I'm single, and have a great place to entertain. I like to find out what the lady enjoys to drink or snack on. Preparing for her arrival can be quite a turn on! Conversely, especially when meeting a new friend for the first time, going to a hotel, even an upscale place can be nerve-racking. I can see how that rush could be good for some people, just not my thing.
That being said, one of my top priorities is for the lady to feel safe, and comfortable. If that means that I need to go see her, so be it.Do you guys have a specific preference on whether you prefer to see ladies at their place, or at yours? Are you more comfortable seeing them in a place you are more familiar with instead of traveling to a hotel or apartment building?
There are times when an incall is perfect and gives the hobbyist discretion and some time flexibility. And, many ladies request an additional fee for visiting with a gentleman for an outcall session.
I like to see the lady at her place, or on her home-court--makes her more comfortable, it would seem. But after building a rapport/relationship, it's fun to have her make a house-call.
Final point--if the guy really wants to see a lady, he'll do incall or outcall or whatever it takes to make the appointment a reality.
I'm guessing you'll have no trouble finding friends for an in/out session.
I can only do incall. I actually prefer that, anyway. I'd rather see her in a place where she feels comfortable. I have no problem going to hotels, motels, or apartments, and have done all 3.
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...where I have hosted many ladies and can host ladies anytime. If the lady prefers incall I have no problem with it as long as it is in a decent and safe place.
independent ladies who are very accommodating to hobbyists who treat them like ladies.
I'm single, and have a great place to entertain. I like to find out what the lady enjoys to drink or snack on. Preparing for her arrival can be quite a turn on! Conversely, especially when meeting a new friend for the first time, going to a hotel, even an upscale place can be nerve-racking. I can see how that rush could be good for some people, just not my thing.
That being said, one of my top priorities is for the lady to feel safe, and comfortable. If that means that I need to go see her, so be it.
I prefer incall. In fact that's all I've ever done. If I have to secure a hotel room just to meet a lady it is not only a hassle but it will inevitably leave a paper trail, unless somebody can tell me how to avoid that.
It depends on the lady I'm seeing. If it's a well-known, highly rated lady it makes no difference. If it's a newbie or new to me I'd prefer my place or a well respected hotel.
Too many nosey neighbors for outcall to my place......
My favorite incall is a quiet apartment with a discreet entrance. I bring something in my hand to make it look like I 'need' to be going there. NEVER with wine or flowers in my hand!
If it's a hotel, when I call from the parking lot, I'll ask where the elevators are when I walk in so that I can go straight to them......... like I'm staying there.
I had one lady early in my hobby days instruct me to bring something in my hand (folder, small bag, etc) that made it look like I was some person that 'should' be walking in to her condo. She was so paranoid/careful/discreet that I had to call her after I parked and then she'd look out the front window to make sure that 'the coast was clear'!
I have a small laptop computer bag in my hand when I come to your incall. I'll show up prepared to gently work on your 'software'!
It's nice for bringing in your bank envelope as well as any 'gifts' that might come under the 'chocolate' heading!
Looking for a comfortable and safe (tax) shelter with dim lighting and a nice (tax) loop "hole" where I can pump in all the interest flowing from my most important "asset".
Found one last night in the nation's capital of all the places. Yes it was cozy, dim lighting, and loop hole was something I could not stay out of it.
Review coming soon.