Boo. Have the day off on my birthday today and the provider just cancelled on me. I know stuff happens. Not her fault. Just so disappointed. Hard to find last minute appointments out there. 
Thanks... yeah, I've sent out a bunch of emails and texts, etc. in the last hour. Looks like it's not gonna happen. I can't tell you how depressing that is. Totally prepared for a great time, and then nothing.
I totally understand providers not wanting to take on a new client same day. Just wish I would have made my original booking with someone else now.
Ok, enough of the pity party. Happy Friday everyone! Hope you all have a great one!
Have you tried contacting ladies you've seen? That way you can skip the screening process. (in most cases) Unfortunately this happens to be a holiday weekend as well & a lot of folks are preparing for it. Heading out of town, friends & relatives arriving, cooking, shopping... I'm SPENT! Lol!
Again I'm sorry. Last minute cancellations always suck & what horrible timing! Good luck to you. I really do hope you find a replacement. Who knows? This may be a blessing in disguise for you. Crossing my fingers.
I hope you enjoy it to the fullest .
Xo V.
I now have VIP. I hope you have a fantastic day!!
hope u find some birthday loving.....
sweet karley 
So he actually booked with you and then canceled? I was kind of feeling for the guy. But now..... bummer.
And I'm going to bet, as the excitement of multiple options rose in his pants and over-ruled his good manners, that he made the wrong little-headed choice
Attempted to book with me too and then canceled... Said his whole day got screwed up...
Whatever, it's not a big deal or anything to be sad about.
Ouch! Looks like my sympathies were missdirected. Sorry ladies. Sounds like a MAJOR case of double, or ahem... triple booking. I hope after this conversation he will be motivated to offer a reasonable negotiation to compensate you for your troubles.
It would be a great courtesy to fellow providers "IF" multiple booking did occur for the lady he did see to come forward privately or otherwise to confirm this was the case.
It would be nice to know if his reviews are fake too.
Not speculating on if they're fake .
But if I had a dollar for every person that pussyfoots around and doesn't follow through... Oh wait I do! That's why I keep a special file for people like that...
It's called spam & it gets deleted .
I'm glad he canceled because then I wouldn't of gotten to see my hobby crush yesterday and have all that sexy fun one can only have when they really know & like each other.
V.
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I thought everyone had one, don't they ? Hehe .
Anyway his loss from all of us that were emailed and canceled on. Xoxo V
Why is it any of your business who he ended up seeing? Or if he didn't see anyone at all for that matter.
I agree about the double booking issue but that goes both ways.
Just don't see why you need to know who he saw...and couching it in those words ("a great courtesy to fellow providers") to get a provider to share info about her customer...
I know you ladies talk about clients but jeez, give it a rest really.
This provider (if there was one) likely did not have any issues with him so why would she want to out him with you?
I never said you ever overbooked, etc...no sense beating a dead horse as I'm not De**...
I see you chose not to answer the questions (i.e., avoided answering the questions) about why YOU need to know who it is that he saw as well as why the provider who he saw should PM you?
How about this, I'll give you the answer here...
He saw my sister! Do you want her name?
Do you offer to compensate any guys if you overbook, double book by accident, are running late, etc. for OUR troubles?
I have NEVER over or double booked & YES I do offer & hold true to to my word compensating when I am running late.
Now will you please return to your cage. Life was SOOOOO peaceful here while you were in captivity.
Despite what you think most of us don't do that .
And actually yes I do compensate but I'm not inclined to give a discount or whatnot every single time someone complains about something I can't control and no I'm not gonna ask them to compensate me because I'd rather not see someone who writes fake reviews for a free VIP....
The customer is NOT always right.
It's that type of self entitlement attitude that's ruining businesses across the country by making workers unhappy to be at their jobs & resentful.
It doesn't give you the right to treat people however you want as if they don't have other things to do, I've already stated how it's not a big deal and nothing to be sad about HOWEVER that may not of been the case for others he's contacted .
Notice how he hasn't come here to say anything ?
Yeah, I have zero sympathy for rude behavior.
I don't care if it's your birthday, mine was completely ignored for several years and no one here has once said one iota as far as wishing me a happy birthday goes ( not that I care anymore mind you.
