...but exactly how definite is the date? Are you 50/50 based on work? Is it 100% just a matter of which day?
Being as honest and providing as much information as possible is best. I am assuming she has verified you and knows that your date is tentative right now. The only concern would be if she did not verify you yet, you start asking a ton of questions especially regarding rates and optional dates, and then you cannot set the date. Worse case scenario you could perhaps appear as a time waster or even Uncle Leo if that happened. That is why you need to lay all of the cards on the table up front in short, concise communications and then play it all by ear. Hope this works out for you both. Your GFE Assistant~Sexy Ton
OK, so I have already decided the next woman I would like to see. I had a few Messages back and forth with her and absolutely loving her personality! I think we really will mesh well, in the messages I kind of hinted at her rates, but I may have been too covert in my meaning. She has her hourly rate in plain view, but her multi-hour packages aren't listed. I have an approximate time frame of the date I would like to meet, but I'm still waiting on something to have a date set. She would have to travel to get to me, so I figured asking about an overnight or multi-hours.
I would really like to avoid being a time waster, because that is what I have read as the ladies biggest complaints about the guys other than hygiene (mine is pristine) and being obnoxious/rude (I feel,I'm nice).
Any thoughts, about a nice way to ask?
...tell her exactly what you just posted. Just say:
I am free that evening, I know you are travelling to me, I am interested possibly meeting for extended date, four hours or even an overnight. Your rates aren't listed; are you interested and if so, how should I be prepared?
Hope that helps.
Your GFE Assistant~
Sexy Ton
For whatever reason I have noticed that the 60 and over board is the best board when it comes to pleasant and informative discussion/replies to the OP's initial statement, questions, comment; etc. The Florida, Phoenix and San Diego boards are a very close second. Is it something in the water? Just wondering.
Thanks to all who take the time to add value to the boards
Last question, should I wait till I have a solid date in mind?
...but exactly how definite is the date? Are you 50/50 based on work? Is it 100% just a matter of which day?
Being as honest and providing as much information as possible is best. I am assuming she has verified you and knows that your date is tentative right now. The only concern would be if she did not verify you yet, you start asking a ton of questions especially regarding rates and optional dates, and then you cannot set the date. Worse case scenario you could perhaps appear as a time waster or even Uncle Leo if that happened. That is why you need to lay all of the cards on the table up front in short, concise communications and then play it all by ear.
Hope this works out for you both.
Your GFE Assistant~
Sexy Ton