May I add that the first third or so of a womans vagina is NEEDED for her to feel pleasure. But guys! DON'T IGNORE THE DEEP SPOT!! Some women have never climaxed via the deep spot, thus they don't know it exists, and those that have, have only done so a few times. It's supposed to be the most intense for a woman!
However, if you aim pressure/movement in the direction of her g-spot can get her off during intercourse. If you're in mish, move jr up and in. If you're behind her, aim down and in. This makes sure you make contact with her g-spot. And try to maintain a 'rhythm' and/or change the rhythm. Both work, but it depends on the woman you're with.
Depth and how hard you sex her, isn't the key. Do y'all have any idea how often a scene in a porn movie has to be stopped because he's hitting it so hard that it hurts her, and she needs a break!??
I prefer, no matter who she is, to service her first. If I can get her going hot and heavy, I go for giving her as many orgasms as my tongue and mouth can muster! THEN, after a few climaxes, she's MORE than ready, willing and able to make you feel the way you made her feel.
If you observe her enough, you can tell if she's enjoying herself or if she's faking it. Check out her vagina. Her vulva. Her outer lips. Does it seem to be swelling down there? If so, you're doing good. If not, try something else. BE GENTLE! Yes, I've come across women who need more pressure with the tongue/fingers. Adjust! It's just the two of you, ASK her what makes her feel good. Do you think she'll lie? BTW.....blow off your ego! At the end, when it's all said and 'done', you'll have satisfied her either more than she thought or given her just what she needed. Either way, she will inflate your ego by the time you part ways! Fact is(and I know I'm not the only one!), I saw a courtesan and she said that I 'rocked her world' and if I wanted to see her again, even if I didn't have the full amount of funds, she'd see me anyway! DUDE!!!! Talk about a deal! Ask. Educate yourself. Women want/like sex more than we do! Satisfy them once, twice, three times and they'll let you satisfy 'them' as often as you want, when you want, and for damn near free!!
KEEP YOURSELF CLEAN!!!!! Always. Even if you're sick and won't see anybody or do anything or go anywhere. Keep clean. It makes a difference. You ever heard of YMMV? Staying clean 24/7 means you'll get more mileage than most!! I've been with women who have mentioned that they can tell if a man is always clean, or just clean for their 'visit'. Some have told me/allowed me to do things that they won't let MOST men do, because a lot of them aren't clean! I've even been with women who were so friggin frigid! Holding themselves CLOSED so as to not get much saliva in them! That tells me that they've been with ALOT of 'dirty' guys. BTW.....I never see them again, either! If they've been with THAT many 'dirty' men....well, you can figure that one out!
Dudes! Research! PM women and ask them questions, for crying out loud. Educate yourself any way you can! No one has to know and it can benefit you in sooooo many ways!!
Anyway, not ALL women need clitoral stimulation. It IS the easiest way to give them an orgasm. And usually the only way men CAN give them an orgasm. Don't be 'that guy'! If you can give them orgasms any other way than clitoral and/or more than clitoral, they WON'T forget about you!