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MasterZen 33 Reviews 273 reads
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you gotta find a way to look in the mirror honestly.

In thread after thread, the ladies ALL say that attitude (respect) and hygiene are most important. Sometimes body parts don't fit together very well, either... a schlong like an anaconda may not get that trip to Greece.  

Don't do it the same way over and over expecting a different result. Why not simply ask a few gals you have seen

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I get so frustrated doing all my (suggested) research on a lady, finding out her do's and don'ts and then agreeing to her donation requirements, (usually $500 plus an hour), and then getting there and she's unwilling or unable to provide all the listed things on her menu.  I mean shi*t, we talked about it, I told you I want to do XYZ, you told me you enjoyed XYZ, and now were here together and you've had a change of heart.  

Well I can't get any of my donation back, and you offer me a next time discount.

I call bullshit...........

Guys how do you prevent or decrease this from happening???

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SimplyGFE01510 reads

Take a course on research.  If this is happening to you consistently, you are doing something wrong.  I would say...stay off of backpage but at 500 plus an hour, thats definitely not the issue.  Where are you finding so many non conforming women at 500 plus an hour anyway?

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seeker000316 reads

ead her reviews and don't just look at the "services offered" section of her profile.  Look to see that she actually provided the services you're interested in.  If still unsure, PM a few reviewers and ask them specifically.  Also, once verified, have an open conversation with the provider about what she's willing to do.  Let her know that you only booked with her because you want those specific services.  Besides that I don't know how else to thoroughly determine a provider's actual services.

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MissMarieM573 reads

"an open conversation about what she's willing to do."  This is the US- we literally can not have a negotiation like that.  I would worry about a provider who would- she's total arrest bait and I wouldn't want anywhere near that.  The only agreement allowed is "you get what you get."
That's why well-reviewed is so important- odds are good you'll get what they got.  If you want a guarantee, talk to your state senators/state representative and get that fixed.  

AFTER VERIFIED, I think it would be good to send something mentioning what he likes, saying that's what he's always wanted etc, etc.  

Or, I get a lot of "Mr____'s review sounded amazing..." and I get the picture.  ;)

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AlexandraMilw212 reads

and I agree with seeker about pming some of her past reviewers to see if she does in fact offer what you are looking for.

You would think if it is listed on menu, it would be a given. Not nice to take things off the table once you are there and already paid.  

Posted By: MissMarieM
"an open conversation about what she's willing to do."  This is the US- we literally can not have a negotiation like that.  I would worry about a provider who would- she's total arrest bait and I wouldn't want anywhere near that.  The only agreement allowed is "you get what you get."  
 That's why well-reviewed is so important- odds are good you'll get what they got.  If you want a guarantee, talk to your state senators/state representative and get that fixed.  
   
 AFTER VERIFIED, I think it would be good to send something mentioning what he likes, saying that's what he's always wanted etc, etc.    
   
 Or, I get a lot of "Mr____'s review sounded amazing..." and I get the picture.  ;)

-- Modified on 6/17/2015 11:16:32 AM

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LeilaniChicago353 reads

You need to see me....you won't be disappointed ;-)

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MissMarieM424 reads

Could that be the issue?

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Erik_S278 reads

You get what you get and there are never any guarantees. I always think of the first date as partly for making an assessment of our compatibility: what she'll do, sure, but more than that. Make sure you don't spend more than you can easily afford to throw away because that's a setup for getting even more (shall we say) disappointed.

Even reviews can be misleading, unfortunately. Even with girls I don't feel a good connection with (shall we say) I take it as a learning experience. Caveat emptor.

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MasterZen274 reads

you gotta find a way to look in the mirror honestly.

In thread after thread, the ladies ALL say that attitude (respect) and hygiene are most important. Sometimes body parts don't fit together very well, either... a schlong like an anaconda may not get that trip to Greece.  

Don't do it the same way over and over expecting a different result. Why not simply ask a few gals you have seen

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Never.Landed293 reads

If it's Greek, he's either pushy or huge. And most who are too big are told in the appointment so.... Make your own conclusions. Lol

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Zana12345370 reads

You caught my attention... I got distracted for a minute! LOL

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Zana

Posted By: MasterZen
you gotta find a way to look in the mirror honestly.  
   
 In thread after thread, the ladies ALL say that attitude (respect) and hygiene are most important. Sometimes body parts don't fit together very well, either... a schlong like an anaconda may not get that trip to Greece.  
   
 Don't do it the same way over and over expecting a different result. Why not simply ask a few gals you have seen?  
   
   
 

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JamesDeenXXX255 reads

In my experiences, I've receieved some pretty "crucial" info on providers simply by back channeling with other established guys. That's my best advice to you

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