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Last night I finally had my second date with a lovely very young SB I met on SA 4 months ago.  We started messaging and texting that long ago and finally agreed to meet for coffee and that in itself was a month ago. Our schedules finally aligned and we met at a bar, had some drinks and food, and then went to a motel for some fantastic sex.  All in all we spent 4 hours together.  It was not particularly cheap: $350 for her plus the bar tab and motel.  But it was a memorable evening with a wonderful young woman.  I certainly got home with a big satisfied grin on my face. She says she loved it and loved being with me and would love to make it a long term Arrangement.  

I felt a bit conspicuous sitting at the bar with such a young woman (21).  As we were leaving, this middle aged dickhead who had been watching us remarked snarkily, "Oh, a Father/Daughter night out?".  I just kept walking and said yeah right.  But my girl overheard it and turned around and planted a huge kiss right on my mouth just to put the jerk in his place.  Gotta love a girl who would do that!

I mention this story because there's been lots of discussion lately regarding SD/SB Arrangements, and the websites which feature them, on these boards.  It is most definitely a big investment of time and energy with any more unknowns and possibly more risk than with a typical Escort date.  But I enjoy the process and when it works out it is really great.  Just wanted to put this positive perspective out there

ShillBill949 reads

The only board that I know it's being discussed on is a private ter board. I don't see it on the LA or Vegas board.  Do you really think escorts are going to enjoy reading about your 4 hr. date for $350 plus room & dinner. I don't think so.  

Posted By: sweetman
Last night I finally had my second date with a lovely very young SB I met on SA 4 months ago.  We started messaging and texting that long ago and finally agreed to meet for coffee and that in itself was a month ago. Our schedules finally aligned and we met at a bar, had some drinks and food, and then went to a motel for some fantastic sex.  All in all we spent 4 hours together.  It was not particularly cheap: $350 for her plus the bar tab and motel.  But it was a memorable evening with a wonderful young woman.  I certainly got home with a big satisfied grin on my face. She says she loved it and loved being with me and would love to make it a long term Arrangement.    
   
 I felt a bit conspicuous sitting at the bar with such a young woman (21).  As we were leaving, this middle aged dickhead who had been watching us remarked snarkily, "Oh, a Father/Daughter night out?".  I just kept walking and said yeah right.  But my girl overheard it and turned around and planted a huge kiss right on my mouth just to put the jerk in his place.  Gotta love a girl who would do that!  
   
 I mention this story because there's been lots of discussion lately regarding SD/SB Arrangements, and the websites which feature them, on these boards.  It is most definitely a big investment of time and energy with any more unknowns and possibly more risk than with a typical Escort date.  But I enjoy the process and when it works out it is really great.  Just wanted to put this positive perspective out there.  
   
 

ATLDAWG711 reads

The gal's are very aware of these arrangements-and in the overall scheme of things probably has zero effect on their business !   Most of us aren't interested in spending a month emailing, messaging, etc... to end up investing $350 or likely more in essentially a one night stand with the possibility of dropping another $350 +++ in the future !!!

Posted By: ShillBill
The only board that I know it's being discussed on is a private ter board. I don't see it on the LA or Vegas board.  Do you really think escorts are going to enjoy reading about your 4 hr. date for $350 plus room & dinner. I don't think so.  
   
Posted By: sweetman
Last night I finally had my second date with a lovely very young SB I met on SA 4 months ago.  We started messaging and texting that long ago and finally agreed to meet for coffee and that in itself was a month ago. Our schedules finally aligned and we met at a bar, had some drinks and food, and then went to a motel for some fantastic sex.  All in all we spent 4 hours together.  It was not particularly cheap: $350 for her plus the bar tab and motel.  But it was a memorable evening with a wonderful young woman.  I certainly got home with a big satisfied grin on my face. She says she loved it and loved being with me and would love to make it a long term Arrangement.    
     
  I felt a bit conspicuous sitting at the bar with such a young woman (21).  As we were leaving, this middle aged dickhead who had been watching us remarked snarkily, "Oh, a Father/Daughter night out?".  I just kept walking and said yeah right.  But my girl overheard it and turned around and planted a huge kiss right on my mouth just to put the jerk in his place.  Gotta love a girl who would do that!  
     
  I mention this story because there's been lots of discussion lately regarding SD/SB Arrangements, and the websites which feature them, on these boards.  It is most definitely a big investment of time and energy with any more unknowns and possibly more risk than with a typical Escort date.  But I enjoy the process and when it works out it is really great.  Just wanted to put this positive perspective out there.  
     
 

I chose to post here in part because I sense that the ladies who are active on the over 60 board are serious providers who have their shit together.  They know who their clientele is and they know who their competition is. And is not.   As ATLDAWG said, the entire SD/SB scene is not likely to have any effect on their business.  A date with a TER provider is a very different thing.  For one, it's a "sure thing".  You gotta be kinda nuts to fool with the amateurs you find on sites like SA.  But I am kinda nuts and I had a good experience and I wanted to share that.  Anybody who wants more info about navigating the weird SA world is welcome to pm me.

Stickythong574 reads

It's come up before and unhappy comments about the competition have been made. Ignoring the conversation is a wise course of action for the providers.

-- Modified on 5/9/2015 10:05:24 AM

If that's true I was unaware of it and I hope I have not offended anyone by bringing up the subject here.  For the record, I'd like to say to all the TER providers I have met over the years:  You are all angels who have enhanced my life immeasurably and you all have my deepest gratitude and respect.

it isn't competition.
there are many ways to p4p.
there is an audience for all of us.

plenty of ladies on ter have sb/sd relationships on the side. thats my goal when i move back to maryland next month.
plenty of ladies on sb/sd sites also have profiles on ter with different photos and persona.

its like ross and marshalls.. they are great and all. i love to shop there, but the experience when i go to nordstrom will always have me going back. depending on my mood and what i am looking for that day, is where i go. sometimes i have mcdonalds coffee, sometimes starbucks.

while men are looking for their sb/sd they will get horny and want some and go to ter to find it.

the list goes on.

short story; there is plenty of all to go around. :)

Which can help me out where to find explantion about Thor abbreviations?
Thanks

ShillBill792 reads

Remember Google is your friend. Another great reference is urban dictionary.  That way you won't have to wait for a reply to your inquiry.

acronyms and abbreviations in the self help center.  If it's not there, just type urban dictionary in the address box of your browser and you will get the whole shebang.

LLAP,
Swim

gregoryb592 reads

Yeah wise guys, in the meantime I found the Urban Dictionary, too haha
Thanks anyway... Gregory

SB's and the ladies here are all invaluable to me.  As I said in the subject line...I've been with my current SB (who is now more like a GF) for 3 years.  It's nice to have someone to go to sleep with, to wake up with, to have a real "relationship" with.  Granted.....I went thru alot of trainwrecks before I found her. But...........she makes me happy.  That said......

I still shop here.  I've developed friendships with certain ladies that I have no desire to end.  One young lady here and I just spoke together tonight....and about the fact that we've been seeing each other for almost 5 years (which is great considering she's just 23 lol).  I consider her a very, very good friend....who I have no desire to stop seeing.  

So.........I no longer have an official, legal SO.  My SB fills that role for me now.  But..........as great as she is.....she can't give me what I find here.

And as far as anyone making a comment.......I make a point that when I see someone staring, I stare back.  And if ever confronted, I already have my answer:  "Are you offended.....or are you jealous."

Great story WP!  I may use that line next time a dickhead makes a comment about me and a very young companion.

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