Hey guys, I have a question. I am new to p4p. The one provider I have been seeing doesn't advertise out calls as a service she provides. My first two visits with her were in calls at her place. The third time I asked her if she would do out call with me and she said yes. I picked her up at her place and dropped her off when we were done. She doesn't charge me extra to do this. Should I be concerned? Is it common for providers not to advertise out calls but then offer them anyway?
her if she offers that but just doesn't advertise. Or it could be that she is comfortable with you after seeing you a few times.
I usually try to reframe from asking providers about their personal things out of respect for them. She was the one to suggest that I come and pick her up. I was willing to pay for a cab but she wanted me to get her. The last time I met her she wanted to bring her girlfriend and go swimming in the pool after we were done.
You have a say in the boundaries of your relationship. If it makes you that uncomfortable to think she's using party favors and could be caught transporting her party with you, find a scenario that will make you comfortable.
~ Ask her about it.
~ Insist on separate transportation. If you had an accident with her in your car, would her name on an accident report be easily explained away? If not, Uber her.
~ Find another provider. If the risk is greater than the reward, you should consider other options. No one wants permanent luggage or a record.
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Thanks for your suggestions and they are good ones. I was just wondering. Would you be offended if one of your clients asked you such a question?
