I kid. I kid!
But seriously though, there are different stokes for different folks in sugar dating.
Just like regular relationships, they can last for months or years. But in a sugar relationship, when the well runs dry, the SB moves on. On the flip side, when the SD gets tired of her, then he moves on too.
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I have been a sugardaddy over 12 times now. In my experience, there are several different "flavors" of the SD/SB thing and it is really important when you start to understand exactly what the relationship is, and isn't, to avoid disappointment. Each SB has her own idea/reasons for doing it, which tend to drive the type of SB/SD relationship.
1) Ladies who are already escorts. As someone else mentioned, a lady who is already in the biz will lose money on most SB/SD relationships if she is exclusive and only has one SD. Most have several SD relationships (you can tell if the lady in question insists on a specifc day and time frame she is likely in this category). There are a few reasons why a lady in this biz might still agree to such a relationship: stable income; they know you and would prefer to make less money with someone who is safe and regular, versus new or infrequent guys; or it is a form of "frequent customer" discount to reward a customer who stays with the same lady for all his needs. Be aware in this kind of relationship it is all about the $$ to be negotiated, it is non-exclusive, and if things get complicated (e.g., you are not happy with the agreed on $$ or frequency, you get jealous of her other clients or get emotional) it will likely end. Your "cost" will likely be a little less than if you saw her for the same # of hours each month (e.g. a lady who charges $400 an hour, might agreed to 3 hours each Friday night for $2,500 a month just as an example; YMMV and almost certainly will vary by lady).
2) Ladies looking for extra income, but who do not want to "escort". A large number of SBs that I have met fall in this category. Many are single moms who cannot make their rent without some help. Also students whose parents cannot pay full tuition and are at risk of having to drop out. etc. A mixed bag IMHO. The upside is that you can have a great experience, unlimited time together, and no other "clients" to interfere in the relationship (most of these ladies prefer to only have one SD). The potential pitfalls are: your SB will be dependent on you financially and ending the relationship may prove difficult/dramatic/traumatic; several of these ladies already have boyfriends or are dating in the "normal" world, and if their boyfriend finds out about the SB/SD thing he will go apeshit (happened 2x to me); the money needs can increase over time (especially if children have a medical issue, or landlord evicts, etc.). Cost will vary by the financial needs of the lady, but in this case I usually paid $1,000 - $4,000 per month (keeping in mind that I would see her without a schedule and as frequently as we could get together).
3) Ladies looking for a rich guy to have a long term relationship with (may include a few ladies who are already escorts). If you are single or soon to be so, this is the best type of SB/SD situation IMHO. I have had a few of these where no regular payment is required (of course the expectation as an SB is you will treat her very well; expensive dates, trips, gifts on occasion; etc.). These ladies want romance, some chemistry, and a better lifestyle than they can have on their own or with the guys they usually date. On the downside (or upside depending on your POV), there will be emotional entanglement. You are essentially dating, and one or the other person can develop feelings (or both). Ending this can be hard on both (I had one lady call me several times over a 2 year period trying to get back). No upfront cost, but usually I would spend at least $3,000 a month (5 star dinners, travel, gifts, concerts, etc.)
