That is the textbook definition of outcall: You got the room and they came to you.
Are you saying that you let the gal remain and keep the room to see other guys as well?
That's highly counter-indicated. Not only are you getting ripped-off by paying for her room to see other guys on top of her full rate, but if any shit goes down there on account of what she does, you're going to be in hot water.
That's something that should never be done unless you know the person very well.
I have a question for the clients and providers. I saw a provider who stated they did incalls but that they could not get a room. I offered to get one and I did and I also paid for it. I paid her normal rate b/c that's what she requested. Afterwards, I thought wow that was not worth it, b/c I had to leave the room to go to work, so quite expensive for a one hour appt.
I want feedback because now another provider wants me to get the room and I pay the her full rate as well; or they will get it, and I will pay them back plus their full rate. Is this fair?, even though they promote that they provider incall.
Since they could stay there and see other clients isn't it fair to say I will reimburse 1/3 or 1/4 assuming they will see 3 or 4 clients?
Just looking for feedback...
That is the textbook definition of outcall: You got the room and they came to you.
Are you saying that you let the gal remain and keep the room to see other guys as well?
That's highly counter-indicated. Not only are you getting ripped-off by paying for her room to see other guys on top of her full rate, but if any shit goes down there on account of what she does, you're going to be in hot water.
That's something that should never be done unless you know the person very well.
no I paid and she left...
but now another one will pay for the room and stay and she wants me to reimburse her for it plus her rate.
again I do not think I should reimburse for entire cost of the room, not being cheap just do not think it is right.
First off. If she continues to work in the room after you leave then all you owe her is her rate minus the cost of the room. Second thing. Are you out of your mind. You need to think of every possible thing that can go wrong in that room. Because it might and your name is on it. I don't care how well you know her. If something happens your the one they will question.
whatever the amount is out of your pocket, decide if it is worth it for you or not to spend a specific amount of time on the appt.
Not a dime!!!!!!!!! Pay her regular rate and maybe a tip. The room is the cost of doing business!
..if you're going to get a room you can try to save money by bidding on Priceline (about 50% off what the "regular" price is) or check out their express deal and/or cross reference with sites like Trivago, Hotwire etc. Also...dunno if this exists in the Boston area but maybe try to find some hotels that offer a short stay rate. I agree with august you just need to decide what amount of $ out of your pocket is worth it in the end especially for the amount of time you're paying for.
Sometimes providers go halfsies on the room...ymmv. Personally I think yes if she's gonna offer incall she should hate an incall rate she's happy with and have the incall price included in the rate even if there's a chance she's only going to see one client that day. In my base area I increased my rates a pinch to have a $ amount i'm happy with after cost of the room is covered and on top of that implemented a 90min minimum (for new faces anyways).