Every once in a great while, all the planets align and you have one of those meetings that leaves you in the kind of utter disarray that makes it hard to remember where in the hell you parked your car.
Maybe it's the Gemini in me, but the few times that this has happened to me, it was actually the mixing of opposite extremes that seemed to do the trick... For me, it's when a meeting has both moments of very cuddly, kissy GFE, and moments of very rowdy, "swingin' from the chandaliers" bluntness... It sounds easy, but it takes a special provider to be able to pull off both at the same time without it seeming awkward. It's when the overall meeting has an intensity to it, even though the physical pace of the activities may be "slow and savory'--opposites again.
I think the biggest ingredient for me is when the provider is very comfortable and enthusiastic. Sometimes you get that vibe the second you step in the door that the provider is very comfortable with your presence and is looking forward to your time together, and then you know the stars may just be aligning. I'm not shy, but I do find that I show up very reserved and respectful, and sometimes this is misread by the provider. So this enthusiasm is a big deal for me... That doesn't mean that she has to be aggressive, just that she uses her confidnece and boldness to sort of "call me out" of my shell and set the tone for the rest of our time.
How's that for an overly analytical psychobabble answer.
Question: What type of a session and which provider(s) would qualify in your opinion as a "Rock my World" session?
A highly romantic, highly erotic session with a beautiful girl, dressed in lingerie, who looks like she just stepped out of a magazine centerfold and was all over me, employing every conceivable acronym used on this board. See my post below on Jessica Red Hot.
Every once in a great while, all the planets align and you have one of those meetings that leaves you in the kind of utter disarray that makes it hard to remember where in the hell you parked your car.
Maybe it's the Gemini in me, but the few times that this has happened to me, it was actually the mixing of opposite extremes that seemed to do the trick... For me, it's when a meeting has both moments of very cuddly, kissy GFE, and moments of very rowdy, "swingin' from the chandaliers" bluntness... It sounds easy, but it takes a special provider to be able to pull off both at the same time without it seeming awkward. It's when the overall meeting has an intensity to it, even though the physical pace of the activities may be "slow and savory'--opposites again.
I think the biggest ingredient for me is when the provider is very comfortable and enthusiastic. Sometimes you get that vibe the second you step in the door that the provider is very comfortable with your presence and is looking forward to your time together, and then you know the stars may just be aligning. I'm not shy, but I do find that I show up very reserved and respectful, and sometimes this is misread by the provider. So this enthusiasm is a big deal for me... That doesn't mean that she has to be aggressive, just that she uses her confidnece and boldness to sort of "call me out" of my shell and set the tone for the rest of our time.
How's that for an overly analytical psychobabble answer.
Had one time when I walked out the door I couln't remember if I turned left or right
OZ you hit it 100% perfect. Enthusiastic even when the 'date' is a bit reserved as I usually am. A little coaxing can go a long way!!
I agree with the coaxing thing. Being a gentleman dictates that we have to behave a certain way in our day-to-day lives. Suddenly a door opens and many of those barriers are gone, and it takes some readjustment for most of us. You're well on your way to your world being rocked when you meet a provider who understands this and coaxes you out of your shell in a lot of different ways, both overt and covert.
I mean, isn't that really the whole idea behind lingerie? I'm not a big lingerie guy (well, OK, there is that thigh-high problem I have, but besides that) but the whole idea behind lingerie is to break through that feeling that we're not supposed to be gawking... Lingerie says "you're not at work any more, it's OK to look, and I'm wearing this to make sure you know it's OK to look."
You'd love a gal that I met a couple of years ago... She picked up on my "reserved demeanor" and you want to talk about coaxing... She stopped in her tracks, sat my ass down on the bed and gave me a little talking to... "Look, I appreciate that you're trying to be respectful, but this reserved thing isn't gonna fly with me. The turn on for me is knowing I made this meeting a fantasy you'll play over and over in your head, so I need you to stop being the work guy while you're here." Needless to say, I got my world rocked. Luckily she's a traveler or I'd be broke.
Easy one - those who have experienced the pleasure of Pamela's (Miami)company when in town know the answer to this one.
Well, it certainly is different for everyone. I tend to keep to myself..... but what the heck, its time to open up a little...
For me, I like
a long night, (one and two hour visits don't do it anymore)
a bottle of wine, maybe going out...
someone who can engage in good conversation
then a sprinkle of wild GFE fun.
It does not happen often when you can combine (what I believe) are the these key ingreients to a great "rock the world" event.
As for providers, there was a great woman with Miami Companions (who has retired) that provided the ultimnate experience for me. I met her in Orlando (her home base) for an overnight and then twice in the MPLS. She was so hot and we connected very well....(thinking of it now).
I also had two realy great one of a kind experiences with Raquel Devine and Stevie for PSE's, I added additional time to make both great events. Both "ROCKED MY WORLD".
So... two totally different types of events, GFE vs PSE, but all included fun, conversation, time and a little wine.....
Thanks for listening...
One of my more memorable sessions was on a trip to Thailand. I went to my room with three girls and woke up with five. Room service, girls and booze for less than $100. The other great time was meeting up with a madam (lady running a bar stocked with girls) who was feeling "old" (she was 24 - that's not old). She spent the week with me as my private tour guide and she would pick up the evenings entertainment, usually girls who hadn't worked the business before. Fun, fun, fun.
There are several criteria I look for to get this type of session.
1) The lady pays attention to me and not be distracted or doing other things once I arrive.
2) She behaves like she is really enjoying the session also.
3) She behaves like she wants to see me again when the session is over.
Obviously, the less restrictions there are on the menu, the better the session is likely to be but I've had marvelous sessions with ladies who had a fair number of restrictions and disappointing sessions with a couple who were very open.
P.S. It's also very nice if she remembers you after your first session even if it has been some time since the first one.
"She behaves like she wants to see me again when the session is over."
This is a great point Vorlon... In a great session you can usually sense that the provider is intentionally "ensnaring you" in her web, trying to figure out what will make you want to come back again and again.
In reading people's replies, it kind of dawned on me that I may have missed the most important ingredient, and that is when the provider WANTS to rock your world. There are plenty of fine providers and I don't mean to short-change them... But there are only a tiny minority of providers who aren't willing to settle for a really good meeting, they want your session with them to be a bewildering fantasy that leaves you wondering where the hell you parked... They want you unable to think about anything but them for the next few days. So I guess the first criteria ought to be "intent."
I would have to agree with OZ.
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