Sorry it happened. But you did kinda narrow it down to two ladies...and I know the "Guilty" party will reach out to you to make it right, at least I would hope so....so kick back and wait for the call....I have a feeling it'll come.
Well out of the many years I have been in this hobby, I have finally been stood up. It happened In Vegas. I always try to schedule an appointment with a high rated lady to avoid being stood up.
I scheduled the appointment 3 weeks out. Texted her a couple of times leading up to the appointment. She sent me a lovely photo the day before the appointment. The appointment was at 12 noon. She texted me, at 11am, and then called me to cancel. She said she was offered $4,000.00, the night before, and she couldn't refuse and that she was tired. Said she would of lost money by keeping my appointment. What the crap!!! I paid extra to change my airline ticket to fly in early and reserved my two bedroom condo a day early to just see her and she said she lost money. I don't get it.
I tried to schedule with someone else but all of the best ladies were already busy. It is just sad, you try to play by the rules and you get screwed in the end.
Sorry but I was just venting.
...not sure how long you're in town..but I am available tomorrow evening if you could save all your kisses for me.
I'm sorry this happened to you. Venting is definitely allowed.
Xo,
Charlene Love
Thanks Charlene,
I sure wish I would of messaged you.
I will let you know when I am back in town
I gotta give her credit for at least her honesty. I know it doesn't help you (or any customer for that matter) but it could have been:
My grandma died
Dog got hit by a car
My cat choked on a chicken bone
I've got Zinka
My car was stolen
blah blah blah....
At least she told you her "justification" for screwing up your trip. Her "4k oppourtunity" shows her as a greedy non-caring puke.... but definitely not a flake right????
I'm sorry this happened to you... I think most of us would want to know who this is....
it is very unprofessional of this provider but i promise we are Not all like this at all.
xo
LaRue McCay
Thanks Larue,
I know that not all ladies are like this. I just thought since she was ranked so high that it would not happen.
I have been in this hobby for over 9 years and I have been very fortunate, since this was a first time being stood-up.
not only be cancelled on with an hour notice but also for the money you were out of for changing your flight and accommodations.Maybe she will offer to make it right with you during your stay or if she reads your post here.
By the way and this is no diss to the lady you chose but there are other fabulous ladies here that might be on that list but not in the top 5 that would show you a great time.
Better luck next time.
Thanks Jaydelee,
I know there are many great ladies in Vegas. It was a real hard decision and many hours of research. Its just this time I chose the wrong one and my back up plans were already booked.
Sorry it happened. But you did kinda narrow it down to two ladies...and I know the "Guilty" party will reach out to you to make it right, at least I would hope so....so kick back and wait for the call....I have a feeling it'll come.
this is horrible... if a guy cancels with an hour notice, they are expected to pay a cancellation fee or be blacklisted for life. she should offer you something as compensation like a discount for rebooking, extra free time or something. but if you're from out of town, that makes it more difficult to rebook.
Well I am not looking for a freebie. I know this is a business and I expect to be treated fair. Like someone else has stated, if you cancel on them, they want compensation and will blacklist you. What is our recourse?
Anyway, just as well. She comes off as "High Volume" anyways....moving right along.
So you didn't get ALL the best ladies. 4k or 400...she was a tool for doing that to you. But there are much better choices available.
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Maddy, you are right I should of messaged you. You do look great.
Don't be a puss, go all the way....or just go home. You just as well should have wrote you vent on a piece of toilet paper, then us it on yourself.
This guy that got canceled on, I have respect for,he took it like a man and warned the community.
.....her honesty goes a long way with me.
Being cancelled upon by a Provider is much preferred to being no-called/no-showed, and that's happened to most of us at one time or another.
Now, had she gone one step further and told you she'd make it up to you for her transgression, she'd really have received plaudits from me, and most of us here.
However, the fact that she honestly cancelled tells me that she at least had some compassion toward you. What I mean is, it's not right, it's not fair, but it easily could've been worse for you.
Move on now!
While you appreciate the call I think it would have been more prudent for the provider to advise the OP when she accepted the overnight date. Or did she plan on doing the overnight and then his early call.
Basically she took the overnight knowing she might not be up to the OP's date but hoped she would.
A call the night before then at least then he would have had time to find an alternate.
The providers last minute cancellation under these circumstances shows her complete lack of respect for clients.
I think he should either name names or admit he's a wuss and STFU.
If he wants to help ensure she changes her bad behavior, it's just like with kids. You have to show them that actions have consequences. If doesn't want to name names, he's just whining and I no longer feel at all bad for him, because his silence is tacit permission for her to do the exact same thing to the next guy.