#1. Greek is not a deal breaker. I would, will and have seen providers who don't offer it. However, after a visit or two to test the chemistry ... I do occasionally enjoy getting a little freaky, but not every time or it wouldn't be special. I consider this experience to be more intimate then most of the other menu options, but that's just my thing.

#2. Yes, I totally understand the need for advance notice.

#3. Yes, I expect to donate a premium for this type of "vacation".    

#4. N/A

#5. No, I am not involved in the hobby specifically for Greek. The honest truth is ... I originally joined the hobby, on a quest, to experience the world's best BBBJ. My reasons for sticking around, now ... have changed.

#6. N/A

These are just my opinions, for what they're worth.

Nutzo

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Very Tantalizing Post

1) Absolutely a bonus, but never a deal breaker
2) Yes and appreciate that women take that time and effort to prepare.
3) More than willing to add to the envelope when the urge rises. But personally I'd prefer if the base rate was slightly higher and I just know its available. Eliminates compensation discussions in middle of date(mood killer)
4) ...
5) Not just for greek, actually very small part of hobby experience.
6) practice makes perfect #willingPracticeDummy

1.)  I am not that into it, so not an issue
2.)  Yes
3.)  Since its not my thing, even if it is offered I don't pony up for it.
4.)
5.)  No
6.)

Mindy, I think nutz and ski covered how those of us who participate feel.  The other camp would be the group that is just not interested in that activity because that area is for outgoing only and they find it gross.  If you need any help practicing before you go public feel free to call.  You'll find my instructional rates very reasonable .

Jaswan, prep is needed to completely clean out the area and make sure no surprises pop (or poop) out during the activity.  Sorry can't be any less graphic than that.  Go back and visit the lady you reviewed I'm sure you're not going to find many better than her at it, or so I'm told.

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to try it, but never have. I am curious!

I like to have the woman I am with enjoy what is going on, so if it is something she really likes then I will do it. I have a girl friend who enjoys it on occasion, so for her I will do it. However, it is really nothing special for me. Mindy, everything you do right now is awesome.

...add to their menu but I wasn't either of their first one. The first one we only lasted a few strokes and she called it off due to discomfort. The second one lasted about 1 1/2 minutes and we also stopped due to her discomfort. If I sense at all that a woman is feeling pain or discomfort I wouldn't want to continue. That's no fun for either of us. One lady, who offers it, warned me about her 3 finger rule.
My impression about the longer lasting session was that it was OK but a pussy feels nicer. I would like to complete a session or three and cum in a woman's butt a few times before I have a true feeling about if it's something I'd want to do regularly. That option has never even weighed in on my decision to see a lady.  
I think most who offer it ask for $50 - $100 but there are many who include it in their base price as was the case with my two. I'm surprised at how many women will offer it on the spot without needing advance preparation. Personally, I can't see how that's possible but everyone is different, I guess.  
Anal sex has become pretty mainstream now and isn't considered the perversion it once was. Butt...I digress...

RE:Greek???

1. It has no bearing on my decision.
2. I understand the need for cleaning and limits.
3. I have seen a lady that always includes it as a standard offering and one that has it as an extra.  I made sure to take advantage of being able to go to the islands with the first and also provided the higher incentive to try it with the other provider, but I only did that once.  Both were quite experienced with it.
4. ***
5. No
6.***

For myself, it is more the idea of being able to visit the islands than actually being there that is the turn-on.  I have found it doesn't feel nearly as good and I end up switching back to regular.

What, what ... in the butt...

I haven't always enjoyed it ... when I was younger I thought it hurt too much but... I just didn't give it a chance ... now I enjoy it quite a bit and know it doesn't hurt if done right

...but don't have to have it.  On the other hand most of my fantasies seem to end up with me fucking a hot woman in the ass, so when I hear of a provider offering it I am instantaneously more interested.  I am still fantasizing about a line in one of Jenny Nadeau's first reviews, though I haven't acted on it yet. The only thing hotter than a hot woman's ass is a hot woman looking back at me with a look of pleasure on her face...  an interesting physical dichotomy.

I am fortunate to know women who love it too.  For a couple of them it is what they love best, and so, when I am with them, do I  And I am still eternally grateful to the gorgeous girl who taught me.

To expand on the questions what about double penetration with a vibrator?  My ex used to get the yen for this once in a blue moon.  Very pleasant experience to be in her ass with the vibrator right next door.

In my "personal life" I have had some partners that wouldn't consider it, and on the other hand, 2 partners in my life who totally loved it and would ask for it a lot--so it' something I've had a lot of experience with, and here's what I have found makes the difference...  If it's something the woman I am with wants to do, I am always game.  And conversely, if it is something a provider is "willing to tolerate" but doesn't really look forward to, I'd rather just do other things we both enjoy.

And Mindy, I'd just say this about question 6...  I know some guys are expecting a provider to be a pro at everything, but for me...  It would be both blindingly hot, and genuinely intimate, if a provider said to me "I am kinda new to greek, I'm not sure I have it all figured out yet, will you just try it with me and see how it goes?"  The patience, the communication, the trust that flows from trying something like that would actually be a zillion times more erotic than doing that with an old pro.

Some of the best sexual moments in my whole life have been experimenting with new things that may not work...  Those moments are so full of playfulness and intimacy.