that she received my message. If I hear nothing, I'll make a second contact - preferably by a different means. If still nada, I'll move on. I don't contact more than 1 gal at a time, either; I tend to contact the lady I truly want to see at that time - the idea of a "Plan B" just doesn't work for me, for many reasons.
I may try again a few weeks or months later in some instances, but usually I'll only do that if I feel very, very strongly about seeing her. There was one gal I wanted to see and reached out to twice, each contact a couple of months apart. Got no response either time and wrote her off. A year or more later she PMd me about a post I'd made, and we started up a conversation which led to a very nice date. I think it's best to take nothing personally, keep an open mind and just have fun.
I don't want to ask more than one girl at a time to plan my dates. Some girls do not get back you me right away this leaves me trying to decide if I should try another or wait longer for an answer. What do you think is a reasonable amount of time to wait for a response?
that she received my message. If I hear nothing, I'll make a second contact - preferably by a different means. If still nada, I'll move on. I don't contact more than 1 gal at a time, either; I tend to contact the lady I truly want to see at that time - the idea of a "Plan B" just doesn't work for me, for many reasons.
I may try again a few weeks or months later in some instances, but usually I'll only do that if I feel very, very strongly about seeing her.
There was one gal I wanted to see and reached out to twice, each contact a couple of months apart. Got no response either time and wrote her off. A year or more later she PMd me about a post I'd made, and we started up a conversation which led to a very nice date.
I think it's best to take nothing personally, keep an open mind and just have fun.