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Re:getting started ,how ,meeting
moe_shemp_larry 2301 reads
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i agree w/ Tori that what is being asked here IS unclear; disagree w/ someone else that it's the same question asked several threads down.
IF someone you've 'been talking w/ wants you to go over to 5th ... where the gentlemen hang out" then THAT sounds like EITHER 1) he's assuming you're a SW (are you?  if so, fine, then like the other response suggested, go to the board where street stuff is discussed) OR 2) he's ONLY wanting to get a good LOOK at you BEFORE committing; in other words, is wishy washy.
IF this is NOT what you're referring to, then, like T, i'm perplexed --> READ your posts to correct misspellings and punctuation before clicking the "post reply" button ...

rac1red3563 reads

I have looked at alot of postings and have not found what i was asking providers and hobbies. Can someone help a sister out.
Someone I know that I talk to said to go out on 5th like no Downtown to divas but I don't know. Where the gentlemen hang up .

I want to be a good no great provider once I get going but how truly do u get started? That seems like a dumb question
Someone please answer
Thanks Racy
So once again what do I do or need to do







First, This is a site for Providers. It is a discussion area for individuals who indulge in the hobby. Your comment making reference to specific streets would lead one to believe you might have possibly logged onto the wrong web site.

I am not aware of any Established Provider who actually cruises the streets.

The generally accepted idea of a Provider catering to the hobby is that she will have a Gentleman caller make an inquiry as to her available time and expresses a desire to establish a level of comfort that affords both the Gentleman as well as herself the confidence to set up an appointment for the two to spend some time together. Nothing is executed in a public forum except the possibility of information being exchanged.

My first suggestion for a Lady wishing to enter the field of Providing would be to secure a private and secluded, safe location in which to entertain prospective friends. To accomplish this you will need to invest the time and energy to acquaint yourself with the area and the traffic patterns. You will also want to gain a working knowledge of the patterns of behavior in that area for unemployed women as well as senior citizens and school age children. These are all individuals that can greatly affect the safety of the lifestyle of the gentlemen who might chose to spend time with you. In regards to the location, you also want to make sure you will not cause an inconvenience to anyone already residing in the area as well as making your availability to prospective visitors easy to access. Once you have found your location you will need to invest in decorating and furnishing it so that your gentlemen callers are comfortable in their surroundings. (*A general rule of thumb is to afford the same level of luxury that your clients are accustom to and then add a little more*)

The second step is probably to obtain  the services of a professional photographer so that your image will be accurately represented online. You will also need to seek a reputable hosting company as well as a web designer to present your information in a professional manner.

After your in call is established and your web site has been developed, you are now ready to start your marketing. There are literally thousands of sites that afford a Lady the opportunity to make her presence known. Both locally and Internationally, so you will have to decide what fits your marketing needs the best. You will also have decisions in marketing as to who you will want to exchange your advertising dollars with.

To accomplish this,one of teh most effect forms of marketing is a banner excahnge. To accomplish this, you will need a banner which most web design firms can afford to you. Many sites do banner exchanges free of charge. You are given the opportunity to place your banner on their site and prosper from their already established traffic patterns by allowing them to utilize your customer flow.There are also adverising sites that will harge to place your banner on their site.

There are also referral services, such as the white list offered here that will also act two fold, one as an advertising agent by getting your site and name out on the internet and the second by affording you another avenue of reference for verification.

There are also many sites that offer private boards just for Providers to exchange information….. (such as some of the tips I have offered to you) and wonderful tips on safety etc.

Much luck in your venture. Kisses  … ~Tori

I'm sorry, but you already received well-reasoned advice from your first query. If you don't like the answers and are looking for a lot of shortcuts, you're in the wrong business. Think it over, hon.

rac1red2664 reads

No a friend of mind said that was another way to go this question was meaning to be different I didnt like the idea of going out looking so thats why i asked sorry that u think my questions were the same

i agree w/ Tori that what is being asked here IS unclear; disagree w/ someone else that it's the same question asked several threads down.
IF someone you've 'been talking w/ wants you to go over to 5th ... where the gentlemen hang out" then THAT sounds like EITHER 1) he's assuming you're a SW (are you?  if so, fine, then like the other response suggested, go to the board where street stuff is discussed) OR 2) he's ONLY wanting to get a good LOOK at you BEFORE committing; in other words, is wishy washy.
IF this is NOT what you're referring to, then, like T, i'm perplexed --> READ your posts to correct misspellings and punctuation before clicking the "post reply" button ...

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