Florida
and how I could not call or text unless he did so and let me know that it was ok to text back. I had one married lover that had his own room away from his wife's and he would text me to sex talk and masturbate. He would text me something and then add: it is ok to text back lol as he knew that I would not unless he said so. I was a mistress before providing so I had it already ingrained the what not to do's so there was no issue with me calling or texting or even emailing out of the blue. There are some of my clients that say you can email or call whenever but I still do not like to do that. I always appreciate him making the first move. I do have long time regulars that I email but never over specials. Just hello and there are a few with health issues that I have checked on. One had diabetes that needed to be regulated. We had finished a date once and his blood sugar or something had him shaking or hell it could have been what I had just done to him (haha! 
and I had checked on him later to assure he was ok. I do not travel so it would never be that but I prefer to have them to contact me first always. They will never receive texts or phone calls from me out of the blue ever.