...I have not actually requested a white list referral. I am very honored by those who did white list me. I do sent P411 OK requests sometimes.
request a whitelist from a lady you've seen? And ladies, what are your rules for granting a whitelist?
Since I generally have a good time, if she has not already WL'd me, I will probably ask. Will also ask for DC ref and P411 OK if she is a member of those sites as well.
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...I have not actually requested a white list referral. I am very honored by those who did white list me. I do sent P411 OK requests sometimes.
I have never asked for a WL on TER, I don't want to really bother anyone by requesting a P411 and a TER OK. Nonetheless, I was pleasantly surprised when I realized that I had a few anyway, very nice gesture from the ladies.
I am flattered if a certain lady thinks enough about our encounter to whitelist me. But correct me if I am wrong, is the lady acknowledging they will accept verification from other providers by whitelisting? If you will not, then I politely ask you not to whitelist me. Just sayin' EOM
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I am always pleased when a certain lady thinks enough of our time together to put me on their whitelist. I am wrong to assume, though, that a benefit of the whitelist is they are offering to be contacted for verification from another provider? If you are unwilling to do that, then I would rather you do not whitelist me, just sayin' ROM
If a lady I had seen wanted to do a white list, that's her decision, not mine.
I don't put a lot of faith in the white list because if someone white lists you then gets pissed, they can just as easy take her listing away.
It's nice if a lady wants to acknowledge that you had a good time, fine, but that's her decision, not mine.
ditto on the I don't ask.
i have received a few for which i am thankful.
one lady gave one then rescinded a number of months later. i don't know why as i did not see the lady in the interim. oh well.
and I would not ask either... If a lady wanted to make that effort and time for me to do that I'd be most appreciative... It's nice to get a gold star now and after class!!!!!!
without compromising your screening process, how important is a white listing to you? A couple of ladies have mentioned they looked at my list but I'm not sure how extensively that is used.
While they certainly help, I'd never rely solely on vouches (OKs, whitelists, etc.). The most powerful vouches for me are ones made by close friends of mine.
I do ask for P 411 okays, but only because it's the new policy of P 411 that the ladies can only give you an okay if you request one, and they have sent out notices strongly urging the guys to do so as the ladies get credit for them too.
I still don't ask every lady I see for a P 411 okay. I really don't want hundreds of okays, one every month or two keeps my profile "current" and makes screening a breeze and that's all I am interested in. I certainly don't need "notches on my belt" not at this stage of my life after having done this for decades at least.
I figure that if I ask most ladies for a P411 OK, it will be like a nice little diary for me when I am in the old folks home and can't remember shit, I am sure it will bring a smile to my face. Lol! It really is kind of neat when I log in and I see exactly where I have been, so to speak, in the last year.
I still don't ask every lady I see for a P 411 okay. I really don't want hundreds of okays, one every month or two keeps my profile "current" and makes screening a breeze and that's all I am interested in. I certainly don't need "notches on my belt" not at this stage of my life after having done this for decades at least.
but when people start confusing your number of okay with your membership number, you may stop feeling that way. A few dozen I suppose would be great to look back on, but do you really want a list of okays in the four digits? lol
I didn't even know what the white list was until Keri Diamonds offer to put me on it after our meeting. I am a member of P411 so I am not sure I would ask. Unless I find out providers want that.