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Re:Upscale?
Tres Amigos 4507 reads
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"Upscale Gentleman" is what all providers are looking for - someome who is a) wealthy and b) not a cad.

No woman wants to think she is taking someone's rent money. She wants to live off the disposable income of men with the money to spend it frivolously.

Secondly, she wants a man who will treat her with respect and appreciation. Who wouldn't?

But, as in many things of life, you settle for what you'll accept or you move on to another line of work. I wouldn't let the phrase put you off. While you can't control how upscale you are, you can control how much of a gentleman you are.

jopk3642 reads

I notice a number of ads say "upscale gentlemen only".  What does this mean and how do I know if I'm "upscale"?

Tori Of Atlanta4661 reads

Although my site doesn't actually list "upscale gentleman" anywhere on it, I believe there maybe a few advertising sites in which I am listed that might incorporate that term......

These are just a few of the things I might consider the term "Upscale Gentleman" to mean:

* If you understand my International rate, located on my donation page, then you are probably considered an "Upscale Gentleman" by me.

* If you have been accomplished enough to hold your place of employment for an extended amount of time, you might be considered an "Upscale Gentleman" by me.

* If you hold a status "level" at any of the properties I frequent on a regular basis, you might be considered an "Upscale Gentleman" by me.

* If you know from experience..... the max. allowed ground time before "hangering" a private plane at my local private airfield, -or- you can comment on the present screening time through security on any given day at the major Airports .... you might be considered "Upscale" by me.

* If you enjoy the theater, supporting the Arts, the symphony or have a hobby that can easily deplete 50K from your bank account a year, you might be considered an "Upscale Gentleman" by me.

* If you and your "ex-wife" reside in different cities and you are financially responsible for both homes......you might be considered "Upscale"  by me....... if this is a reality and you are happy with this arrangement because, by your own admission..... it really is best for the kids, you are definitely considered an "Upscale Gentleman" in my book.

* If you do not need exact details on how to properly operate, or clear a security entrance that might protect the property I am entertaining at, you could be called an "Upscale Gentleman" by me.

In my opinion .... and these are just my thoughts, not to be confused or held against any third party, (just mine alone)  the term  "Upscale Gentleman"  refers more to a lifestyle than any specifics. It is a behavior and mannerisms that would make an encounter with me more comfortable than an encounter I might experience with a "non-upscale gentleman"

Still unsure........ I'll go from another angle:

* If your home had wheels at any point in time since you owned it, you might be a Gentleman
-but-... I would probably not consider you to be "Upscale".

* If your preference of hotel includes any usage of the word Inn or at any given time when discussing your lodging, you state: Depending on which coupon is in the flyer..... you might not be considered an "Upscale Gentleman" by me.

* If you have read any page of my site and stated out-loud: "What's that"  you might not be considered an "Upscale Gentleman" by me.

* If you state your arrival time into my City is flexible depending on the bus schedule, you might not be considered an "Upscale Gentleman" to me.

* If you are unable to locate the appropriate clothing to blend into the atmosphere of a restaurant for a dinner date, you might not be considered an "Upscale Gentleman" to me.

* If the directions to your residence include any of the following statements: "just past the truck stop" .... "one block past the fork in the road" .... "when the pavement ends you" .... "and there is a big 'ole cow field just afore ya"..... then you might not be considered an "Upscale Gentleman" by me.

* If you start any conversation with: "where ya' at" .... "how much do you charge" or "what is your rate for"..... you are probably not considered an "Upscale Gentleman" by me.

* If you have never stepped foot into a classroom, Lab or lecture hall of an accredited facility of higher learning... you might not be considered an "Upscale Gentleman" to me.

* (One of the dead give aways in my home town)..... if you do not know what the755 club is or you haven't attended the summer series at Chastain, you might not be considered an "Upscale Gentleman" by me.

As you might have noticed by now, "upscale gentleman"  isn't as much of a tangible quality as it is a choice of lifestyle. Generally speaking, it is a personal impression that a Lady may get from a man as to how he conducts himself. No, you don't have to fly your own plane or have the ability to live in the most elite neighborhood in town..... but you do have to have it within your the ability to distinguish and appreciate such things in life for me to consider you an "upscale gentleman"......  ~And..... if you are calling me from your favorite Cigar Shop on a Friday afternoon @4PM, because your week was so hectic Monday & Tuesday that you just needed to start your weekend early....... you are probably considered an "Upscale Gentleman" by me.

From a providers point of view..... that's what I consider an "Upscale Gentleman" to be.....

Happy Hobbying, know your provider (and her reputation)  kisses ....  ~Tori

-This is definitely a case of YMMV in regards to each particular providers answer. It is definitely an individual, case-by-case impression-

by the way my favorite hotel in los angeles located  in a secluded part of malibu privately on the beach   has inn in the name and is regarded as a "upscale" hotel.

-- Modified on 8/6/2006 5:07:02 PM

...they are so small...they know everything that is going on...

and I prefer to be more discreet

Tres Amigos4508 reads

"Upscale Gentleman" is what all providers are looking for - someome who is a) wealthy and b) not a cad.

No woman wants to think she is taking someone's rent money. She wants to live off the disposable income of men with the money to spend it frivolously.

Secondly, she wants a man who will treat her with respect and appreciation. Who wouldn't?

But, as in many things of life, you settle for what you'll accept or you move on to another line of work. I wouldn't let the phrase put you off. While you can't control how upscale you are, you can control how much of a gentleman you are.

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