I don't see many locals so I really don't run into that issue.
Seeing that Vegas is a small town, it's bound to happen.
Let's say while you're on a date. You're at a bar or restaurant with a client. Have you ever saw a past client and did they ever approach you with a "Hi XXX how are you?". It's happened to me twice. And both times I was respectful and I didn't look, approach or acknowledge her. I know the proper etiquette is to respect her privacy...but you know, some guys.
The worst tho wasn't a past client just someone who recognized me from my website. I was playing poker and this guy kept calling me Nico. I kept telling him he had me confused with someone else but he was drunk and kept doing it. I knew the dealers and a few of the other players at the table. It was rather embarrassing.
Lustfully naughty
Nico Veneta (unless I'm at a poker table!)
Let's say while you're on a date. You're at a bar or restaurant with a client. Have you ever saw a past client and did they ever approach you with a "Hi XXX how are you?". It's happened to me twice. And both times I was respectful and I didn't look, approach or acknowledge her. I know the proper etiquette is to respect her privacy...but you know, some guys.
To be honest I am usually pretty engaged when I am out and about so if I know someone usually they would need to get my attention which I would prefer my lovers not do. If we do happen to meet eyes a smile and little wave is totally acceptable. If I am on my own please don't approach me. My date may be nearby or I may not be interested in engaging at that moment. Please shoot me a text - I might get it and find you!
I was ordering food at a casino bar and was sitting right next to someone I had met at the bar. He looked at me and smiled and I smiled and that was that.
I wouldn't approach anyone in public as I wouldn't want them to approach me.
Many ladies have other businesses they engage in outside of being a provider and who knows she may be with business partners from her civilian job .
It's tuff to work and live in the same city and not bump into people
No.
Hobbyists have been super respectful.
I have received emails while I'm out, telling me they saw me and/or were at the same restaurant etc, and asking to book an adventure together.
It made me smile and I appreciated having my privacy respected.
I'm not a lady but just wanted to share my experience.
I would NEVER approach a lady in public if I just randomly happened to see her, and I would expect her to act the same with me. Most of us both hobbyist and provider have lives outside of this and you never know if someone is with a wife/husband/significant other, etc. We should all respect each others privacy when off the clock persay. In 13 years of being in the hobby I have seen 3 providers out in public. One was at the airport. We walked by each other, locked eyes for a second and there was definitely acknowledgement but no words were exchanged. The other 2 times I randomly saw 2 ladies that I had been with in the past at a hotel. Both times it appeared they were with clients and I simply walked the other way.
MCCarran Airport to be exact. While waiting in a ticketing/check in line, a huge line that snakes back and forth, I spotted a provider that I knew well. Knew her really well, as she had me calling her by her real name and I had even been over to her place and met her kids. Anyway, she was in the adjacent section of the line, and as the line moved we were heading toward each other, so we were going to pass within a couple feet of each other. I observed her for a while to see if she was alone, and sure enough she was. Now, if she had been with someone, I wouldn't have said a thing, but since she was alone I said hi, and she said hi back, and we had a nice, pleasant, brief conversation that two friends would have that ran in to each other in this way.
Had another "in public" encounter while living in Las Vegas. This time at a bagel shop. I was paying for my bagel and coffee when I heard a female voice call out "Hey (my name)." I turned around and saw a woman, alone, wearing big sunglasses, that I did not recognize. She then said "It's (her name)." After she said her name, I quickly realized who she was and said hi. This particular provider I had seen only once and spoken to at a couple of the meet and greet parties, but she obviously recognized me. We sat down together in the bagel shop and had a nice conversation including catching each other up on the local gossip. We even agreed for her to come over to my place that evening for some fun!
In each of these situations the ladies were alone. Should I ever come across a provider "in public" that was with someone else, I wouldn't make an attempt to contact her. If, by accident, we should see each other, I would just smile and leave it at that, unless she initiated some sort of contact.
I agree with you all about privacy but this happened.
Was at a local bar/restaurant on evening for food and drink. I was sitting at a table near the bar when a provider I had seen on TER was standing in the aisle between my table and the bar. She looked amazing but I never said anything and respected her privacy. About a month or so later I met this provider at her in call and commented I had seen her previously at such and such a place. I was surprised when she asked, "Why didn't you say something or introduce yourself?"
Let's say while you're on a date. You're at a bar or restaurant with a client. Have you ever saw a past client and did they ever approach you with a "Hi XXX how are you?". It's happened to me twice. And both times I was respectful and I didn't look, approach or acknowledge her. I know the proper etiquette is to respect her privacy...but you know, some guys.
Once, I was up very early(at least by Vegas standards) with very few people about, down in the casino area on my way to get some breakfast. I crossed paths with two of my atf's together heading as quickly as they could without drawing undue attention to the nearest exit. I just smiled and went on as if I never saw them.
That is my normal response, unless of course I happened to be alone and looking for company and one of my atf's, also alone, smiles at me from across the bar and beckons me. That would be very nice. What are the odds of that
While I was there adopting my dog I ran into a client.He recognized me he passed me and in a low voice said Jaydalee as he walked by.Luckily,the family member I was with did not hear.
He sent me a message later.
I remember shopping at the Fashion Show Mall I saw a provider there I recognized from here in vegas but I would never go up to her.You never know who is in hearing range.
Best to keep moving it along and not say anything.
Your "Twin" smiled at me, and I smiled back but because I was with my son, I couldn't leave....And I know, it wasn't you , ::wink,wink:: lol...I still can't forget that night.
yes ....that happened to me........last year in vegas, she was at a roulette table next to mine.......no i didnt say anything.....yes i wanted too. only because she thought my hubby was going to be her next sugar daddy or boyfriend or some shit, because she went and caught feeling for him.........i was very calm and actually very proud of myself that i remained so. LOL
Let's say while you're on a date. You're at a bar or restaurant with a client. Have you ever saw a past client and did they ever approach you with a "Hi XXX how are you?". It's happened to me twice. And both times I was respectful and I didn't look, approach or acknowledge her. I know the proper etiquette is to respect her privacy...but you know, some guys.
I don't see many locals so I really don't run into that issue.
get all excited. Respect their privacy to no end - that said, I know I'm smiling ear to ear and coming unglued inside. Want to throw them a giant bear hug!
Have had the common sense to be discreet and respectful, and not approach or say anything to me when I'm with another person (whether it was a civie date, P4P date, or if I'm with one of my girlfriends). Of course, I would do the same should a client of mine, be in the company of another person.
If I saw any of the lovely awesome ladies I have seen while in Vegas I would either ignore them or if we made Eye contact a nod and a smile and then go on my way. I would for sure let them know that I saw them with an email or text the next dayt saying how beautiful they looked and just check in on how they are doing. Discretion and class is always the best way to be.
If you would like to set something up, send them a text to their p4p email or phone number saying, "hi.. Are you busy?"
If they reply then feel free to tell them you see them..
If you have never met before, you screen.
If you don't want to set something up, you leave them be.