This last one I TRIED to have was ruined by some idiots doing a drive by shooting near the restaurant I was trying to celebrate at with friends . So, I just decided to forget it entirely.
Don't mean to get personal here but to take advantage of the kindness of several ladies here including myself was bullshit and you know it and he does too so, unless you're the OP I don't think you insulting Leann like that was helpful let alone necessary .
Carry on...
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Especially about your sentence...
"It doesn't give you the right to treat people however you want as if they don't have other things to do."
Re Leeann's original words that I commented on, it just rubbed me the wrong way about her wanting the provider who saw him to PM her. Seems it's a bit nosy and really none of her business.
I certainly would never visit any provider who outed me for no reason. Maybe he saw someone and was a model client...we just don't know.
It's one thing for you all to gang up on him because he may (or may not) have made and cancelled an appointment with 1, 2, or more of you. Maybe he was being childish and did do that as a payback for the one who cancelled on him. If so, shame on him but that doesn't give anyone else the right to know who he saw.
Just FYI but I've never been in this situation with overbooking.
I have had 2-3 cancellations over the years (family issues) but the provider always contacted me before our appointment time AND I always saw them subsequently.
And actually yes I do compensate but I'm not inclined to give a discount or whatnot every single time someone complains about something I can't control and no I'm not gonna ask them to compensate me because I'd rather not see someone who writes fake reviews for a free VIP....
The customer is NOT always right.
It's that type of self entitlement attitude that's ruining businesses across the country by making workers unhappy to be at their jobs & resentful.
It doesn't give you the right to treat people however you want as if they don't have other things to do, I've already stated how it's not a big deal and nothing to be sad about HOWEVER that may not of been the case for others he's contacted .
Notice how he hasn't come here to say anything ?
Yeah, I have zero sympathy for rude behavior.
I don't care if it's your birthday, mine was completely ignored for several years and no one here has once said one iota as far as wishing me a happy birthday goes ( not that I care anymore mind you.
This last one I TRIED to have was ruined by some idiots doing a drive by shooting near the restaurant I was trying to celebrate at with friends . So, I just decided to forget it entirely.
Don't mean to get personal here but to take advantage of the kindness of several ladies here including myself was bullshit and you know it and he does too so, unless you're the OP I don't think you insulting Leann like that was helpful let alone necessary .
Carry on...
-- Modified on 4/20/2014 5:46:57 PM
I didn't ask that "I" specifically be notified. READ before you post! "I" don't need to be informed because "I" have already DNS'd the guy writing him off as a potential timewaster.
Secondly, providers know why I would encourage such communication among ladies under these circumstances & most hobbyists with 1/2 a brain would as well. So as far as I'm concerned you question wasn't worthy of an answer.
Anymore stupid questions?
Wad!!!!! Where's that Bait video! I think just took a huge bite of the worm
Who else would the provider 'privately' contact other than you Queen Bee wanna be?
You sure seem to care a lot about someone who you already put on your list and classified as a potential time waster! Why is that?That's kind of ironic as that is exactly how I see you...a timewaster. So glad I put YOU on my list long ago!
Yeah I do have 1 more STUPID question...how do I get your image out of my brain???
Secondly, providers know why I would encourage such communication among ladies under these circumstances & most hobbyists with 1/2 a brain would as well. So as far as I'm concerned you question wasn't worthy of an answer.
Anymore stupid questions?
Wad!!!!! Where's that Bait video! I think just took a huge bite of the worm!
Oh that's an easy one. Here's what ya do babe. See that little light blue button at the bottom of this message that says "ignore user?" No,no,no silly! Not the second one from the left! The one on the far right! Now click on it. (purdy please?!) Poof! I'm gone!
You have an awesome week now sweetiepie. Mwah!!!
Yeah I do have 1 more STUPID question...how do I get your image out of my brain???
So kind...so helpful...love it.
Kisses back to you.
Enjoy our great weather...maybe you'll see a client outdoors! Don't forget that sunscreen if you do, wouldn't want you to burn.
You have an awesome week now sweetiepie. Mwah!!!
Yeah I do have 1 more STUPID question...how do I get your image out of my brain???
Then why do you care and why insult her ?
Sometimes Oldtimer.....*sigh.*
"It doesn't give you the right to treat people however you want as if they don't have other things to do."
