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A lot of potential, but a lot to consider...
THEAvaStClaire See my TER Reviews 332 reads
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I've had a few amazing arrangements through SA, as a matter of fact.  A lot of garbage to wade through to get there, but well worth the effort in the end lol.

My last arrangement was a substantial monthly allowance for weekly meetings where we did everything from go to dinner to catch a basketball game downtown.  We'd spend a few hours together-- always leaving time for "dessert"-- and never talk about money once.  If you take your time to find someone whose company you truly enjoy (as opposed to someone who's basically just a warm blow up doll, or a walking ATM), it can be really wonderful.  

On the negative side, it can be harder than you'd think to find someone who understands the kind of separation that's necessary to keep things from getting unbalanced.  I've heard horror stories on both sides about people becoming overly attached and forgetting that, at the end of the day, it's a fantasy.  

As an escort, myself, the biggest drawback is my inability to be nearly as straight forward as I am when I'm speaking with a potential client.  A lot of the men on there will get turned off in an instant it sounds too "business like" and many even explicitly state that they're not interested in escorts. It's garbage, in my opinion, as Sugar Babies are basically just escorts on a different payment plan but hey... that's just me lol. I'd say that if you want to trade seeing a high volume of clients for spending a lot more time with just a few, arrangements are a good option.

-- Modified on 6/13/2015 12:32:57 PM

I suspect few to none of the ladies here have used the cited site.
( I have guys. Don't bother. But I'm a granddaddy.)

But how about the concept ladies? I'm thinking it can work.
Would you try it? What type of an arrangement?

ps  

I am available for your consideration. Greater Sarasota area.
I can be pmd. Amongst other fetishes.:-)

some providers use it...it has been arround for a while..
Also ever get down to Naples look me up!
kisses..
Keri
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Posted By: ahemahem
I suspect few to none of the ladies here have used the cited site.  
 ( I have guys. Don't bother. But I'm a granddaddy.)  
   
 But how about the concept ladies? I'm thinking it can work.  
 Would you try it? What type of an arrangement?  
   
 ps  
   
 I am available for your consideration. Greater Sarasota area.  
 I can be pmd. Amongst other fetishes.:-)

I'm currently regularly fucking the hottest ass 23 years my junior girl this older guy could ever hope for and it doesn't cost me any more than hobbying.  I don't stay signed up monthly. Just when I'm looking for a new friend.  She's a really cool girl that genuinely seems to enjoy our rendezvous behind closed doors. I still love TER too though

Just kidding.Thanks for sharing. Nice to know it's not all a ruse.

Would be interesting if "arrangements" got reviewed.

-- Modified on 6/12/2015 10:24:24 AM

Yes it would.  I tried to find a forum for SA guys to discuss experiences but came up empty.

She should have a profile name here because our "arrangement" is nothing more than escorting under the radar.  Works for me.

other times it was a one time thing like escorting can be. I generally have always had some type of sugar daddy through my escort career, because I don't want to work much by the date unless I am traveling... then, I fkin love it. When I am at home with my family, having a sugar daddy gives me the freedom to take as much time off from being LR as I want, and can be beneficial when I am not working a legit full-time or even part-time job. I have always had to work a real job in addition to providing, because one is just not enough and I don't care to put in that many hours. Some of those sites are total bs, so you really do have to weed through the profiles and meet people to find out who is really legit and who only makes 40k a year and wants to fk you 5 times a month for a cable bill payment.

You had me dying at "Wants to fk you 5 times a month for a cable bill payment"!  I've been on SA on and off for the past few years and you legitimately just described about 50% of the men on there. Splenda Daddies, if you will lol.

My frustration, now that I'm escorting as well, is the sheer amount of time that you have to put in in order to find the kind of SD you're looking for.  That place can be an absolute cesspool of fakes, flakes, and phonies and since it isn't nearly as straightforward a process as meeting a new client, it can be exhausting just getting to the point where you're talking about fundamental details with someone. Now that I think about my time in terms of dollars per hour, it can be hard to drum up the enthusiasm to chat with someone back and forth for a bit with no idea if it's actually going to go anywhere.  

