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I'm sorry I took some time off. This board has become so quiet. So let's us begin.
Anyway, what is the difference between dressing "sexy" and "whore-ish"? Ladies and gentlemen may both participate. Visual illistrations, while not required, are informative. Is there anything that age may make different?
'rock'
I am not 18 and I am not a stripper, so I wear modest length business suits with heels that do not scream "Gold Club" lol. I might also wear a collared long sleeve shirt that is form fitting and a pencil skirt up to mid thigh... sexy/sophisticated, but not "I get paid for it." I think what you wear in public can really mess up both you and your clients in so many ways. I am shocked at the number of reviews I read that talk about how slutty the escort looked when she arrived at HIS hotel. I mean cmon... if you've never had a real date or job that required you dress professionally, at least ACT like you have lol.
What about visible tats in your example?
I have lived quite a few places and seen more 'regular' girls with them vs. providers. I don't think showing tats means 'hooker' lol, but to some, it could connote some other things. It is a matter of personal preference. I have none and never will, but doubt I would be showing them off in a city/place where it would attract too much attention.
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For guys, you need to impress but not necessarily a 3 piece suit (but there always the ('nooner'). Take off the tie, open up two buttons (assuming a v collared t shirt). NEW jeans TAYLOREDto length, POLISHED shoes or NEW tennies.
The whore-ish in me says no buttoned buttons is a no no on the shirt, along with raised shoes. I've been to Florida, no 'uniform' with black soxes in Crocks (lol).
Ladies, keep the puppies on a lease. I like a pretty colored scarf to, not necessarily always hint at the cleavage.
I txted with Sinderella this afternoon and I got her going on the shoes. What do think of that?
'rock'
Momentarily putting aside the fact that it bothers me to no end when people use the word whore as an insult (oh, they misogyny of it all...), I'll throw in my two cents.
What I would consider tacky is anything that draws an undue amount of attention to you when you're *supposed* to be behaving with discretion. That could be anything from your best Pretty Woman drag to a slinky cocktail dress and spackled-on makeup at a 3 pm lunch date. Hell, you could be wearing a perfectly appropriate outfit and still look a trashy mess if it doesn't fit well and you look awful in it. If what you're wearing makes anyone do a double take, it's probably tacky.
But sexy? That's in the eye of the beholder. I'd never dream of meeting a client in shorts and a t-shirt, but some men swoon for that college girl next-door thing. If you aren't lucky enough to have a good idea about what your client would find sexy, I'd suggest going for the "hottest secretary in the office" look. A flash of leg in a mid-thigh skirt, a beautiful, tasteful pair of heels, and a flattering blouse with maybe one extra button left undone.
For example, don't show up to a business class hotel at 10 am in the suburbs dressed for a nigh out clubbing.