so I have had this thought in my head for a while now, looking for some input from others, so here goes.....

Orgasms do seem to be more intense regularly when I masturbate- is that because I know exactly what to do, where and when?  Orgasm with sex is good too, just doesnt seem to have the same intensity- cant usually be as rough with a sex partner as I am with myself ( I am in my early 50's and it takes a bit more stimulation than it used to )

here is where the oral part comes in- since as a man, I know just what is pleasurable to me, and good for me to reach orgasm, does it make sense that maybe a man would know how best to give oral to another man?  (likewise for women?) cant say that I've gone that route, and I am not really looking to, just curious - do women who recieve oral from another woman regularly have a better experience than receiving oral from a man?  

I suppose that talent in that area is alot about informing yourself about what the other sex likes, and takes a fair amount of communication between partners- I am guessing not alot of that goes on in a 30 min incall session, which is why I always prefer to go for at least an hour, and prefer to see one provider repeatedly vs seeing many different ones only once- seems the more return visits I have with one the better they get over time- I do pride myself on my enjoyment of giving head to a woman, and do very much get off myself when I discover what gets her going and am able to bring her to an orgasm- and yes, it can be faked to an extent, but there are certain physiological responses that cant be faked,and when that happens, wow!