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Why did you decide to see a professional for the first time?  
How did you go about finding one?  
How long after that did you discover the internet?
What led you to TER?

.... and living in Dallas.  I lost my business during the economic downturn seven years ago and found a job in Dallas.  Being away from family and friends in Florida I first went to a rub & tug.  But after Googling numbers I found the review boards and decided to make the next step to quench my thirst.

I've been like a kid in a candy store ever since!

1) I had just retired from full time work and had a lot of free time. In a sexless marriage and had to be discreet.
2) & 3) The Internet discovery came first and by chance. Stumbled across Date Check. Signd up and sometime thereafter was driving a snow birds car from NY to Florida. Found a sweet lady to pass time with once in Florida  and voila.
4) Was led to TER through DC. Now TER is my go to site.

Expounding a bit more, I find I hobby mostly when away from home. My circumstances allow me to travel to Florida alone a fair amount. I enjoy my time here ---especially my free time---and have met wonderful ladies in Florida. Away from home provides opportunity to engage beyond BCD and without time constraints

was living in Texas, had no girlfriend at the time.  Got horny one night (surprise, surprise) and found an ad for a nude modeling studio in the yellow pages.  Took a short drive and it all began.

That was before Apple made its first Macintosh computer, lol, so the Internet was still a few decades away.  TER has certainly changed the process a little.  lol

 

Posted By: SoftlySarah
Why did you decide to see a professional for the first time?  
 How did you go about finding one?  
 How long after that did you discover the internet?  
 What led you to TER?

One of the first ladies I saw when I returned to the "hobby" about nine years ago . . .  lo and behold . . . had a website!  Since I was new to the "hobby" in the Internet age, I had not seen any ladies' websites before.

At the bottom of her site, I noticed the link to TER.  I clicked on it, saw the home pages and suddenly was introduced to the best and most thorough site there is for those of us that enjoy this "hobby."

It wasn't too long before I was writing my own "juicy details.

I started with body rubs at first and then progressed due to my marital situation. I discovered over sites such as DateCheck, P411, and TER just by chat online. What's the internet? LOL

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I was there on business and had returned to my room after a frustrating night at one of the local strip clubs. I had just gotten a new IPad and started surfing the net... Came across P411 and Date-check which led to TER... I soon signed up for all three and the Senator was born... Haven't looked back and never will

before I retired.  Just for rubs and tugs, no FS.  I waited till retirement before venturing into full hobbying.  (Sarah, I think I told you why I waited.)  I was divorced, had no girlfriend, and not really interested in the dating scene or bar-hopping to look for gals.  I was still interested in having sex even if I had to pay for it.  Not sure how I found TER, it might have been through a local adult magazine I used to read regularly.  How I found my first provider was probably thru TER, at this point, I really do not remember.  As far as the internet goes, I had been on it long before getting involved in P4P.

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Lingerie shops? Seriously? I am so naive ....

of mine took me to a hooker bar in Tampa where providers would come and sit next to you at a booth in the bar and you would negotiate what was going to take place. Once the deal was made, the provider would tell you the name of the hotel and you would meet her there. No GFE back then.

Discovered TER on my own after a lady I met at a Lingerie Shop told me to look up her ad on Eros. Once on Eros, some of the ads referenced TER and the rest is history. First used TER for the reviews and later discovered the message boards.

I was staying at the Conference hotel Fontainebleau.    The first evening was in outdoor pool bar having a drink when a cute Hispanic girl sitting across was staring at me.     After 1 hour I left and near the elevator she was talking on her cell phone.     She came in the elevator with me and asked me in Spanish if I was looking for fun.    I said may be.    She handed me a little card and left at the next floor.    The card had her name "Isabella" and her mobile # and her stats and she was a Dominican.     I called her and met her at the same bar and after a drink went up to my room.     She told me about TER.

Same old story...100% sexless marriage that was in the toilet.  I first discovered the old site escort dot com and made my first date there.  Couldn't be too choosy since I was a newbie but I found a nice enough lady and booked 2 hours.  This lady never stopped talking.  I mean it was crazy.  Looking back I should've gotten much more from the date but I was nervous so it was only BBBJ.

When that site shut down I found TER, DateCheck & P411.  I like this site the best but I use P411 also.

