Ok so, at the beginning of my sessions - I will always politely suggest a shower to those coming to see me. If the gentleman says he has already showered, I kindly ask him if he minds just washing his hands before we get started.
The problem is.. I have now had two awkward situations finding out the man was dishonest about showering. Without getting into too much detail - it made me uncomfortable and changed the vibe a bit.
My question is I am wrong for now requiring that a shower is necessary even if the gentleman says he has done so prior to our meeting? I just don't want any other problems in the future but I also do not want to offend anyone 
. I have only had this incident happen twice.
BO is caused by microbes (normal skin flora) on your skin eating your sweat and giving off their waste products as odorants. Almost all animals have this.
So you could say something along the lines of:
- I have a super sensitive nose, so unless you are one of those mutant people who NEVER sweats, could you just pop into the shower for 20 seconds and soap the pits and undercarrige ?
Might want to leave out the mutant part though..... a OR maybe just experiment with what you say and see what the effect is!
Today's line is:
- I ask all my guests to shower, even if they just drove over from the shower 20 min ago
Tomorrow's line is:
- Ohhh... I love a man just fresh out the shower... it would make me SO hot if you would shower for me!
Then check the response rate.... repeat until you find something that works well and provides minimal discomfort to your guest's psyche
It wasn't a BO problem.. See, sweat I am not too skiddish of. It was the fact he had left evidence he used the bathroom..
So you could say something along the lines of:
- I have a super sensitive nose, so unless you are one of those mutant people who NEVER sweats, could you just pop into the shower for 20 seconds and soap the pits and undercarrige ?
Might want to leave out the mutant part though..... a OR maybe just experiment with what you say and see what the effect is!
Today's line is:
- I ask all my guests to shower, even if they just drove over from the shower 20 min ago
Tomorrow's line is:
- Ohhh... I love a man just fresh out the shower... it would make me SO hot if you would shower for me!
Then check the response rate.... repeat until you find something that works well and provides minimal discomfort to your guest's psyche.
and you should be able to ask a man to do do for you to be comfortable with him. I definitely want you comfortable with me.
I can usually hobby at times when I can be totally clean ... totally.
I'll mention it my host and some will acquiesce but ask to at least wash my hands. I'm totally cool with that since I prefer they are not concerned about my hands being allowed everywhere a lady allows.
If I detect her slightest hesitation on my "just showered" comment,
I'll jump in the shower as a courtesy. I prefer to be spotless down below so I can be devoured without hesitation, much like I feel the same when sampling a ladies pussy.
And would one of you please tell me how you get your pussy to be so indescribably delicious and fragrant in such a natural way. Thank you soooo much ... I absolutely love fine dining
Pineapples 
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I can usually hobby at times when I can be totally clean ... totally.
I'll mention it my host and some will acquiesce but ask to at least wash my hands. I'm totally cool with that since I prefer they are not concerned about my hands being allowed everywhere a lady allows.
If I detect her slightest hesitation on my "just showered" comment,
I'll jump in the shower as a courtesy. I prefer to be spotless down below so I can be devoured without hesitation, much like I feel the same when sampling a ladies pussy.
And would one of you please tell me how you get your pussy to be so indescribably delicious and fragrant in such a natural way. Thank you soooo much ... I absolutely love fine dining
I try to drink plenty ... maybe we'll share pineapple juice sometime
I always take a shower before going over so I don't have to take it once I'm there. For me, walking in and having an object of my desires directing me to the shower instead of planting a powerful DFK on my lips is a mood killer. If she still insists I doubt I'd be seeing her again. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this way.
Life is full of choices :
with a naked woman you're longing to have on the other side of the door, you must be playing with yourself. Lather your balls and ass Crack and be done with it ... 2 minutes ... who needs to dry off?
For me, I usually shower beforehand so I can maximize my time with the provider. If you're not a clockwatcher and don't mind going over an extra 10 minutes or so (the shower time), then you should indicate this to the client. Even better, get in the shower with them and wash them up yourself like the k-girls do!
I usually figure I'm OK.. no complaints.. but it's not like a shower when I get to a provider is much more than a few minutes..
a turn off for me are towels there wet from the guy before me in the bathroom..
