let her know you want to still see her and hope that meeting didnt complicate things.
My brother in law had bypass surgery this week I went to see him with my wife and mother in law. He is banged up and the hospital called us in complications they said. We get up to his room and his nurse is in there. I walk in with my wife and mother in law bawling. His nurse turns around and its someone I know. This is a provider I see I knew she had a day gig I knew it was in the medical field but I didnt know where. She held her composure fuck if I know how. I wanted to bolt. The problem is she had a name tag on I now know her whole name I dont care but I think she will. What should I do? Should I call her and put the shit on the table? She knew my name when she screened me no big deal on my end but I dont want to stop seeing this girl Did this permanently fuck it up? This girl smoked everyone else in my eyes before, now seeing her in her gig I am on overdrive. Whats the best way to approach her she is cool to talk to but super careful. I dont want to screw this up any advice? Thanks
let her know you want to still see her and hope that meeting didnt complicate things.
Go see her and tell her what a shocker that was seeing her.You think it was hot seeing her knowing her dirty little secret.I think that is cool as hell btw.I am sure she is far more concerned about you knowing about her then vs versa.
Wtf . I can't believe anyone takes this so seriously! I'm sure it was a shocker for her as well as you. Just laugh about it with her maybe even have her wear her nursing outfit when you see her and fuck the shit out of her .. Lo
If she reads these boards and sees how creepy you are reacting to this she probably won't want to see you and also would request a transfer to another floor or unit within the hospital.
Cardinal rule.
You see a provide outside the bedroom in her real life or real job. You play dumb. You never mention it and most of all, you don't post shit on a public board to drag her into it and embarrass her.
If I were you I would delete this thread ASAP. You may have already irrevocably damaged the situation
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You said it!!
Forget her real name. Forget the whole situation.
Do not share this with anyone, of course.
Don't post here that you know a provider's real name and place of employment. This information is best kept between you and her... If she is regular on TER and see this, doubtful she will be seeing you again. Should have kept it discreet and just email mailed her about the situation. I'm sure she would understand. Probably not the first time this has happen to her and She held her composure because she is a true professional. What else was she going to do? tell your wife about your last rendezvous?
I once had a provider tell me she brought her child into the hospital for a broken arm, the attending physician that day was a client of hers. She allowed him to care for the child and neither said a word
How many guys have PM you since asking who it was? If I was her that is what I would worry about. Your side conversations. Asshole!
Totally agree. If possible pull this thread off..
saying nothing, doing nothing and pretending like nothing happened. If she brings it up when you next see her, then fine. Everything about her private life is handled at her choice and at her discretion.
I understand your enthusiasm (you are not the only one this kind of thing has ever happened to), but you've really got to tone down your hormones... it is definitely edging into the creepy zone. I'll reiterate the advice an earlier poster gave you: ask TER to pull this thread.
I would not mock her or give her shit. she might take it the wrong way. I would not say anything. If you want to see her again see if she brings it up and if she doesn't it means she would not want you to bring it up either. If that is how she handles it than you should do the same and not bring it up . If she does bring it up then you can tell her what you were feeling.
but regardless respect her privacy as you would want her to respect yours
The cat is out of the bag. Now that you have already emailed her. I would just reassure her that you will be discreet and thank her for being so professional at the hospital. If I was you I might bring her a box of chocolates or a bath set as a "thank you" the next time you see her just to ease her mind.
I ran into the same situation years ago kind of. I had a new client come to see me and I screened him no problem. A bit after he arrived to see me he said I "know you." I playfully said while laying next to him "oh do you? How so?" He said "I went to high school with you and your brother?" Wtf! I almost shit myself. I went to 4 different high schools and had a close group of friends only, so I didn't remember him. I only went to the same high school with my brother my freshmen year so my mind was racing because I had no idea who he was and if he still knew my brother or family. He told me he was 50lbs heavier and at least a foot shorter and I probably didn't recognize him because he was a loner. He did tell me he used to sat behind me in one of my classes and I was always nice to him when the other kids teased him and that he had the biggest crush on me. So, seeing that we were already laying there I just took it in stride because he was a genuinely polite and a sweet guy. He became a regular of mine but I ALLOWED him to be because he was discreet and was one of the nicest guys I have ever met. Keep in mind I said he was discreet!
Best of luck and personally I don't see anything wrong with you posting for advice on here because you just described the situation but did not mention where she worked her name or even what town the hospital was in
She is a professional and handled it correctly. You did as well. She told her what field she was in so it wasn't a secret. Just don't post where she works and her real name. If she wants to continue seeing you great. If not, move on.
I've had a client's wife email me and I had to work with both my client and his wife for a project. Now that's awkward. I had to meet them at their home on numerous occasions. I was professional about the whole thing and still saw my client. But that's a part of the territory.....hobbying and civilian life. It's a risk we all take.
I've had another situation where I was dancing at a private event and one of the gentlemen at the party was my college professor. Lets just say I passed all his classes
Truth of the matter is shut up be a man. Call her and don't bring it up. Do not cross the line!!!!! There is nothing to talk about stay away from it!!!!
She will role play with you the next time that your wife and mother in law are are forced to watch as she does you all over while talking dirty to them. Turn it into a positive. There are several nurse/hospital fantasies too. Enjoy and relax about it.
It happens, treat her like the nurse she is if you see her again at the hospital, and keep the discussion about HIM.
I read your comments and pm's thanks for the advice. I didn't think posting a thread was out of line . I wouldn't say her name or where she works. Sounds like I came across as creepy because I dig the girl. I am not an asshole I know the limits. It blows when you find a good one and they leave. That's all I meant. I am still licking my wounds from Paige Lynn disappearing. I keep reading threads about Lilly. She was another one I dug and disappeared. I don't want this one to leave or be jacked up worried. She is really careful to begin with and I didn't want my running into her to screw shit up. I emailed her warned her I had to go bacjk in to see my brother in law. I didn't see her again he was moved into a different part of the hospital. He is doing better now tahnks for the pm's. If the hot nurse herself is reading this I didn't mean to be disrespectful by posting a thread I would never compromise your safety and you know that. Come on call me! I make my living keeping secrets for clients. Yours is no different I am sworn to confidentiality! Thanks for the advice and pm's on here I got my balls kicked in but I get the point.
Duh. Not to hard to figure out how to narrow down to a few from your limited reviews. Ask ter to delete this entire thread.
part time or full time stalker? Feel good trying to tag on of my reviewed girls? Slimy mother fucker. News flash; I actually see girls and do not review them! Wow shocker! Paige Lynn I mentioned, no review. Lilly I mentioned, no review. So what exactly did you figure out lurker? I know what my reviews say asshole. Try again genius.
I hope to hell you didn't review her, because a tsunami of people will check your review, fire up her profile, and she will be pissed.