When I was in the Navy a few of us would travel down from San Diego..went with bar girls to back rooms. Never got a STD. Next time frame was in my mid 20s while working in the Grand Teton National Park. There was a couple girls in Idaho Falls I'd go see.

Posted By: Hardwood469
When I was in the Navy a few of us would travel down from San Diego..went with bar girls to back rooms. Never got a STD. Next time frame was in my mid 20s while working in the Grand Teton National Park. There was a couple girls in Idaho Falls I'd go see.

She was a 4' 11" cute young lady from Rockford, IL. This was in Chicago. What was her name....damn memory fails me. Edit: See DGL14's post. My journey was similar. Specifically a canine board led me here.

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LOL!!!! You mean DGL17!!!! Terrible getting old!!!!!!!

Dale Carnegie said a man's name is his most prized possession. In other words, don't screw it up.

why? because I found it on the internet and was intrigued.
I found it on the internet...I think it was a pop-up.
TER...not sure, was using big doggie and I guess someone mentioned  it.

Posted By: SoftlySarah
Why did you decide to see a professional for the first time?  
 How did you go about finding one?  
 How long after that did you discover the internet?  
 What led you to TER?

Stumbled on the internet hobby life in the early 2000's with some site which led to another and to another and then here.. There were so few hobbyists and providers online back then as this was all fairly new at that point. The good ole days.. but I discovered that TER was the best site to work with and a stable safe place too... There were other popular sites back in the day but they are either gone now or barely hanging on. I recall trying to learn the lingo and was amazed how many ladies literally travelled to Russia and Greece and thought WOW what is the attraction to those places until I learned their "other meaning"!! LOL!!

Being a life long single and barely ever a g/f in 50 plus years of living and with street girls being very risky, or fear of being ripped off and possible life threatening with a gun to the head, I found the internet life to be a safe choice and the whole review system to be a helluva an idea..  

My first from online was JaxMonica in Jacksonville back in 2002ish if any here recall her... Miss her to this day since she retired so long ago..

Nice post Sarah.. Enjoyed everyone's story..

I decided to see a professional the first time when I finished boot camp and was finally able to leave base for the weekend.  I walked out the gate and pretty ladies were throwing themselves at me (for money of course).  I came to terms with a young beautiful lady, hopped in her van and pounded out two pops in the back. Left with a smile on my face.

Long time passes, my "significant other's" sex drive disappears so after 5 years of waiting for that to change, I finally went to the Internet.  Found TER when searching phone numbers & emails from online ads. Now I'm a happy man.

My first time, about 7 years ago at 53 yo.  Same story of no sex as others.  Found Ter a year earlier on an HBO special on escorts, great publicity, and I thought how hard can this be?  First try failed with no history, then my first on a business trip to Vegas.  Top 10 provider at the time, taught me a lot, great Lady.  Thanks Sierra, long retired or UTR.

I went to college in New York. My senior year, a firm outside of DC contacted and arranged to fly me down and put me up in a hotel (with a food per diem) for the night. This was all very exciting. The previous summer, I had worked on Cape Cod, and my boss, in the course of a conversation about one of his friends, revealed to me that "escorts" are providers. I had actually thought (how naïve) that "escorts" were ladies who would attend dates/functions/events so the guy would have a date to accompany him. I didn't realize there was something more to it.  I had of course seen "escorts" advertised in the yellow pages, and had always been curious.

Now I had my chance. I flipped through the yellow pages at my hotel (northern Virginia) and picked an agency. I had no clue as to preferences, requests, GFE, etc. The agency sent a mature, busty redhead. She took control and rocked me. I can't, at this point, remember the particulars, but I had fun and didn't last long...It was fun, illicit, and naughty, and I certainly got off on that aspect of it, too.  

I didn't get the job (not surprisingly given my fun the night before) but I did move to DC after graduation. A month or two later, I was walking downtown and ran into the provider crossing a street. She gave me a very sweet, knowing smile. One never forgets his first provider :)

I learned about TER in the early 2000s. I had initially used the "Big Doggie" site, but decided to transfer to TER as it was clearly the better option. I guess I've been hooked ever since.

Great question Sarah and I have enjoyed reading about everyone's experiences.

Care to share your first encounter, and how you found TER? :)

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