Stay calm. Walk through the hotel lobby like you belong and know where you are going. I pretend to look at my phone or talk on my phone so hotel staff doesn't ask me questions if I make a wrong turn. Smile and don't look nervous!
If the woman is a pro tell her it is your first time and she will help you. Be yourself (unless you are a dick lol) and be nice.
Have fun! Write a review.
ALWAYS do your homework!
Check out the "Newbie Tips" and "The Newbie Primer"
If you still have questions, delay your first appointment.
Ask yourself if, in all the times you've stayed in hotels, any member of the staff has ever questioned your presence there. Well then, they won't this time either. Lay chilly and have fun!
Just keep your eye on the prize. Listen to my esteemed colleagues, and walk in like you own the place. Smile and pretend you are on a call. And when the door opens, remember-a girl or woman is on the other side, just like you. We are all, after all, just folk-people. Now go get nasty!
Ocandy,
If the "trouble" you refer to is about making your way up to meet the lady, then follow the valuable advice provided here. If that "trouble" refers to getting caught by your spouse, then i suggest that you cancel. Look, a well reviewed professional lady will NEVER expose you, but your worries about getting caught (paper trail, phone records, email) will gnaw at you long after the session is over. It is easy to get carried away with this hobby. The more you hobby, the greater the chance of getting caught(until you perfect the art of deception). Again, if this "trouble" you refer to regards a spouse, my advice is to cancel. If it is not, do not worry as these ladies are true professionals and they choose their hotels wisely. Enjoy the ride...
Remember, fear is a natural, healthy thing that is meant to keep us on our toes, and SAFE! Your nervousness is perfectly normal and healthy. Over time, the thrill doesn't go away, but the crippling terror does. I still get nervous before a regular comes back. But it keeps me researching, screening, and watching.
But you will be ok, and your fright is one of the reasons you'll be ok. It's the careless people who do without thought, because their fear is numb, who get into trouble.
Use it for good, and if your anxiety causes performance issues, don't fret. It's your first time doing this, and I'm sure she'll understand.
Kisses and good luck!!
P.S. I've had a couple first timers, and it was super cool getting to be his first escort, and warming him up.
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Courtney is right. Everyone has their first time! Everyone also has a first "friend" and it can be a little nerve racking but once you get there and get to know your new "friend" and relax a little it will be fun! Just remember why you are doing this. If you have done your homework and she has done hers (and you are not a dick when you get there) then everyone will be cool and it will be great! This is a great community and most of us on both ends are great people who have lots of fun! Courtney is one of them!! I love and miss you girl!!!!! 
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Zana
Posted By: Courtney.Ova
Remember, fear is a natural, healthy thing that is meant to keep us on our toes, and SAFE! Your nervousness is perfectly normal and healthy. Over time, the thrill doesn't go away, but the crippling terror does. I still get nervous before a regular comes back. But it keeps me researching, screening, and watching.
But you will be ok, and your fright is one of the reasons you'll be ok. It's the careless people who do without thought, because their fear is numb, who get into trouble.
Use it for good, and if your anxiety causes performance issues, don't fret. It's your first time doing this, and I'm sure she'll understand.
Kisses and good luck!!
P.S. I've had a couple first timers, and it was super cool getting to be his first escort, and warming him up.
-- Modified on 1/29/2015 9:29:57 AM
