.... that might be more about how a lady markets herself though (and her required minimum).
My average these days is at least 90mins+ and have seen a nice little uptick from those wanting private dates before/after dinner+drinks so a 3hr+ date isn't totally rare. And limited means doesn't exactly mean you can't schedule more than 1hr that sometimes has more to do with the frequency in how a guy chooses to hobby. I have a client who might play about quarterly (due to somewhat limited means) but prefers a private+bcd type of date (over 3hrs) so at most I only see him 3x a year.
having limited means I rarely schedule more than an hour
how long is average date?
does anyone schedule really long dates? how does it usually go?
1 hour always seems so rushed..
You should feel at ease staying in your "comfort zone" Mazzus!
The "average" does not matter ... it is all about you.
Very often my friends ask for an hour and it can feel unrushed.
And quite a few take a longer relaxation for two or three hours.
If a person goes over his budget it will not feel 100% happiness to him.
Probably the arithmetic average would be 90 minutes,
but almost no one takes that actual trip.
Having "limited means" does not have to mean limited pleasure!
You have unlimited time for memories afterward.
XOXO
- Vanessa
Vanessa,
That was very said! I agree with you, not every person has the means to e pore longer periods of play time or what I like to call it memory time. We all live in this world together and there are different levels unfortunately. The way I look at it, you make it the way you want it. You are in control of what is happening around you, if you feel rushed then talk about it with the lady you are with. If that does not work, then do not revisit with her and move on to another provider. That is why we have choices. I guarantee you will make the right connection.
M
It was so thoughtful, no one should feel any less for seeking a lady for a 1 hr meeting.
I only have 90 minute or more bookings, and rarely have less than a 2 hr date with a gentleman, so I'm not sure what you meant by "but almost no one takes that trip". Are you saying most want longer meetings?
Just asking to be clear on what you meant.
xoxo,
Steph
It's all about pleasure and relaxation, not seeing how many times you cum, but how deliciously your time was spent. I've been very lucky that way. Find synchronicity . Variety is nice when you can afford it. But if you develop a chemistry with someone, maybe you can ride that wave ... connection is a good thing ... for me anyway.
It all depends upon your budget and your comfort zone, and your rapport with the provider. I've had dates from 30 minutes which ARE rushed, and an hour...which can seemed rushed. Longer appointments are fun, and better fun as rebounds are better. And long appointments are usually dinner and then fun. It all depends upon what you are comfortable with and what you can afford.
Best wishes!
From a lot of the reviews it looks like 30 minutes may be the most common overall
When you visit a provider, hopefully it is for more than to just get your rocks off. The lady is also a person and I have found that almost all are wonderful people.
So for me 30 min. is not enough to begin to know the lady. The time spent after my one cup is almost as enjoyable as the time before.
So 60 min is my minimum time and if the budget allows even longer.
Often the lady is generous with her time and the 60 minutes can stretch a little.
And more time spent may make the next visit more enjoyable.
Agree. But i do think a lot of the reviews reflect a "getting my rocks off" attitude. I think providers generally appreciate longer dates. If i hit it off with a provider I will do dinner dates in Boston on subsequent dates. I think providers appreciate and it shows some respect towards them.
"30 minutes may be the most common"
That could well be if you include agencies and also BackPages (I am not equating the two)
Is 30 minutes a standard for a first time.
Some providers seem all intent on getting guy off to get it over with.
Best ways to maximize an hour?
.... that might be more about how a lady markets herself though (and her required minimum).
My average these days is at least 90mins+ and have seen a nice little uptick from those wanting private dates before/after dinner+drinks so a 3hr+ date isn't totally rare. And limited means doesn't exactly mean you can't schedule more than 1hr that sometimes has more to do with the frequency in how a guy chooses to hobby. I have a client who might play about quarterly (due to somewhat limited means) but prefers a private+bcd type of date (over 3hrs) so at most I only see him 3x a year.
Being a tad older 30 min is not enough, need some gfe to get going. 60-90 min is just right. More than one pop is just a memory.
Well put explanation of a very cool solution. A few of my friends have the style you describe ... but they are well developed in "delayed gratification" areas of the rain. (Big brain lol)
But I don't, so mostly I settle for 2 hour sessions.
But a perfect date for me starts when I show up about 5-6 in the PM. We sip a drink and have some fun in the bed, then clean up for an 7-8 PM dinner at some classy place, then walk off some of the meal strolling along a nice city boulevard till we get back to our hotel and have some more bedtime fun before drifting off to sleep in each others' arms.
In the AM we take our time and fool around some more before a good breakfast and then a goodbye hug and kiss.
Sometimes I have gals come to my home and I'll cook them a homemade meal. (My lasagna has been known to cure just about any affliction known to mankind.)
It's just great when you meet someone that you really click with.
Couldn't agree with you more. That is the essence of a good relationship. I've been lucky enough to have 3 of them over the past 15 years, each lasting from 2-4 years and always involving overnights and travel. The toughest part is saying goodbye to the emotional attachment and realizing you may never see this person again.
that sounds great-wish I had the ability to do that
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She's doing incall this week and next. You'll just love your experience if you see her.
MUAH !!
- Vanessa
I have seen Vanessa 30 0r mpore times and climbing. The reason is in her qualities as a lovely human being (who happens to by chance also be hot as hell.....) BUT no one in town has her sweet termperament and decency !!! Thats why I take two hours each time, not for a laundry list of pops I can no longer live up to in my seniority We do beautifully despite, and that is a tribute to Vanessa too !!!! xoxoxox to her
Who, by chance, happens to be as hot as hell.
I agree totally. Though the second quality may be more relevant for the hobby, the first is more important in the grand scheme of things.
I think Vanessa knows how I feel about her. If not, I must be a really poor communicator.
These posts about Vanessa are true.