I've been watching a lot of porn, and in several of these vignettes, the gentlemen callers use language that is far, far from polite when addressing the lass. As it happens, this nasty talk makes my dick twitch, and I fantasize about repeating the words and phrases I've heard in the blue movies.
That said, given the scenarios at play in the TER kingdom, I'm concerned that a provider my not be pleased were I to suggest that she 'suck my daddy cock like the dirty little whore that you are', etc etc etc.
Do most providers understand that this is fantasy play, or would such terms of endearment give pause to the fair maiden, and thus prompt her to remove my penis from her throat?
What say you ladies? Is this sort of coarse, nasty language A-OK, or not? Punters: How have your nasty terms of endearment been received?
some ladies love dirty talk and others do not like it. For myself, the quickest way for me to turn cold as ice is to use the word "cunt". I don't like that word. I think it is a dirty nasty derogatory word and I just despise it. I also do not like references such as "daddy cock" , etc. Too many negative connotations for me.
Like I said though, different strokes for different folks.
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I tend to shock others (in a good way) i get so hot, the words that come out of my mouth are very unladylike. But the gents LOVE it. Sure, i would enjoy it.. as long as i knew previously this is your fantasy and your not just coming off as a aggressive human. Normally dirty talk tends to turn into rough play, which i'm not a huge fan of. Be nice to my kitty and listen to her soft sweet puuurrrs.
-Meow
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But it might be better to ask about it in-person with providers you have already seen and are comfortable with.
Not only do I Welcome it, I ENCOURAGE it, of course if my partner is cool with talking naughty
And there are trigger words and phrases that REALLY do it for ME..... To hear.....so I often say...tell me this, or say this,
Because then I hear EXACTLY what gets me turned on 
I love it when a guy knows they can have the freedom to talk how they want to with me and they know I'm not judging them or thinking WTF.....
That said, given the scenarios at play in the TER kingdom, I'm concerned that a provider my not be pleased were I to suggest that she 'suck my daddy cock like the dirty little whore that you are', etc etc etc.
Do most providers understand that this is fantasy play, or would such terms of endearment give pause to the fair maiden, and thus prompt her to remove my penis from her throat?
What say you ladies? Is this sort of coarse, nasty language A-OK, or not? Punters: How have your nasty terms of endearment been received?
.... a guy "slipped" the n-word once in the heat of the moment and needless to say he almost got beat to death (kidding .... kind of).
Now .... "you like this white cock you sexy black bitch" just might make me wetter. I like it dirty, vulgar, crass just uhhhh be a little careful.
Personally ... words such as whore, slut, bitch are like salt .... can enhance the flavor but use them sparingly lol.
I like that. =) I don't mind dirty talk as long as I feel safe. And one thing that's fact about me I've never met my father
& never will, I've also never grown up with a father figure...so any "daddy terms" don't bother me at all.
~Mindy
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I don't call mine daddy so it's not really a problem for me either .
Personally I feel awkward when dirty talking but if I know them somewhat well I might ...
I understand that there are different strokes however; I can not and will not ever be able to understand why any man could get excited about berating or deeply insulting a woman who has invited you to have sex with her.
My fantasy is falling in love for an hour and going back to my real life with that precious memory lingering. Dirty is fun, I set apts with one favorite lady by leaving a message "what would you say to a little fuck?" she will wright back "hey little fuck" may things are said that would get bleeped on TV but "suck my cock like the dirty whore... " What pleasure does anyone get out of that.
It is degrading, it can only be degrading. If a provider is OK with it then she OK with being degraded. The daddy stuff is really bad because a disproportionate number of ladies in this business have experienced abuse in their young life.
'Suck my cock like you are mad at it', or a whisper 'are you going to give me that sweet little pussy'
leave her daddy out of it. I have met a number of very hot lovers, don't know and dirty whores.
Ladies; if the only way a guy can get excited is by degrading or hurting you, walk away
YOU DESIRVE BETTER.
A little "whose your daddy" talk is pretty harmless & words like "big daddy" too are harmless....
Now taking on other phrasing like "sweet little pussy" & placing daddy words are -yes creepy- I feel I just need to clarify I'm cool w/light "daddy talk"......
