the Kansas City area... I suggest staying on the Missouri side, it seems the Kansas authorities are much more ambitious in their pursuit of ridding their city of vice. Also, KC is a popular destination for a lot of touring gals and has several great local ladies, so you'll have plenty to choose from.
I have done this a few times and I recommend it for variety. I normally hobby close to home so have to wait for my better half to be traveling. But I've engaged ladies on several occassions when I travel. In fact, the first time I hobbied was done that way. TER makes it easy to ID good prospects and they are all (well, mostly all) very discrete. They dress conservatively for the walk across the lobby. Two things, brief them on the layout of the lobby so they can walk confidently to the elevator and leave your door ajar, no knocking. Beyond that, enjoy!
I do it almost every time I travel. Using TER to get verified and reading the boards on where I'm off to helps a bit too. I think I hobby outside more away from home.
More than likely there'll be a couple of other folks planning the same as you, perhaps even TER members.
If you don't know anyone at the conference then have some fun with this: agree to meet her at the bar but note that you want to pretend to pick her up. She should be dressed to impress, but also in keeping with possibly being a member of the conference - bonus points if other guys try to pick her up.
You get to swoop in at a prearranged time/signal with your smooth pickup line "Ever felt like meddling with mede!!in?" or something else that's cheesy. Spend a drink or two, perhaps even have dinner getting to know one another before heading up to the room.
Obviously, that's risky if you have a family and talk with the conference folks about them. In that case, she'd go directly to your room - perhaps you have champagne or wine (sealed bottles) awaiting her arrival; envelope on bathroom counter; extra towels from room service; and all your stuff packed up so it's neat & tidy in the room. You have a room with a couch? Ask for one, get the upgrade to an executive suite and pay for the excess on your own card - hotels will do that so your business expense report doesn't show it, same goes for room service.
Have fun!
I'm sure if you properly do your research you'll be good.
Happy Hobbying!