"When you're right, you're right"
and yes, you are 100% right about that. lol
girls and guys what are your thoughts about this ?
guys would you pick BBJCIM no quit or stripper slide ?
Since Im a long time member , and i know how the broad can get..
Girls if this is part of your menu, please inbox me ..
privacy will be there ..
thanks
P.S.
starbucks coffee talk .. Lo
Please do not just assume this is on anyone's menu. Just about the only risk that is even moderately reduced doing stripper slide vs. full blown unprotected intercourse is that of pregnancy. You can still get ALL of the STD's, and if it's not something she has publicly made clear that she's ok taking a risk with, it truly is one of the most infuriating boundary pushing situations that the ladies come across. It just seems that, across the board, we all have one rule. Just one. And when a guy comes over and feels that he is somehow entitled to break it when eeeeeveryone else seems to manage just fine, it really is the fastest way for one of us to stop trying to find any good qualities about you.
This is of course not saying that's what you do. At all. I just returned from Dallas and had to ask more people to leave in two days than I have in three years of doing this, so a bit of a PSA has been on my mind. I would like to say that questions like this come up in sessions because of simple ignorance, but given the access to information that we have these days, in the moment, doing this without explicit consent is only going to come across as entitlement... at best.
I'm certainly not casting stones as none of us know what the other does in their spare time, I am just saying that you shouldn't undermine someone's obvious attempts at protecting themselves from whatever else you may have done. Guys, unless she's emailed you in response to an ISO like this, or her profile/reviews/website/whathaveyou make it clear that this is something she participates in, just don't and assume she plays safe.
I did not say i was entitled to it.. I think you took my posting the wrong way..
Just wanted post talk on the discussion ... No harm no foul..
I had a P411 membership and they did at one time on their screen show the menu they girls could pick what activity would be done and some of the girls did listed it..
Now p411 has change there whole system.. They have reword and i dont know why..
Being a member for a very long time 12 years on this site , and i know how the broad members can be.. this is the reason why i said if the girls fell comfortable to inbox message me. "privacy reason"
i not trying to throw anyone under the bus or start drama ..
Since that's where they're based, those are the laws they have to follow. Though I'm not sure how much good it does, seeing as we aren't allowed to say we are voyeurs in the ads, but it is clickable on the menu, lol! I'm not totally sure, but I got the impression that it was legal, as long as it wasn't blatant, and that's why all the menu options are a kind of weird, vague reference now.
Didn't take your post the wrong way, no worries
thanks for the idea
Now i can add to my bucklist .. three some and also voyeurs
None of the GFE acts we engage in would be safe. Not according to what I've been told again and again about specific sex acts and their risks. I have talked to many doctors (each time I get tested), and I've studied online, of course. Plus, I'm an RN, but we should all know this stuff. The stripper slide risk is herpes. Which you also risk getting with DFK and oral sex, but it can be avoided by avoiding contact with anything that looks like a possible lesion, pimple, blister, or whatever. Look up images of herpes if you don't know. It's also not as prevalent now since so many people who have been exposed to herpes (60-95% of the population) take daily medication to suppress it. Do some of you remember how often people used to have cold sores on their lips or faces? You hardly ever see them now even though more then half of the population has one type or another...
And as far as the blood borne pathogens (Hep C and HIV) being a risk...that is just not true.
You can't get gonorrhea or chlamydia that way. It's so unlikely that it's not a legitimate concern and worth the risk to many who enjoy partaking of a SS. Although gonorrhea can live in the throat, it's the only one and it doesn't thrive there.
Ask your own doctors. Be specific. Tell them you have multiple partners.
Of course, anyone who is concerned shouldn't do it, but be informed so you can make wise decisions.
Even some really nice guys might seem to be tempted by this, you're not wrong. Some will absolutely "accidentally" slip inside if they are in control of the stripper slide.
First, I only do it when I'm on top so there won't be any "accidents". I also immediately say, "Some guys might think that if I do this, I might allow bbfs. It is NOT the same, and I DON'T do that". Then they say, "Of course not! l would never..." lol.
But you aren't wrong.
If I do allow it from the bottom, I cover my vagina opening by either holding the base of the penis to prevent it going lower than my clit, or by simply covering the opening of my pussy with my fingers. I have to be in control of this activity to keep it safe.
I would love to know what university some of you are getting your so called legit degrees from lol. Since WHEN can you not contract diseases that are passed from fluids when fluids are present? WTF.... is your vagina dry as a bone when his raw dog is being rubbed on it? If so, then what would be the allure? Is there no precum from him DURING this practice? LMAO... ok. Sell crazy some place else, we are all stocked up here.
I don't care if a provider wants to offer full on BBFS, but don't come on here with the bs about how stripper slide is sooooo safe just to feel better about doing it. I do bbbj and cim, and I certainly don't go around preaching about how safe that is. It's only safe compared to Stripper slide and bbfs. ANY form of unprotected genital contact is ALWAYS more risky than oral contact when all things are equal (i.e. no open cuts, sores, etc.). Some of you need to stop acting educated, when all you post is utter stupidity.
if ANY and I do mean a single drop of precome comes into contact with your vaginal tissue or gets rubbed into your Vagina from doing the stripper slide NAKED, then you can get pretty much ANY STD, as well as even pregnancy. That is why strippers leave their G-sring on at least to have a barrier.
As well if any of the vaginal "juice" happens into the end of the penis the man also has a very strong possiblity of picking up an STD that way as well. Transfer of the lower fluids between 2 people means you now both share what the other has.
Sharing is not always caring...
Oh and I do NOT offer this
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I did extensive research before deciding on my menu, and have spoken to and worked for a number of doctors. Excretions are excretions, contact is contact. "Just the tip" is where most of your problems are going to come from, and that's what you're working with when you do a bare stripper slide.
It is MUCH riskier than other "GFE" moves, like kissing or an uncovered BJ, especially for the woman. Even according to the very conservative CDC. Your mouth at least serves as an unfriendly environment to most things, your vagina? That slut might as well lay out a welcome mat it's so wide open to "visitors".
Like I said, not casting stones. I am fully aware that I can't control how other people play, and that I will certainly never know, so there's no point in caring beyond wanting people to be informed for their own good. I can only really look out for myself, but I like to try to look out for others too when I can.
and I am sure that you can only get a "little bit pregnant" if any his precum leaks into your vag. lol
Not to mention the risk of a guy getting "too" excited and blowing his load right then and there, but of course we know all johns have complete control over their bodies, that's why so many of us give you ladies a dozen orgasms in a single hour, right?
Not to mention the risk of a guy getting "too" excited and blowing his load right then and there, but of course we know all johns have complete control over their bodies, that's why so many of us give you ladies a dozen orgasms in a single hour, right?
"When you're right, you're right"
and yes, you are 100% right about that. lol
It reminds me of when I was wrestling with my inhibitions about jumping into this hobby. I considered whether there was any way I could prevent any part of my body from coming into contact with a woman, excepting only a condom-wrapped penis. Finally realized that if I was that nuts I shouldn't do it at all.
Several years later I was told by a now-retired provider that some guy had asked her for exactly that treatment. He wanted everything covered, for every item on the menu, and he wanted to keep his boxers on. He wanted the same treatment from another provider, still active, who was quite pricey. We had a laugh about it, but I secretly thought he was maybe not so crazy.
Doing the slip'n'slide -- that sounds crazy to me.