It doesn't take much to be sure you are OK.. I err on the side of caution
I have not yet run into a hygiene problem yet (thank goodness!!!) but would a shower together still be a turn-off? What about if the provider wore a shower-cap and did not wish to ruin her makeup by getting her head/face wet? I think a shower together would be totally hot, but a lot of preparation goes into getting dolled-up for a date. Just wanting to know how many men out there is this a turn-off or turn-on for...
Jade
or not. Depends...
I did see a gal several times who was a serious shower afficionado. Her passion in the shower was highlighted by her lack of regard for wet hair and makeup - total abandonment. And totally hot. If we're showering together, wet, soapy and passionate it's hot... the shower cap probably takes away from that passion.
Just MHO.
Well, that's it. If the whole thing takes place in the shower or even better in the bathtub, that's one thing. Although hotel showers/bathtubs usually are not all that comfortable.
It's like on a real date, the entry is half of success. The rest is usually just a continuation of the entry. For me seeing her wearing a shower cup would definitely be a let down but for somebody else it might not be.
I think one thing that you want to avoid in the sex based encounter whether it's on a real date or P4P are the feelings that in essence are not sexual. Being directed to the shower instead of getting it on, even if it's with her may evoke such feelings. Feeling such things reminiscent of the way you feel if you're in a "friends zone". And you know how it is, once you're in a friends zone it's notoriously difficult to get yourself to think of your friend as a "sexual object".
DEFINITELY a turn on!
and should not be a problem for any guy.
Maybe add a one-liner to your website "I want you to shower for me when you arrive. I will shower you with affection in return."
As another suggested, try different "reminder" lines for those who can't read or are slow to understand.
If all else fails, just lead him into the shower yourself and join him.
God... it shouldn't be this difficult, guys!!
and if you're willing to join in with him, so much the better.
I enjoy a shower, or even better, a bubble bath with my partner before the bedroom activities, but that is up to you.
The only time I like to shower alone is after the date.
you go down on a gal and silently say WTF. I think every guy should at the very least partake in a bird bath upon arrival. At least with me your freshness will make me linger right where you want me to. Isn't that worth a 5 minute shower? While I can appreciate that some folks do literally shower right before they get in the car. You are smart enough to crank the a/c and you arrive at my love nest smelling great and all is well in love land. I have also been in Viv's predicament and the experience was a stinktastrophe. So, how are we to know....especially in the warmer months? IMO it is just a simple courtesy. And if washing up is a turn off, then you have to be ok with less oral delight
Thank you !!!
no more than you when we encounter funk junk. Stink is definitely gender-neutral.
sweaty balls......eh Erin. 
Yuk. as for the OP, evidence that he had used bathroom? ???? ewwwww
just plain nasty
I recently visited a girl who had bad breath and bo not terrible but it was there. I'm sure she wasnt aware of it but i sure was and because of this you would have had to put a gun to my head for me to go down on her. I dont see how you could expect a girl to really get into it if she isnt to sure about your hygene. Even if your sure your good and she hints at a shower take it the guy before might have been a mess she will probably give you a way better experience if she has peace of mind
Asking someone to shower once they arrive shouldn't be offensive to anyone. What is offensive is someone being dishonest. It works both ways since we're expecting our date to be clean, we should be too. Even if I've showered prior to going to an appointment I always shower again once I'm there.
I understand taking a shower together may not be the easiest thing to do with respect to hair and makeup. One alternative which I've heard from a girl is that she gets turned on by watching a man take a shower. Having a beautiful woman dressed all sexy and "enjoying" herself while I shower is a huge turn on!
Having fresh towels on hand for guests is a necessity. If for some reason there aren't any then use your imagination in a sexy way.
On the flip side, I've had a couple incidents like this happen to me over the years with outcalls.
I like that idea ! Watching the client shower if you are already in full makeup/hair. Thanks! I will try this
And I really don't understand why someone would have a problem with it here, honestly. But I suppose everyone has their thing. Most of my gents will at least freshen up before engaging, which I very much appreciate.
Even if it's only been 30 minutes since his last shower, a quick once-over with a wet and lightly soapy washcloth (without necessarily getting in the shower) will ensure he's as fresh as possible. It can only benefit him, by allowing us to get as close as we want. Who wouldn't want that? I will always do the same on an outcall.