Have been "paying for it" since I joined the military at 18.  Able to have a girl(s) in every port of call.  It is a monetary fact, we all must pay for pussy. I just prefer to pay up front on an agreed service for an agreed price. Face it - spending hundreds courting a girl who will be so great in bed (in your mind) but when that moment comes, your disappointed. Now, how do you cut your losses without being an insensitive asshole. In today's technology, with a service like TER, you can make every connection  a home run. Find exactly what you want for that secret festish and read reviews to see if you like how things may go for you.  
I have been a whoremonger over 30 years. I've had women in many countries around the world. Mostly Southeastern Asia; Hawaii, Korea, Singapore, Japan, Thailand and my most favorite, where I lived for over four years, the Philippines. I speak, read and write Tagalog which made my incorporation into the most behind the scenes life of all the red light district bars and hostesses.  I was King and it was good. I was 22-26 years old there, my prime!  On a modest estimate, I went to bed with over 624 girls in that time.  It was cheap, only $12.50 for a Barfine for a girl for 24 hours basically.  I had more threesomes than I could count and even 5 girls (all bi) on the night of my 25th birthday.  Plus all the others throughout my sexual career, likely around the 725 mark now. I still get out using TER or similar, about twice a month. I have had great encounters, but only by luck, on my own choosing from escort sites. But TER ensures odds all in my favor and I like that. Don't have time or money to waste. I still love my asian women, then latina, extremely fine Black and for some reason, lastly,  Caucasian (like myself).  So happy hunting out there gents. Being, kind, respectful and a generous gentleman has always gained me the best service a provider has to offer.  And being real good at sex and pleasing even the most experienced providers, keeps me at the top of many provider's listing !