Cheyen makes a good point,
I actually never thought of the whole abuse thing & I'm sorry if I've offended anyone.
....has his opinions but they are not shared by all here as anyone can plainly see. The keys are intent and context. I know people who play in the BDSM realm and their language and activities are often times judged harshly as abuse when it is really lack of understanding by those doing the judging. The bottom line is that abuse requires an intent to do harm and dirty talk in intimacy between two consenting adults is up to them, PERIOD! In most cases it's not the words that are disrespectful, it's the attitude and intent behind those words. It's a crucial difference that is lost on many who are quick to judge others. So, you just keep having fun and making more of us Mindyians.
Look at the last couple hundred years here in America...progress is being made albeit slowly.
My fantasy is falling in love for an hour and going back to my real life with that precious memory lingering. Dirty is fun, I set apts with one favorite lady by leaving a message "what would you say to a little fuck?" she will wright back "hey little fuck" may things are said that would get bleeped on TV but "suck my cock like the dirty whore... " What pleasure does anyone get out of that.
It is degrading, it can only be degrading. If a provider is OK with it then she OK with being degraded. The daddy stuff is really bad because a disproportionate number of ladies in this business have experienced abuse in their young life.
'Suck my cock like you are mad at it', or a whisper 'are you going to give me that sweet little pussy'
leave her daddy out of it. I have met a number of very hot lovers, don't know and dirty whores.
Ladies; if the only way a guy can get excited is by degrading or hurting you, walk away
YOU DESIRVE BETTER.
I don't mind if people call me a whore. I don't find it particularly dirty or sexy, though, just descriptive. Like if I served coffee and you called me a barista.
My fantasy is falling in love for an hour and going back to my real life with that precious memory lingering. Dirty is fun, I set apts with one favorite lady by leaving a message "what would you say to a little fuck?" she will wright back "hey little fuck" may things are said that would get bleeped on TV but "suck my cock like the dirty whore... " What pleasure does anyone get out of that.
It is degrading, it can only be degrading. If a provider is OK with it then she OK with being degraded. The daddy stuff is really bad because a disproportionate number of ladies in this business have experienced abuse in their young life.
'Suck my cock like you are mad at it', or a whisper 'are you going to give me that sweet little pussy'
leave her daddy out of it. I have met a number of very hot lovers, don't know and dirty whores.
Ladies; if the only way a guy can get excited is by degrading or hurting you, walk away
YOU DESIRVE BETTER.
supreme court justice Stewart described porn in 1963 by saying 'I know it when I see it'. it is not mean when both people are in on it and it is just fun. I personally love dirty talk teasing, it's fun.
I can't pick words that make it cruel but I don't need to; we are all grown ups. We know it when we see it. What I can not understand is why a man would choose to degrade or insult a provider. At what point does it become OK be mean.
If anyone can not see the line I am referring to and the harm it causes ask the ladies to describe their most belligerent customer. if the story doesn't make you angry then you may be the problem
I know that most of us are very grateful to be able to see the ladies know , there is no reason to be mean..
just say'en
.....what this thread was about. Words are not the problem imho. I can cut someone emotionally and never use a "dirty" word because it is the intent of what I say, not the words themselves. No one here was condoning true abuse of anyone, provider or client. BTW, I know several women who LOVE being called a "dirty whore" in the heat of passion, but say it to them as a derogatory statement and you'll get your ass kicked.
My fantasy is falling in love for an hour and going back to my real life with that precious memory lingering. Dirty is fun, I set apts with one favorite lady by leaving a message "what would you say to a little fuck?" she will wright back "hey little fuck" may things are said that would get bleeped on TV but "suck my cock like the dirty whore... " What pleasure does anyone get out of that.
It is degrading, it can only be degrading. If a provider is OK with it then she OK with being degraded. The daddy stuff is really bad because a disproportionate number of ladies in this business have experienced abuse in their young life.
'Suck my cock like you are mad at it', or a whisper 'are you going to give me that sweet little pussy'
leave her daddy out of it. I have met a number of very hot lovers, don't know and dirty whores.
Ladies; if the only way a guy can get excited is by degrading or hurting you, walk away
YOU DESIRVE BETTER.