OP, you seem to want a lady who isn't full figured/voluptuous/chubby/bbw, but want someone with (based on your criticisms of the reviewed provider's breasts) large, soft, heavy, malleable breasts, with large areolae to boot. This is going to be an interesting request to fulfill for numerous reasons. For your reading pleasure, I'll outline them below.

Areolae aren't necessarily dictated by the size of the breast, and can change shape over time.  Pregnancy, increased breast size (either natural or augmented), along with genetics all influence the size, color, and shape of areolae.  So keep that in mind.  Big boobs do not mean big areolae. Make it your mantra.

Also breasts are comprised of 2 main tissue types; firm, glandular breast tissue and soft fatty tissue. The younger and slimmer a lady is, the less fatty breast tissue she will have and the more firm glandular breast tissue she will have. This doesn't mean that a svelte lady can't have large, natural breasts.  Quite the contrary.  A slimmer lady who has large natural breasts  is just more likely to have firmer breasts than a more voluptuous lady is, though.  It's a simple matter of body fat.  Larger women and more mature women have less firm glandular breast tissue and more soft fatty tissue as well, for that matter.

Also, please keep in mind that cup size is completely arbitrary and relative only to the size of the band.  Now that i've been properly fitted (ladies, your boobs change; get this done once every 6 months or so!), i wear a 42F.  What that means is that my band size measurement (the measurement around my ribcage, under my breasts) is 42 inches, and that the measurement that circumvents the fullest part of my breasts is 49 inches.  49-42=7, which dictates that my my breasts are an "F" cup.  Now, there are ladies out there that have 30 inch band sizes, and their fullest breast measurement is also 7 inches larger than their band measurement.  This does not mean that a lady who wears a 30F has the same size breasts as a lady who wears a 42F.  Quite the contrary.  The lady who wears a 30F has significantly smaller breasts than the lady who wears a 42 F, and that's because the lady wearing a 30F is a significantly smaller person overall.  Bra cup sizing is completely dependent upon the band size.    

Keep this in mind when you think a provider isn't being honest or accurate about her breast size.  it's all arbitrary