One of the things I do love about it, though, is the long term relationships that can grow from encounters.  I have some friends that I've made through SA who I haven't seen in months (in some case over a year!) and will still send me gifts on my birthday.  Plus, I now have a network of financial advisors, tax specialists, dermatologists-- you name it, who are always happy to hear from me if I need anything.

many of my escort clients were turned SD or at the very least, barter arrangements vs. cash. It was/is a win/win for all concerned.

To get the best internet/phone rate, I had to package it with Comcast basic cable.

I've had a few amazing arrangements through SA, as a matter of fact.  A lot of garbage to wade through to get there, but well worth the effort in the end lol.

My last arrangement was a substantial monthly allowance for weekly meetings where we did everything from go to dinner to catch a basketball game downtown.  We'd spend a few hours together-- always leaving time for "dessert"-- and never talk about money once.  If you take your time to find someone whose company you truly enjoy (as opposed to someone who's basically just a warm blow up doll, or a walking ATM), it can be really wonderful.  

On the negative side, it can be harder than you'd think to find someone who understands the kind of separation that's necessary to keep things from getting unbalanced.  I've heard horror stories on both sides about people becoming overly attached and forgetting that, at the end of the day, it's a fantasy.  

As an escort, myself, the biggest drawback is my inability to be nearly as straight forward as I am when I'm speaking with a potential client.  A lot of the men on there will get turned off in an instant it sounds too "business like" and many even explicitly state that they're not interested in escorts. It's garbage, in my opinion, as Sugar Babies are basically just escorts on a different payment plan but hey... that's just me lol. I'd say that if you want to trade seeing a high volume of clients for spending a lot more time with just a few, arrangements are a good option.

-- Modified on 6/13/2015 12:32:57 PM

Posted By: THEAvaStClaire
I've had a few amazing arrangements through SA, as a matter of fact.  A lot of garbage to wade through to get there, but well worth the effort in the end lol.  
   
 My last arrangement was a substantial monthly allowance for weekly meetings where we did everything from go to dinner to catch a basketball game downtown.  We'd spend a few hours together-- always leaving time for "dessert"-- and never talk about money once.  If you take your time to find someone whose company you truly enjoy (as opposed to someone who's basically just a warm blow up doll, or a walking ATM), it can be really wonderful.  
   
 On the negative side, it can be harder than you'd think to find someone who understands the kind of separation that's necessary to keep things from getting unbalanced.  I've heard horror stories on both sides about people becoming overly attached and forgetting that, at the end of the day, it's a fantasy.    
   
 As an escort, myself, the biggest drawback is my inability to be nearly as straight forward as I am when I'm speaking with a potential client.  A lot of the men on there will get turned off in an instant it sounds too "business like" and many even explicitly state that they're not interested in escorts. It's garbage, in my opinion, as Sugar Babies are basically just escorts on a different payment plan but hey... that's just me lol. I'd say that if you want to trade seeing a high volume of clients for spending a lot more time with just a few, arrangements are a good option.

-- Modified on 6/13/2015 12:32:57 PM

Good luck to you, you are beautiful and will do well.   I saw your other post and I would encourage you to go to the Meet & Greets, you may meet ladies you can trust and be friends with - sadly, I don't get to go to the M&Gs, you know, the whole being married thing.  Lol!  Also, whenever you need to bounce something off somebody, post, there are a lot of nice ladies around here who happen to be helpful.

Hey, thank you so much! I'll definitely have to try to make it to a Meet & Greet at some point.  The last time there was one in my area, I didn't have enough reviews to snag an invite! And you're absolutely right about these discussion boards.  I've already received a few wonderfully encouraging private messages :)

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