Let me just preface this by saying that if you don’t have a wife….well I got nothin’ for ya.  

As history would say, women have a penchant for the dramatic. We’re overly sensitive and we can easily blow things out of proportion. I’d like to say that I don’t believe this to be true. I firmly believe it’s due to an unequal balance of libido pleasing in the bedroom. Historically female hysteria was a once made medical diagnosis made exclusively in women. Women considered to have it exhibited a wide array of symptoms including faintness, nervousness, sexual desire, insomnia, fluid retention, heaviness in the abdomen, muscle spasm, shortness of breath, irritability, loss of appetite for food or sex, and a "tendency to cause trouble."  

In extreme cases, the woman might be forced to enter an insane asylum or to undergo surgical hysterectomy. Female hysteria was often attributed to sexual frustration, with females being unable to reduce stress via vaginal intercourse, this led to physicians recommending private clitoral stimulation at home. Women unable to do so on their own received relief via a genital massage from a physician, although this caused a concern in the medical community, who would invent the vibrator to do the massage for them. The vibrator later became a commercial product, so women who had little knowledge of how their bodies work, could relieve sexual frustration at home. By the 20th century, female hysteria was a thing of the past, as vibrators became widespread and non-sexual frustration symptoms were attributed to other problems. [Source: Wikipedia]

Now, how do I help you cure this problem in your SO and your ATF? By offering you some very good lessons on how to make that happen.  

You have problems that you just can’t handle all the demand that she puts on you. You want to satisfy her. You want her screaming from the rooftops proclaiming how good you give it to her. There are ways to do that, and I know a very good teacher.  

I am the teacher and she is me.  

Step 1: Spend Your Money

The key to using a vibrator to enhance your partner’s sexual pleasure is to determine what type, size, and um…horse power you’re looking for. If your partner can orgasm with the brush of a feather on her clit you’re not going to need anything too strenuous to make her flood your bed like the Red Sea flowing back together after Moses parted it.  

What you need to do is visit an adult novelty store, or even shop on Amazon and buy her a gift that is sure to get her juices flowing. Once you’ve got the gift in hand there’s one thing to always remember.

Don’t forget the damn batteries.  
Step 2: Set The Mood

You know just as well as I do that women like to have the mood set. When you’re letting your girl get her groove on with a man made piece of pussy pleasure you don’t want the mood to be off because you’ve got the wrong lighting, music, or wine.  

Do a little homework. Make it sexy. Don’t skimp on the prep. Yes, it might be redundant to say this, but 99% of our pleasure is mental. If you go out of your way to set the scene she’s going to be already in the mood. You’re not going to have to work too hard, wait…wait…wait…you’re not going to be working at all since you bought a battery operated boyfriend for your girl to ride like it’s the homecoming prom float and she’s the only princess.  

So make sure you’ve got some good pussy pleasing music on, the lights down low, and her favorite wine. Let her have a moment to process this before you tell her in no uncertain terms that tonight it’s all about her. (Or me, you could say this to me just saying because I wouldn’t be offended AT ALL).  

Step 3: Let Her Have Her Way With It.

Don’t try to dictate what your boo does at all. Sit back, tell her she’s beautiful. I mean, don’t just say “You’re beautiful.” You need to let her know in no uncertain terms that you do not want her to be shy. She needs to feel empowered by her pleasure. “I want to watch you cum over and over again. I want you relaxed and glowing. You are your most beautiful when your face is flushed when you orgasm.”

That’s the way to make a woman uninhibited. Give her the toy(s), set the mood, tell her she is beautiful. Are you following along?

Step 4: Remove Yourself.  

Whether you leave the room, sit across on a chair, slide to the end of the bed, allow her the space to have her way with her new battery operated boyfriend. While she’s doing it, do not tell her anything about how hot it’s making you. This is about her, remember? This isn’t about how her pleasure is turning you on. This is about how her pleasure makes her beautiful, how her pleasure lets you know she’s happy. This is about her experiencing the voyeuristic pleasure of having her pleasure while she has an audience. This is about making sure she knows you love that she’s so happy and content. Don’t pull out your dick. Don’t stroke yourself.  

Don’t take the focus away from her and put it on you. Keep it where it belongs.

Step 5: Ask Permission

Once your lady has exhausted herself, made herself cum, pleasured her pussy, rode that horse down and is sated and pleased with herself ask her if you can stroke yourself. Don’t put yourself in her space. Stroke yourself and tell her a story. Tell her how watching her made you feel. Tell her that when she stroked her clit and slid her middle finger into her pussy then licked her cum off you wanted to jump off the bed and ravage her but more than that you wanted her to cum, cum, cum.

If she wants to help you get off she will. If she doesn’t, then she won’t. Don’t pressure her. Allow her to have the option of stroking your dick with her magical hands, or get it done yourself.  

The key here is to share a sensual sexual experience with your partner where you aren’t the center of attention, but will have the greatest satisfaction.  

 
When I am not on tour I am available in Jacksonville, Florida with 24 hours notice.  

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