Does anyone else who's rates are on the higher side receive odd request?
I had one guy who wanted to enact out a scene in some movie where the girl was in cowgirl position, riding him, screaming and choking him then right before he comes, she rips the guys penis off with her vagina xD He wanted me to do that for $5,000... the guy was dead at the end of the scene so I couldn't tell if he was asking me to kill him LOL orrrrr do an extreme role-play, he never specified.... So I had to pass it up. xD-- Modified on 4/26/2015 12:10:01 AM
ffer sounds extreme and potentially dangerous. Unless you're an experienced Dominatrix, you were smart to let this offer go. A few years back, there was a request on my local board where a guy offered $5000 if he could bind & horsewhip a provider. When he stated that he had a "special cream" that would help reduce scarring, it made me think this guy might be serious.
My ATF once told me about a new client who had a necrophilia fetish. At the session, he showed her crime scene photos of murdered young women. He then blindfolded her and asked her to "remain still" while he had sex with her.
Z: babe, please don't see him again.
ATF: He gave me $1000 and I really needed the money.
--z
Your ATFs experience with the necrophiliac sounds like it could even cause mental damage.
Horrible!
I can't even imagine being in your ATFs shoes! I'm glad she's okay and hope she never has to be in that position again.
With all the strange kink out there, I must be absolutely boring, lol.
My idea of a great session = beautiful girl + jacuzzi, wine, music, sex. There's not a whip or blindfold anywhere.
But given the popularity of "50 Shades of Grey", there may be a lot of $$$ coming your way if you're willing to do S&M play. And there's many varieties to it--some of it's really dark. I'm just not sure if S&M will become more mainstream, or if "50 Shades" is just a passing fad. I try not to be judgmental, but I've never understood that scene.
I've always viewed sex as life-affirming; so I don't like it when sex is linked to pain, fear, and domination. To me, S&M seems to be an overreaction to sexual repression. The Dominatrix = Overbearing Mother. The Submissive = Shamed Child.
Another take: the French have a slang term for orgasm: "La petite mort" = "Tiny death". It's that moment of intense orgasm where you feel you may actually die. That may also explain some of the darker side. Be careful. --z
-- Modified on 4/26/2015 6:48:04 AM