I've talked to a few and listened to interviews, and I think they genuinely like older men. If for no other reason it's different. Lots of their costars are 20 somethings, and they can get young guys all the time. I think meeting a guy in their 40s or even 50s is exciting to them. Plus, I have had a couple of the girls in their 20s tell me that their SOs are 20+ years older than they are. In fact, one UTR girl who was 26 at the time told me point blank she wasn't attracted to guys her own age and the young guys she acts with is just going through the motions for the camera because they're not her type. She said a lot of girls in the industry feel that way. Whether or not that was totally true, I don't know, but it made sense.
I'm curious...
Have any of you been rejected when trying to make an appointment with a PSE due to your age?
Do PSEs have a problem with men over a certain age or based on the age gap between them and the client?
Like would a 21 year old PSE typically have a problem with a client that's 40? or 50? or 60+?
Just curious if anyone has been turned down due to their age when they were trying to book an appointment.
Never, it's the $$$ that they count !
I've only encountered one ex porn star who listed a max age. Afterwards, I wished I was too old to have seen her since the experience was a huge disappointment. As for pse providers, I've never been excluded.
I've talked to a few and listened to interviews, and I think they genuinely like older men. If for no other reason it's different. Lots of their costars are 20 somethings, and they can get young guys all the time. I think meeting a guy in their 40s or even 50s is exciting to them. Plus, I have had a couple of the girls in their 20s tell me that their SOs are 20+ years older than they are. In fact, one UTR girl who was 26 at the time told me point blank she wasn't attracted to guys her own age and the young guys she acts with is just going through the motions for the camera because they're not her type. She said a lot of girls in the industry feel that way. Whether or not that was totally true, I don't know, but it made sense.
ve had younger women tell me that they prefer older guys because older guys are more experienced, more polite, and more "gentlemanly" than younger guys.
I wouldn't be surprised if many have attractions for older guys, as their daddy issues may be one of the reasons they are in the business
Older guys have the resources to fill the envelope. Sure, we're more mature and polite. I'm not discounting those qualities. We're also less athletic and I won't be pounding away the whole time. But really, it's a matter of simple market place reality. Older guys are the preferred market demographic for most luxury goods because we can afford them.
This is very, very true.
Plus I think that the "older" gentleman also appreciates the experience more. Also with less attitude than possible "younger" gentleman.
But I think in a whole after the "college" years.... more younger women like older guys. Because of a few things:
- more polite
- know what they want in life and in general
- typically don't play games
- have the $$$ and are typically more established
- don't have the "gods" gift to women attitude
- and appreciate the time with a woman
I love it when I go out to a bar and start a convo up with a female and then a douche bag will come in and be rude and interrupt me. Then later on in the night he will see me leaving with that woman as he is still out looking.
I agree with all of the comments in the "Let's not over think this" posts. I have been told all of the above by more than one of my lady companions. However, I would like to add one more reason why generally, older gents are preferred. Let's face it, the days of 2 to 4 pops are over. Older gents are usually a one and done. Less wear and tear for the ladies.
I've never been rejected due to my age. But, i've had a few girls tell me they don't see guys under 30 because many of them think it's cool to date strippers or escorts and they're actually looking for a girlfriend.
Generally speaking, older guys have more money to spend on the girls than young guys do. If the girl is a sex worker she will most likely prefer older guys anyway.
Even not talking about 'p4p' and just for normal relationships, I read that its better for the guy to be 7 to 10 years older than their g/f or wife in the relationship.
A few years back I was following Ayana Angel on twitter. Emailed her privately about what it take to see her and she said no guys under 30 (I was 25-26, now 28)