Re Leeann's original words that I commented on, it just rubbed me the wrong way about her wanting the provider who saw him to PM her. Seems it's a bit nosy and really none of her business.
I certainly would never visit any provider who outed me for no reason. Maybe he saw someone and was a model client...we just don't know.
It's one thing for you all to gang up on him because he may (or may not) have made and cancelled an appointment with 1, 2, or more of you. Maybe he was being childish and did do that as a payback for the one who cancelled on him. If so, shame on him but that doesn't give anyone else the right to know who he saw.
Just FYI but I've never been in this situation with overbooking.
I have had 2-3 cancellations over the years (family issues) but the provider always contacted me before our appointment time AND I always saw them subsequently.
And actually yes I do compensate but I'm not inclined to give a discount or whatnot every single time someone complains about something I can't control and no I'm not gonna ask them to compensate me because I'd rather not see someone who writes fake reviews for a free VIP....
The customer is NOT always right.
It's that type of self entitlement attitude that's ruining businesses across the country by making workers unhappy to be at their jobs & resentful.
It doesn't give you the right to treat people however you want as if they don't have other things to do, I've already stated how it's not a big deal and nothing to be sad about HOWEVER that may not of been the case for others he's contacted .
Notice how he hasn't come here to say anything ?
Yeah, I have zero sympathy for rude behavior.
I don't care if it's your birthday, mine was completely ignored for several years and no one here has once said one iota as far as wishing me a happy birthday goes ( not that I care anymore mind you.
This last one I TRIED to have was ruined by some idiots doing a drive by shooting near the restaurant I was trying to celebrate at with friends . So, I just decided to forget it entirely.
Don't mean to get personal here but to take advantage of the kindness of several ladies here including myself was bullshit and you know it and he does too so, unless you're the OP I don't think you insulting Leann like that was helpful let alone necessary .
Carry on...
-- Modified on 4/20/2014 5:46:57 PM
V,
I don't care that much...just thought she was wrong...but I can't stand some of her PC BS and holier than thou attitude..everyone has to agree with her...whatever.
How did I insult her? She called me names and attacked me. I was only trying to make a point. Whether she got it (or anyone else for that matter) is immaterial.
Sometimes Oldtimer.....*sigh.*
"It doesn't give you the right to treat people however you want as if they don't have other things to do."
Re Leeann's original words that I commented on, it just rubbed me the wrong way about her wanting the provider who saw him to PM her. Seems it's a bit nosy and really none of her business.
I certainly would never visit any provider who outed me for no reason. Maybe he saw someone and was a model client...we just don't know.
It's one thing for you all to gang up on him because he may (or may not) have made and cancelled an appointment with 1, 2, or more of you. Maybe he was being childish and did do that as a payback for the one who cancelled on him. If so, shame on him but that doesn't give anyone else the right to know who he saw.
Just FYI but I've never been in this situation with overbooking.
I have had 2-3 cancellations over the years (family issues) but the provider always contacted me before our appointment time AND I always saw them subsequently.
And actually yes I do compensate but I'm not inclined to give a discount or whatnot every single time someone complains about something I can't control and no I'm not gonna ask them to compensate me because I'd rather not see someone who writes fake reviews for a free VIP....
The customer is NOT always right.
It's that type of self entitlement attitude that's ruining businesses across the country by making workers unhappy to be at their jobs & resentful.
It doesn't give you the right to treat people however you want as if they don't have other things to do, I've already stated how it's not a big deal and nothing to be sad about HOWEVER that may not of been the case for others he's contacted .
Notice how he hasn't come here to say anything ?
Yeah, I have zero sympathy for rude behavior.
I don't care if it's your birthday, mine was completely ignored for several years and no one here has once said one iota as far as wishing me a happy birthday goes ( not that I care anymore mind you.
This last one I TRIED to have was ruined by some idiots doing a drive by shooting near the restaurant I was trying to celebrate at with friends . So, I just decided to forget it entirely.
Don't mean to get personal here but to take advantage of the kindness of several ladies here including myself was bullshit and you know it and he does too so, unless you're the OP I don't think you insulting Leann like that was helpful let alone necessary .
Carry on...
-- Modified on 4/20/2014 5:46:57 PM
For someone with "class" who "don't care that much" and is totally opposed to "beating a dead horse".. You sure love to drag others into your lies and drama and bringing up people not even involved in a thread.
