You've been given very good advice. Reviews are like scouting reports. The more you see (and the more recent they are), the more they tip you off to what a provider likes and dislikes.
Since I'm a rather deliberate person, I tend to establish a dialogue both by phone and e-mail before I actually meet the provider so she has a chance to get to know me and vice versa.
Rather than asking directly, I communicate what I like but I do it in somewhat vague terms so as not to be crude. If I wanted what you said was important to you, I might write as part of my e-mail "I enjoy kissing a woman all over and spending time in her pleasure zones, gently exploring her with my lips and hands." This gives her a chance to say "no, I don't allow that" without specifically asking her for a particular service. If she doesn't seem bothered by what you wrote, go on a positive assumption.
I also try to ask her beforehand what she likes the most so I can try to give her a good time. Sometimes, your favorite activity just happens to be hers too. But it's something I bring up only after I've passed her screening and we've established a rapport.
Most providers are happy to talk about sex after they're convinced you're not out to entrap them. So, you can improve your chances of getting what you want if you do your homework and then establish a dialogue so she has reason to trust you.
I am not quite a rookie, but in this business I am still learning the ropes.
At my age, there are certain things that have to be included in sex: sucking nipples, fingering pussy, preferably, BBBJ... The problem is that even TER may be misleading as providers usually limit their offering in time, not expand - going from BBBJ to CBJ is almost a rule, for example.
It's even more difficult when there are no reviews.
For younger lads, it may not matter. But for me and, certainly, some others it is a waste of time (and money) when after accepting your donation, the lady lists unacceptable (for you) conditions: no this and no that...
So, ladies and gents, WHEN and HOW ask questions about limitations? When calling on the phone, after showing the envelope, but before she picks it up...
Your advice is very appreciated, especially from ladies.
If you are a VIP member here on TER, then read the reviews. Don't just scan the profile page as this is done by the 1st reviewer and rarely updated. If multiple reviews list BBBJ, then this overrides the CBJ that might be on the ladies profile. As a VIP member, you can PM other VIP's and receive honest feedback. I've done this in the past and received excellent assistance to make an informed decision.
It is not polite (nor how the game is played) to ask questions of the lady via e-mail or phone. You come off looking like a donut eater.
Finally, no reviews means PASS or TOFTT and don't b*tch if you are not happy afterwards.
Well said. And I will add that JUST LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE - there are no guarantees! Keystone's advice is fairly sound. But you could still find yourself with a well-reviewed provider who may have just decided that very morning that she was no longer going to offer BBBJ's (or the like). She may not inform you of this until after you've paid her. Yes it sucks, but you'd better roll with it. It's how the game is played. Asking upfront questions about services will get you bounced from the game. Following KS's advice is still the best route to travel. The one thing I would add differently to the advice given, is that you do "bitch about it" via submitting your own (honest) review if you're not happy afterwards (especially for unreviewed ladies), as this is how THIS service works.
Thanks, guys, for your advice!
I did follow these rules to the letter till recently when it has just struck me that this service is not like any other: the customer has no rights after paying up. And even if you decide to back off before paying when seeing the wrong merchandize (the wrong girl, for example), you are expected to pay smth "for trouble".
Not that I am whining - it is hard to expect from this business to follow the common laws of competition (leading to improved quality etc.). Still, you'd expect better quality of service.
I would expect that ladies have a very differnt point of view though.
You've been given very good advice. Reviews are like scouting reports. The more you see (and the more recent they are), the more they tip you off to what a provider likes and dislikes.
Since I'm a rather deliberate person, I tend to establish a dialogue both by phone and e-mail before I actually meet the provider so she has a chance to get to know me and vice versa.
Rather than asking directly, I communicate what I like but I do it in somewhat vague terms so as not to be crude. If I wanted what you said was important to you, I might write as part of my e-mail "I enjoy kissing a woman all over and spending time in her pleasure zones, gently exploring her with my lips and hands." This gives her a chance to say "no, I don't allow that" without specifically asking her for a particular service. If she doesn't seem bothered by what you wrote, go on a positive assumption.
I also try to ask her beforehand what she likes the most so I can try to give her a good time. Sometimes, your favorite activity just happens to be hers too. But it's something I bring up only after I've passed her screening and we've established a rapport.
Most providers are happy to talk about sex after they're convinced you're not out to entrap them. So, you can improve your chances of getting what you want if you do your homework and then establish a dialogue so she has reason to trust you.