Some ladies are more open to talking about services after verification but not all are. If they are open about services before verification that should be a huge red flag shouting do not go there. Just my thoughts.
However if you have been screened and are used to ladies who will not discuss anything with you till you are behind closed doors I get being weirded out by this. But keep in mind some ladies feel safer after verification and may be a bit more blunt. TTFN, SageShould I be suspicious of a provider if they are blunt about their services over email or text? Worried about LE. What are your experiences when communicating with providers?
The majority of LE stings are 'in the moment', meaning they'll try to get you there right now. If an unkown provider has quickly gotten graphic to try to lure you into an appointment, I'd say that's a big red flag. Over aggressive selling of services also stinks of potential bait-and-switch even if its not a sting.
If you've had some back-and-forth over a period of time and she's answering your direct questions about services, then she may have just gotten comfortable that you're not LE. That would be a little less risky, but I'd still be cautious. Do your homework, consider her location, etc. It's highly unlikely that most LE jurisdictions would put in long-term effort establishing communication just to bust some random guy.
Most of the smart ones avoid direct exchanges about specific services, especially over email/text, but I'm sure guards get let down too quickly on both sides more often than not.
Some ladies are more open to talking about services after verification but not all are. If they are open about services before verification that should be a huge red flag shouting do not go there. Just my thoughts.
However if you have been screened and are used to ladies who will not discuss anything with you till you are behind closed doors I get being weirded out by this. But keep in mind some ladies feel safer after verification and may be a bit more blunt.
TTFN, Sage
I'm fairly frank on my website, and I normally direct any questions there.
After I've verified someone, I'm generally more open, but anything SUPER specific I leave until the session.
Yes, I would not be comfortable with anyone going into details.
There is an easy way to resolve this issue. Get verified with RS2K and stick to women who are either with RS2K, highly reviewed or with another verification service like P411.
No need to take chances!!
Always always play safe.
xoClair
Personally, I NEVER allow explicit talk to happen in emails before we have met.
For me, wanting to talk openly before meeting is a hue red flag.
Is she new? Or has she been around a while? A new girl, may not know any better. Or being new could signify that she is indeed a cop.
And if she has been around a while- does she have reviews?
If it was me, I'd stay away. And I'm not telling you what to do- ultimately it's your choice, but for me- I'd stay away. Maybe- if she has some reviews- try contacting them.
I was looking at TER Ads the othr day, and noticed that a lady included all the acronyms at the end of her ad, and part of me wanted to write her and tell her how bad of an idea that is, but- I didn't. You cant tell anyone else how to run their business, and if that is what works for her, more power to her. But I prefer to keep any of that kind of talk to the bedroom. I mean, we have it all on our TER profiles for that very purpose. Our "fantasy" reviews should give the gents more than enouh of an idea of whether or not we offer the services that they are looking for. Some people just don't get it. I for one, have never used that option to "Say what I enjoy in my ""oersonal life"" " because- I would much rather be safe than sorry.
If you watch the BP stings that they do on TV, they ALWAYS get the girl to admit to a sex act during the same conversation of money. And I really think, that if they weren't able to get you to talk about either, then they will probably leave you alone.
But, that is my 02$ for what it is worth.