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Re:Question of the hobbiests
lyle_Fordz 3348 reads
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I love to see my lady in pantyhose and heels!

When you arrive at a womans incall for arguements sake lets say an indie since the house set up tends to be different.
Anyways question is this: Do you prefer to be greeted by a woman dressed in a nice outfit (as in everyday look) answer the door in lingerie, or answer the door naked?

Also do you prefer to "get right to it" or to spend sometime to conversing to get aquainted with the woman in front of you (time is of course important, I'm talking those more laid back girls who dont watch the clock) Do you prefer for the girl to be agressive and lead the way or do you prefer to set your own pace.
So its either get on with it and utalize your time tpo the utmost, or take your time and pace at getting on with it.
Two disctinctly different personalies I'm findind. I't would be nice if you guys came with directions, or a note from your wives telling us what you like or don't like. (that of course was a joke, I keep saying about my warped sense of humor!

Don't show up naked, I like to see a woman in everyday clothes or lingerie first so I can let me imagination run wild.

I also like to take my time and get to know each other, maybe even share a glass of wine to help calm my nerves.

Finally, I like it when the woman takes the lead (I'm a very shy dude).

-Placebo

I prefer her to be nicely dressed.  I like to converse initially to get a sense of her personality.  And, I'd prefer to have a lot of foreplay rather than two cups.

Especially if I have seen her before!!!

If I haven't seen the girl before, I'd prefer either lingerie or nicely dressed (better yet, nicely dressed with lingiere on underneath that is exposed just enough to get a hint of the things to come). In this case, I also like spending time getting to know her a little bit in that case. before "gettin' busy". The pace of the encounter follows from the getting to know part.

Now, if it's someone I've seen before, anything goes. I've been all but raped by someone wearing nothing but a smile the second I hit the door. I've also had encounters that played out like the ultimate seduction. In this case, surprise me. Do something that _you_ want to do.

in a sexy, seductive manner.  With lingerie underneath.  Great way to start - a visual treat.

I like to talk for a few minutes, but not too long. I then like the provider to start kissing me. This is usually is a great way to start the sesssion. Then i'll go with the flow.
I hate when I see a provider and she opens the door naked and looks like she just finished with someone else two minutes before I arrived. She should at least spend a few minutes and get dressed.

I prefer to see a girl in lingere or a bikini. I like to check out the goods before the session starts. :)

I do like to have some getting to know you conversation. Nothing too crazy or too lengthy. Something that just gets me to know a little something about the provider.

I love it when the girl is agressive. It makes me feel like she is into the session. I much prefer sessions where I feel the provider enjoys my company just as much as I enjoy her company.

Well, you now have my directions. :)
Just remember to use them when I see you at the end of the week.

Sorry,

But no two hobbyist are the same.  I prefer the conversation and a hot outfit over anything, including the sex.  I think it would be good for the ladies to ask.  The best agencies do and the best indies ask about preferences but meeting.  That is why I will pay the price for indies and others that make time to know me.  Good luck, so of this is psycology.

For me a nice good hug with some lfk sets the tone.  I can tell from that moment how the rest of my time will be spent.  I hope that answers your question.

Buddy

-- Modified on 5/23/2004 8:51:20 PM

lyle_Fordz3349 reads

I love to see my lady in pantyhose and heels!

Part of the enjoyment for me is undressing the woman. (I like to think of it as unwrapping a present... =)   )

Nice lingerie underneath is a welcome touch as well.

Another issue is that if she answers the door naked, part of me instantly wonders how long ago her last session was - a thought that I really don't want in my head at the start of my session.

For the first time a nice sexy dress does the trick.  If we really hit it off then anything goes the second time.

Nicely, but sexily dressed, makeup, the whole bit. Some honest, get to know you, conversation and then lots of sensual and seductive foreplay. For me, this far exceeds any pleasure I would get from the time spent on a 2nd cup.

wow thanks for all the responses! I oftentimes answer the door in lingerie and a silky robe. Then there are times I'm dressed and have the lingerie on underneath. Then there are times that the lingrie doesn't look right under the outfit I picked to wear so I might excuse myself and change into it after some time spent getting to know my guest. Plus I feel leaving you guys in the room to get comfy and also to gather your thoughts, not to mention the anticipation helps set the stage for a great time together. I could never picture myself answering the door naked though (wouldn't want to scare anyone....JUST KIDDING!lol)
Again though thanks for your responses and I welcome many more.

1. The woman naked or wearing a thong and high heels at most.
2. Get right down to it---the time for conversation is when I'm recuperating for another cup.
3. I want her to grab my c**k the minute I walk in and never let go.

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