... Providers by Googling their number or E-Mail address I have found that some of them haven't adequately separated their personal information from their Hobby persona.  Frankly I could care less but for those Providers that do they need to be more diligent.

Are you actually asking if it's "ok" to find out someone's private info?

Hmmmm.....let's see......
Uh.....FUCK NO IT'S NOT

"This thing of ours" *should* be a private endeavor and have at least some basis on honor. I know that's crazy talk since many are cheating / breaking vows they have made (which throws honor right out the window)....but that's a discussion for another time.

Point is that this is not something to be engaged in by the careless or stupid.
If you want / need an alternate identity....then you establish that alternate identity in ALL ways.
Get a 'burner' phone. Establish email accounts on other servers than your private (gmail vs hotmail). Don't use the same passwords for anything. Don't use your alternate anything on something like facebook or twitter.
One would think it's common sense....but it SO isn't.

In all my years in this, and being a board moderator, I've found two......only TWO people who are impossible to find.
This....out of hundreds.

It's not hard to be anonymous, but it takes a plan.
If you don't plan correctly...the stalkers will find you.
And no....it's never "ok"

Just sayin'
DD

I to have found ladies facebook from Backpage ads by searching an image ..... Never use same images from personal life with anything to do with escorting. Image search is probably more popular than google these days.

As a provider keeping my private life exactly that is very important for safety, security and my sanity. You never want a crazed wife beating down your door so practice the same separation.  

Kisses Haley