I see a lot of very similar clients, and I've noticed they're typically one of two types:
30s-40s, visiting, relatively attractive (a lot of men I'd sleep with for free) and foreign (I see a lot of British, Australian and, oddly enough, Irish clients). Or, 40s and older, average in appearance, and unmarried. I don't seem to get a lot of married clients, or at least not as many as most other providers, though that may have to do with my very limited incall schedule. Most men confess having had a fantasy about a woman like me, either with very short hair, or, simply a Black woman, and almost all my clients are respectful and sweet to the point of genuine disappointment if they feel they haven't satisfied me. I don't see a lot of men that don't fall into the two above categories, which I think says more about me than the men who seek me out, I'm just not sure what.Age: Between 18 (hopefully not younger than that) and 50 or so, though I have seen a few lovely women who are older.
Looks: Most ladies are at least moderately attractive, ranging from average to so damn pretty your eyes blur just looking at them.
Enthusiasm: I have seen very few women who are not into a session (or at least faking it very well). And again, in my mind enthusiasm and character are two of the most important parts of being a great partner.
Ladies, can you tell us what the spectrum looks like from the other side of the looking glass? I am sure you see all types, but are there any trends which are noticeable to you? Most guys being above a certain age? People whose attractiveness is questionable at best? Personality traits which tend to stand out?
Just to put my own characteristics out there so people won't think I am trying to make myself look good by comparison, I can say that I am of average height, average to slightly-above-average weight (sigh), and am moderately good-looking and have a middle-class lifestyle. There is really not all that much that sets me apart from other men my age.
Your thoughts?
I have a question for the ladies who frequent this board. I think that most of us can agree that the vast majority of women who work as providers fit the following criteria:
Age: Between 18 (hopefully not younger than that) and 50 or so, though I have seen a few lovely women who are older.
Looks: Most ladies are at least moderately attractive, ranging from average to so damn pretty your eyes blur just looking at them.
Enthusiasm: I have seen very few women who are not into a session (or at least faking it very well). And again, in my mind enthusiasm and character are two of the most important parts of being a great partner.
Ladies, can you tell us what the spectrum looks like from the other side of the looking glass? I am sure you see all types, but are there any trends which are noticeable to you? Most guys being above a certain age? People whose attractiveness is questionable at best? Personality traits which tend to stand out?
Just to put my own characteristics out there so people won't think I am trying to make myself look good by comparison, I can say that I am of average height, average to slightly-above-average weight (sigh), and am moderately good-looking and have a middle-class lifestyle. There is really not all that much that sets me apart from other men my age.
Your thoughts?
I suppose there is a 'medium', as in any survey, but age range stretches as far as I will allow (I turn down guys under 35 frequently, tho not always) occupations, lifestyles, physical shape-all varied.
I will say that since I specialize in sensual domination, my guys tend to be successful, secure, mostly in decent shape, and looking for an experience which allows them to turn the driving over to someone else...so I may not be a good reflection of a status quo.
C.
Age: Between 18 (hopefully not younger than that) and 50 or so, though I have seen a few lovely women who are older.
Looks: Most ladies are at least moderately attractive, ranging from average to so damn pretty your eyes blur just looking at them.
Enthusiasm: I have seen very few women who are not into a session (or at least faking it very well). And again, in my mind enthusiasm and character are two of the most important parts of being a great partner.
Ladies, can you tell us what the spectrum looks like from the other side of the looking glass? I am sure you see all types, but are there any trends which are noticeable to you? Most guys being above a certain age? People whose attractiveness is questionable at best? Personality traits which tend to stand out?
Just to put my own characteristics out there so people won't think I am trying to make myself look good by comparison, I can say that I am of average height, average to slightly-above-average weight (sigh), and am moderately good-looking and have a middle-class lifestyle. There is really not all that much that sets me apart from other men my age.
Your thoughts?
Let's try not to put any label on the ladies and gentlemen. We all are in the age for the intimate engagement, from 18 till we perhaps lose our senses, and we try to make the best out of every meeting. I have been doing this for a while and if I didn't love taking care of people and was like you said "faking" it, I would not have survived in this business for so long. I think what you're trying to do is justify your own choices and it's understandable. No need to be like everyone else. When you click during the session, that's all that matters to you and hopefully to your partner. You do it for you, not for stats and even less for the public opinion and acceptance.
xo
I see a lot of very similar clients, and I've noticed they're typically one of two types:
30s-40s, visiting, relatively attractive (a lot of men I'd sleep with for free) and foreign (I see a lot of British, Australian and, oddly enough, Irish clients).
Or, 40s and older, average in appearance, and unmarried.
I don't seem to get a lot of married clients, or at least not as many as most other providers, though that may have to do with my very limited incall schedule. Most men confess having had a fantasy about a woman like me, either with very short hair, or, simply a Black woman, and almost all my clients are respectful and sweet to the point of genuine disappointment if they feel they haven't satisfied me.
I don't see a lot of men that don't fall into the two above categories, which I think says more about me than the men who seek me out, I'm just not sure what.
Age: Between 18 (hopefully not younger than that) and 50 or so, though I have seen a few lovely women who are older.
Looks: Most ladies are at least moderately attractive, ranging from average to so damn pretty your eyes blur just looking at them.
Enthusiasm: I have seen very few women who are not into a session (or at least faking it very well). And again, in my mind enthusiasm and character are two of the most important parts of being a great partner.
Ladies, can you tell us what the spectrum looks like from the other side of the looking glass? I am sure you see all types, but are there any trends which are noticeable to you? Most guys being above a certain age? People whose attractiveness is questionable at best? Personality traits which tend to stand out?
Just to put my own characteristics out there so people won't think I am trying to make myself look good by comparison, I can say that I am of average height, average to slightly-above-average weight (sigh), and am moderately good-looking and have a middle-class lifestyle. There is really not all that much that sets me apart from other men my age.
Your thoughts?
I started out there, and couldn't believe how huge these guys members were! I mean... Ok, anyways. Glad to be in Chicago. (In DC at the moment)
Different rate structures, different marketing, different hair, different age, and different location all have something to do with it.
Most of my guys are 45 plus, business men, and the kinds of guys I would date IRL. (But not looking here, just FYI LOL.)
They all seem to be genuine, very laid back, love humor, and are very accepting.
A lot of traveling folks, which is nice when I myself travel. And their mini me's are always happy to see me and ask to be petted.
I have yet to have a female book with me, but am hoping that comes soon!!! 