The ladies above are right- single men at swing clubs usually come across as creepy. We usually avoid them. As a lady, it's just a safer and freer feeling to be with part of a couple. Plenty of single ladies go, mind you, but single men are just... creepy. Definitely find a provider or even find someone on a hook-up site to join you (be careful of inexperienced civilian ladies, though. Most civvy ladies can be possessive, and if they're not used to a swing club atmosphere, you might wish you hadn't brought her). You'll have a much, much better time.
Or you can try it single and see what happens. Then try it with a lady and see what happens. Repeat whichever one brought you more fun! Have fun!!!I had a provider recommend I go there as a single guy. I am not ugly and not Brad Pitt either. Should I expect to get any play there? I am a nice, respectful professional, clean guy.
Always bring your A Game! Bring a lady, why wouldn't you? If you have ever been around a swingers party or club the first thing you will learn is that the women are in charge. Bring a lady. This can not hurt and it will help you. I can only speak from my experience but I never entertain single men at swing clubs or these type of private parties. And further more if you are considering a swing club, here in South Florida single men have restrictions and are not allowed in certain areas.
Do yourself a favor and bring a sure thing! Then the possibilities are endless.
Kisses
Elle Vegas
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I cannot bring my spouse with me. The provider who mentioned it to me has been to the club and said I would have no problem. I would not bring said provider with me.
That being said, it depends on your preferences. Are you looking for a gang bang? are you looking for girl on girl action? or any action? Single men are allowed, however, get in line. If that is the experience you desire then you will be one of at least dozen or more gents waiting around for action. I personally never involve myself with the single men, and I try to avoid going to the club on those days. My advice is to take a lady, maybe not your wife or "said provider". This will only increase your odds for an exciting evening. If you have a hot woman on your arm you are pretty much guaranteed a great time.
Kisses
Elle Vegas
I haven't been to a swing club in awhile but they would only allow in a certain number of guys and for sure had restrictions!!
Elle is right the ladies rule and they make the decisions!!!
Just find a provider who will accompany you. I sure that is not difficult to find in South Florida.
Makenzie
The ladies above are right- single men at swing clubs usually come across as creepy. We usually avoid them. As a lady, it's just a safer and freer feeling to be with part of a couple. Plenty of single ladies go, mind you, but single men are just... creepy. Definitely find a provider or even find someone on a hook-up site to join you (be careful of inexperienced civilian ladies, though. Most civvy ladies can be possessive, and if they're not used to a swing club atmosphere, you might wish you hadn't brought her). You'll have a much, much better time.
Or you can try it single and see what happens. Then try it with a lady and see what happens. Repeat whichever one brought you more fun!
Have fun!!!
Those great weekends in Florida, Vegas, and Jersey.. just happy I was there at all...
Once alone: Some talk, but no action
Once with a lady: Lots of contact and action.
YMMV
Thank you everyone for your feedback! I just found it interesting that the provider recommended I go if even single. My thoughts are as what you all have mentioned. Single guys can just seem creepy...I am sure I would not be the exception. I guess i just need to find a willing participant 