I don't recall the first one's name, but I can recall her physical features. I pretty much remember each of the women I've seen over the last several years. I've become more selective over time and have been very fortunate to have found a select few women that I have enjoyed being with. One of the benefits of this "hobby" is that I'm not restricted to a certain age range. If someone catches my eye, I'll check out her website, I'll read the general part of any review and see what other info exists on-line. I'm looking for a certain vibe and personality.
Like a number of others, my introduction into this was a result a messy divorce. Several months of no physical contact, stress of the divorce process had taken its toll. I had a major life milestone coming up and figured why not.
Since I really didn't know about all these forums, my searching was very limited. I found a couple of ads of women who I found attractive. Got out to Vegas and the celebration began. Called the first one up, she arrived on time and yep, my first experience with the "Bait n Switch". But since she was there, I just went with it. Horrible experience. But I learned. Next night, called the second one. This time I had learned a few lessons from the first encounter. She showed up on time, and thankfully she was the girl in the photos. Then I learned about "Upsell". It was worth it though.
Forward a few years, after a number of relationships and several relocations. I decided to try again. I had remembered my lessons and took the time to become a whole lot smarter. I've been fortunate that the women who I have met, I've enjoyed being with and vice versa.
And that is how it all began...
After mourning the death of my wife for several years, I missed female companionship and the intimacy of sex. I tried the Match.com route and met several women but they were too old (like me) and I couldn't get enthused. I found TER and that got me started. I chose a low profile escort who claimed to be 50. Not many women stated their true age in real life let alone in the pay for play world. It turned out that she was that age and beautiful and sexy. She clued me in about the escort business. She told me about the verification sites. We hit if off and I still communicate with her and we are good friends. I have never had any real problems with the small number of ladies I give my business too. One lovely fav of mine got a boy friend who thought that we were too close as friends and made her quit seeing me. Now there is a guy with some real self esteem problems. I am 30 some years older than him and just an ordinary guy. Now I see a select few escorts and I love them all. Two have retired and I even see one of them OTC. I had only one meeting that I was not all that impressed with and never went back. She was at least 10-15 years older than she advertised. Now some years later she still claims to the same age. The hobby I found after my wife died has been very good for me.
I don't recall the first one's name, but I can recall her physical features. I pretty much remember each of the women I've seen over the last several years. I've become more selective over time and have been very fortunate to have found a select few women that I have enjoyed being with. One of the benefits of this "hobby" is that I'm not restricted to a certain age range. If someone catches my eye, I'll check out her website, I'll read the general part of any review and see what other info exists on-line. I'm looking for a certain vibe and personality.
when i discovered that my husband at that time liked escorts... I became one as a revenge and I make sure that he knew about it. We separated, and... I like it. At least the guys that see me, treat me better and no need to lie about the hobby. LOL
This all started after I became considered legally single. If I'm in a committed relationship I have no interest in seeing someone else. Everyone chooses this lifestyle for their own reasons. Personally, I did it because I was missing the intimacy. Constantly relocating and the demands on my time made it a challenge to be in a relationship.
I will say this for myself, I will spend a considerable amount of time looking before I make contact. I know exactly the traits that interest me. If the chemistry that I'm looking for is there, I will see her on a regular basis.
This sort of story has been on here many times. After 13 years or more of no sex in my marriage, I decided I had to do something about it. This was after about 2 years of expensive strip clubs..
So it was great.. I went nuts.. saw a lot of girls many times and loved them all.. One of them started a special spark and we developed a relationship that still goes on..and I'm still married so I feel pulled in two directions constantly.. the guy at home.. taking out the trash.. going to work and the other guy that is passionately dating a former provider.