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PittPanther 37 Reviews 1719 reads
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Seriously, why is she putting this on you alone, as if it's somehow your fault? Instead of "you have a small dick," why isn't it "she has a big pussy?" There's enough blame to share between the two of you - this isn't your problem alone, and this isn't your fault.

If she's on board with that, then you can work this out with different positions, etc. If she thinks it's your fault, then there's probably not much you can do - eventually she will get frustrated that you're not "fixing the problem," whatever that means...

Posted By: strokewriter
So my girlfriend recently dropped a bomb on me, she told me that not much was happening for her during intercourse and that I am smaller than what she's had before. She brought it up delicately enough and tried to be supportive but it still really hurt me. We definitely have a size mismatch, I'm small side of average and her's is above average, one of the biggest I've encountered really. I need some tips and tricks to maximize what I've got. I really love her and don't want this to be a problem for us. She assured me she's still mine and all but I really feel this is a huge problem. I can get her off easy enough through oral but I want the rest of it to be good for her too. I know doggie and other positions where her legs are together are supposed to help but we haven't had much success with this. I could probably use some improvement with the whole "motion of the ocean" thing. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

strokewriter4093 reads

So my girlfriend recently dropped a bomb on me, she told me that not much was happening for her during intercourse and that I am smaller than what she's had before. She brought it up delicately enough and tried to be supportive but it still really hurt me. We definitely have a size mismatch, I'm small side of average and her's is above average, one of the biggest I've encountered really. I need some tips and tricks to maximize what I've got. I really love her and don't want this to be a problem for us. She assured me she's still mine and all but I really feel this is a huge problem. I can get her off easy enough through oral but I want the rest of it to be good for her too. I know doggie and other positions where her legs are together are supposed to help but we haven't had much success with this. I could probably use some improvement with the whole "motion of the ocean" thing. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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mrfisher1988 reads

If so, then cowgirl might be the right fit for you.

With that, gals can maneuver the shaft of the penis so that it is rubbing against their clit just the way they like it.

Other than that, I would suggest she use a large vibrator or dildo to get off while she satisfies you orally or some other way.

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MistressKiley2082 reads

Or the girth?

If it is length, then your best bets are trying her on top or spreading her as open as possible so you can get in as far as you can go..not a whole lot of other things to do if you are just to short to hit her spots.

If it is girth, then add a couple of your fingers to the mix. Plenty of lube (if you need it) then once you are in, use one hand and add a finger or two...you might have to play around with positions to find one that is comfortable for you both, but the little bit of extra girth that gets added when you slip a finger or two in with your cock should help her out a bit ;)

Kiley

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PittPanther1720 reads

Seriously, why is she putting this on you alone, as if it's somehow your fault? Instead of "you have a small dick," why isn't it "she has a big pussy?" There's enough blame to share between the two of you - this isn't your problem alone, and this isn't your fault.

If she's on board with that, then you can work this out with different positions, etc. If she thinks it's your fault, then there's probably not much you can do - eventually she will get frustrated that you're not "fixing the problem," whatever that means...

Posted By: strokewriter
So my girlfriend recently dropped a bomb on me, she told me that not much was happening for her during intercourse and that I am smaller than what she's had before. She brought it up delicately enough and tried to be supportive but it still really hurt me. We definitely have a size mismatch, I'm small side of average and her's is above average, one of the biggest I've encountered really. I need some tips and tricks to maximize what I've got. I really love her and don't want this to be a problem for us. She assured me she's still mine and all but I really feel this is a huge problem. I can get her off easy enough through oral but I want the rest of it to be good for her too. I know doggie and other positions where her legs are together are supposed to help but we haven't had much success with this. I could probably use some improvement with the whole "motion of the ocean" thing. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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SoftlySarah2280 reads

if she is interested in working out a solution together, she could try a kegel exerciser: http://www.biahealth.com/pfx%20vaginal

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Rudy501742 reads

If she's a size queen there's not much you can do about it.  If SHE thinks she needs to have a big cock to be satisfied, then she needs to have one.  It's a visual and mental image issue, not really a physiological problem.  

Of course, if she wants to be able to squeeze a cock she could try the Kegel Excerciser the other poster linked to or you could volunteer to pay for her vaginoplasty.

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