I don't understand it. Started communication with a visiting provider and gave her my info for verification (which is inline).
Now been almost 2 days and date is coming up in less than a day.
She has not responded at all...
Just posting to let ladies know our time is important too.
If your not interested just say so and I can search again... now its going to be a short notice date and no one likes that.
FYI, used Alias in case there is a good reason she has not responded,
back to the drawing board!
not sure of the reasons, unfortunately you can not leave a review of no response no show..
These girls/ladies get bombarded by time wasters all day. not that you are one. Just sayin'. Especially the BP girls, they post an ad and their phone goes crazy with texts and/or calls 99% of which are just guys wasting time.
If she is local and you are persistent (but not annoying), she will eventually get back to you. If time is of the essence, you should contact several that you want to see and go with whoever responds first..
Not only do we get bombarded by timewasters, but it's not that hard to accidentally delete an email or send a text that never actually sends...that happens to me a few times a week during busy times. Sprint sucks.
Once in a while I'll have someone get crazy mad at me (or apparently have hurt feelings) because I did not reply in a timely fashion and I don't know who he is or what happened to his request. Experienced hobbyists seem to respectfully check back a few times and don't take things personally.
Another thing that can be a problem is when potential clients try to communicate in different ways...emails, texts, and pms. I swear, I've had potential clients do all three, email, pm, and text without ever telling me that they've already reached out to me via _____, or that they might also contact me via ____.
Personally, I DO tell people that I won't see them and why. Because there's always a real reason why I've decided not to see them and I hope they can learn from it and move on.
efore you spend time finding someone else on short notice, just ping her and ask whether you passed her verification and if you are confirmed for the appointment time. A gentle reminder sometimes is all it takes. Good luck!
Please pm me--cannot pm to an alias
Just click on the alias and send your pm
but not by clicking.
Just copy and paste the alias name. Go to mail. Click "Compose" and paste the alias name. Now you can start your pm to them.
Especially when traveling/touring, the girls get busy... Or maybe ur info went into spam... Or maybe u didn't meet her criteria... Or maybe she's waiting on ur references to get back to them (that has happened to me) Don't sweat it.... Let's face it Some hobbyists don't have the concept of "give enough notice for appointments...".... We all don't sit around twiddling our thumps....
Good luck!!!!
Gc
There are those reasons for sure and Gemma is correct. Sometimes it takes a while to get the references and not only the provider needs them but you do too. You want to make sure that that fun event will be perfect. I will say that "early notice" is very difficult to manage sometimes. We do have personal, regular lives. As for myself I am going to school. Now I have been focusing on that full time but my phone blows up constantly still. I try to be kind and understand peoples schedules as we have are hectic. Be patient and look up others as well to fit your schedule. I hope you have good luck and lots of fun!
Love
Zana
Good luck!!!!
Gc
1. Recognize that our hobby is a unique blend of business and dating. Dating has certain elements of communication which include just ignoring someone you don't want to see. May not be your preferred thing (you want a decline of a business proposal). I think few ladies will operate that way.
2. I go into my dating plan with a multiple options. To 'suicide' on one gal can mess things up. I'll bet all of us had it happen.
3. For a lighter side of this issue, see my post a few days ago on laughing at yourself.
Happy Hobbying!
Now been almost 2 days and date is coming up in less than a day.
She has not responded at all...
Just posting to let ladies know our time is important too.
If your not interested just say so and I can search again... now its going to be a short notice date and no one likes that.
FYI, used Alias in case there is a good reason she has not responded,
back to the drawing board!