I don't care that much...just thought she was wrong...but I can't stand some of her PC BS and holier than thou attitude..everyone has to agree with her...whatever.
I'll celebrate your birthday with ya lover! And I am so glad things worked out for you & the Easter bunny brought you a basket of pleasure! Yup! An example how disappointments are sometimes a blessing in disguise.
Mwah!!!
Come September ...
Xoxo, Thank you !
Damn OTB!!!
I have to give you credit, I haven't seen a mob this angry since Frankenstein. Quite an accomplishment
What did I do?
I just feel sorry for the guy who couldn't celebrate his bday with someone he wanted to!
I have to give you credit, I haven't seen a mob this angry since Frankenstein. Quite an accomplishment.
I don't anymore... He ruined that all by himself lol !
Let this be a lesson gentlemen that you just should not send out a shitton of emails to providers but rather a relatively small number like 2 if you aren't gonna follow through .
I rarely take last minute arrangements for people I've never met and this just reminded me why I made that decision many years ago & should stick to it from now on. Oh well. Xo V.
This is why I love a city full of FS Amps.. I'm not 20 anymore, I don't know if next Monday at 5pm if I'm gonna be in the mood for anything more then a beer and a game of pool.
When I'm looking, nice to just hop in the car pop in, get off, rinse and repeat until satisfied, go home.
I wasn't angry at all, I'm simply annoyed at the fact someone had the nerve to insult someone else for no reason.
Also, where is this alleged birthday boy ?
I'm now without a doubt very SKEPTICAL of his reviews.
Xo V.
I have to give you credit, I haven't seen a mob this angry since Frankenstein. Quite an accomplishment.
Wow,,, I wonder how many more providers he did this with
so rude JEEEEESH
Hazards of the Industry
Hope you name isn't "Dan or Dave" who's birthday was Monday who cancelled
on me because I didn't give you directions days in advance nor give you a phone number as I am email only. I only give directions the night before to my incall which is customary by many of the providers.
Yeeesh.... the periodic headaches of this industry. But if that wasn't you... and you got cancelled and you didn't short notice cancel on other providers and you don't short notice cancel on others... then, and only then, I am very sorry.
& Happy Birthday!!!! And celebrate it by playing in your special birth month of April.
I rarely ever get any cancellations... maybe one out of 200 appointments short notice cancel... & I am grateful!
Sometimes I make a mistake or the guy makes an honest mistake... this happens and these things don't count. Usually short notice cancels have good reasons, so far in my experience.
One thing I am guilty of is not answering all my emails in a timely manner! So sorry about that!
Every moment, every second of life is so precious and worth so much more than any amount of money can buy... just to be alive with a beating heart dancing in the realm of sexy.. how fortunate we are to seize the day for all it's worth in a moment, when we have that chance and to honor this in each other as we meet.
I was a little stressed in the morning of our appointment, Elan, only cuz I did not know where to go and our appointment was early. Of course directions were given and I was early lol.
Why do you have such a high cancellation rate? That's one in your first year?
Happy belated anniversary...you have greatly improved the Minnesota market singlehandey!
Hazards of the Industry
Hope you name isn't "Dan or Dave" who's birthday was Monday who cancelled
on me because I didn't give you directions days in advance nor give you a phone number as I am email only. I only give directions the night before to my incall which is customary by many of the providers.
Yeeesh.... the periodic headaches of this industry. But if that wasn't you... and you got cancelled and you didn't short notice cancel on other providers and you don't short notice cancel on others... then, and only then, I am very sorry.
& Happy Birthday!!!! And celebrate it by playing in your special birth month of April.
I rarely ever get any cancellations... maybe one out of 200 appointments short notice cancel... & I am grateful!
Sometimes I make a mistake or the guy makes an honest mistake... this happens and these things don't count. Usually short notice cancels have good reasons, so far in my experience.
One thing I am guilty of is not answering all my emails in a timely manner! So sorry about that!
Every moment, every second of life is so precious and worth so much more than any amount of money can buy... just to be alive with a beating heart dancing in the realm of sexy.. how fortunate we are to seize the day for all it's worth in a moment, when we have that chance and to honor this in each other as we meet.