They should have newer ones after giving out three, it's rare but sometimes I think they just get comfortable inquiring with the same lady.
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I've had other providers call me and ask if a client that I've seen before was okay and I've helped them out, no biggie but for some reason, some of the ladies just do not like the fact that the client that they've just seen wants to see a new girl. It truly baffles me when they refuse to assure that the particular client is safe. Is it because they expect that client to become a regular of theirs or maybe its jealousy? I'm not sure. Any other suggestions when this happens?
Instead of waiting to hear back from the provider reference that the client has given me to perform screening (which I most likely will not) and risk losing business.
What are some alternative when dealing with this? And if the reference provider has no phone number, only email to contact
finding other ways to verify a guy besides references.If you wait for a reference to get back to you all of the time you will lose out on money.Some providers are not reference friendly,some who do not check their emails often so if they do reply it is days or weeks after the initial reference request.
And some providers probably do get upset that a guy is seeing someone else instead of them.
That is where the drama comes in for that reason I have really scaled back on the reference requests I send to fellow providers.There are many of us who are reference friendly but there are others...
It is just not worth the drama for me to damn near get cussed out for asking for a reference.No thank you.
I am reference friendly and I am email only as well.If a provider doesn't have a number listed you will have to email her and wait for her to respond.Or screen a gent as a newbie that does not have references (even though he does if you do not want to wait for a response.)
Edited to add:I would also suggest that you mention to the guys to ask his references if its okay to be used as a reference.
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I've found they tend to respond in a very timely manner when he does make contact. More and more ladies are not so reference friendly for whatever reasons, others are amazing - respond quickly, with information or whatever is needed. Email can take longer however, is much less invasive than a phone call - maybe that was an issue? Just a guess.
Don't take it personally, everyone handles their business differently.
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P411, Date-Check, RS2k are good way for vouching hobbyist like us.....I have P411 ok's and Whitelist on TER and Date-check.
I heard that RS2k is very easy to verify a client (i only heard this from my regular provider that i've seen for 2 years who recently joined rs2k, she told me that rs2k is easier than p411.....) i don't know this because i don't have RS2k.
It's unfortunate that some provider doesn't want provide reference because they afraid they going to loose their best/regular client. I have to said i'm fortunate that in my early days of my hobbying all the providers i've seen are very reference friendly, and one of them actually encourage me to see more other providers and she doesn't mind using her as reference.
Hope you find this useful Bella, and best of luck.