You can find it between debauchery and douchbag in the urban dictionary.
As the old saying goes "Common sense is not all that common."
I was wondering what others think about hobbyists posting selfies on the verification sites like P411 etc -- I can imagine it could provide a measure of reassurance that the client at the door is really the person who made the appointment, or perhaps even give a lady the chance to decide, based on appearance, whether this is a client they want to meet. On the other hand, I don't want to be delusional about the degree to which ladies include their clients' appearance in their determination whether to see a client -- and posting a photo certainly makes one just that much more vulnerable to the powers that supervise our private adult interactions ...
Ladies? Any views?
Guys?
R
I don't know if posting them anywhere is advisable. It could potentially blow your anonymity. However, I know that I appreciate it greatly when a potential new friend forwards me a pic. It really sends a personal touch and breaks the ice nicely letting me put a person behind the email, and voice. It is a nice warm up and leads to anticipation of a good visit together generally. Just please don't send any pics of of your dick, because whether it's in a bow or in a box, or shaved up to look like a fox, those emails go to the spam box!
Grace
If you're sure that you're speaking to a trustworthy lady, then sending a picture is definitely helpful for a lot of reasons. Guys, you see our pictures and you know what we look like and can picture us throughout our pre-meeting correspondence... but we can't do the same for you. Just think about the impact on personal engagement.
I wouldn't recommend posting them anywhere though, that's a tad unnecessary. They'll be seen by people who you're not seeing, and that in and of itself can get creepy very quickly.
~Mme X~
Isn't that why we are the ones paying? That's the whole point of it--we pay for providers whom we find attractive. It doesn't matter whether or not you find us attractive as long as we're clean, verified, respectful, and have the cash.
If a client's hotness mattered, then this would be OKCupid.
~Mme X~
It's simply nicer to speak when you know more about who you're talking to. Of course, it's a courtesy, not a requirement for most ladies.
Attraction is a plus, undeniably... but personally I find much more potential for attraction in the particular feel of a man's hands than anything visual.
~Mme X~
I just checked and your pictures are from the neck down. It seems a little one sided. You know what we look like but you just a sexy neck to us
I do crop my pictures... but if I'm not mistaken you haven't posted any of yours, so it still seems equal unless I missed something? I'll just reiterate what I did write -
I wouldn't recommend posting them anywhere though, that's a tad unnecessary. They'll be seen by people who you're not seeing, and that in and of itself can get creepy very quickly.
~Mme X~
Besides, I've never asked for a picture from anyone, I just found it to be a nice touch on the occasions that I received one, and noted such.
~Mme X~
ARE YOU NUTS.
That is a very stupid and dangerous idea, you want married hobbyiest to post selfies of themselves on an adult verification
site, Let the blackmailing begin. Do you have any idea how fast this can turn ugly, a provider outing a hobbyist for giving her a review she don't like. One hobbyist outing another because a disagreement on the board.
If a lady doesn't want see me because of my look that's fine, I have no problem admitting I'm not George Clooney lookalike.
But I would love to meet a provider that looks like his wife
Just to be clear -- the idea did not originate with me; and not everyone is married.
Are you ready to have your face on a sex site flashed to all of them?
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this is a biz thats built on being discrete Yes???
You can find it between debauchery and douchbag in the urban dictionary.
As the old saying goes "Common sense is not all that common."
If we can get nude photos from the computers or cell phones of nearly every actress and model in Hollywood what makes you think that your picture is safe on 411?
Snapchat would work admirably in that capacity. I don't really want to have photographic evidence of my potential involvement in what is (in most states) an illegal activity.
People can take a snapshot of snapchat and your pic is the world's forever more. Not a great idea.