Give yourself one, maybe two or more weeks. I know the rush is addictive, but be careful. A less than professional provider with dubious intentions, may see you as a mark and want to take advantage. Other times its just chemistry, the right chemistry between two people. Other times, you have caught her on a manic swing.
So I saw a new provider and we really hit it off (amazing experience and very mutual) - Our 1 hour date turned into an 8 hour one.
I can't wait to see her again and I'd like to see her regularly.
How much time should I allow before seeing her again? I don't want to come off too aggressive but I don't want to wait too long and lose the memory what occurred. Is waiting a week okay? After that she's going to be out of town and I don't think our schedule's will realign for at least a month.
Thoughts?
But I caution against seeing a provider too often, say more than once a month, if only because you can become inured to them and thus lose out on the special quality of the relationship.
But if you see her after a week after the first time, I don't think that is any big deal - just don't make a habit of it.
It's like any other aesthetic experience be it music, food or art: If you overload on it, you'll lose interest in it.
Familiarity breeds contempt, after all.
Give yourself one, maybe two or more weeks. I know the rush is addictive, but be careful. A less than professional provider with dubious intentions, may see you as a mark and want to take advantage. Other times its just chemistry, the right chemistry between two people. Other times, you have caught her on a manic swing.
