-Not all providers who are hard-working have children. Some providers are hard-working because -- oh, i don't know-- they need money.  

-Not all providers "suffer from being mistreated".  In fact, some recent studies done in Canada are showing quite the opposite.  Those who purchase time with providers aren't awful, abusive, or exploitative in most cases.  

-Not all providers think this is an "unpleasant job" filled with "wife cheaters and liars".  Most women do this job because not only is the money good, but it allows some providers the opportunity to use their time in other ways aside from working.  

-Not all providers are caused "pain and suffering" due to their jobs.  In fact, last I checked, most providers on this board do this willingly, and actually enjoy the job.  

Thanks for offering up all the same old, played-out stereotypes about providers as victims.  Not only is it disingenuous, it's dangerous.  By stereotyping providers as victims, you're automatically positioning clients as abusers/victimizers.  

Perhaps speaking on behalf of a group of women who are quite able to speak for themselves isn't what you should be doing.  If you want to make a difference in a provider's life, be a great client.

Most of our clients are generous, and sweet in person.

I've met a lot of people in this industry, even people from TER (a lot) and they're actually pretty cool in person too.

It can get a little passionate and dramatic on here, but believe me, we are not talking like this in session - this is the last thing we are thinking about lol!

There are some seriously cool people out there. This job is just like most other jobs - you have to deal with people. The only difference is, we are about to bang them and get naked. It's nice not to be insulted or pissed off at someone right before they come over to hook up lol.

I know this message wasn't directed at me because I'm not a single mom, nor am I a mom, nor am I a sugar mama, nor is anyone depending on me - however there are definitely people in my life that have great needs and I really wish I could help them a lot more than I do now.

This is a way to do that. While having fun. I mean - I am frequently getting laid, mostly by guys in my preferred age range - 45+. How much better can it get? lol.

Among other things, this thread proves that you can spell all the words correctly, but without proper syntax and a few punctuation marks here and there, we can have communication failure.    
It was not until this morning that I fully grasped what the OP was trying to state, thanks to all the other astute readers.  Really, when I first read the post last night, I scratched my head and thought "WTF?"  I don't know if it was the wine or the fact that English is my second language, but I tried to read the post from right to left, left to right, bottom to top, I even turned my screen upside down and it still did not make sense.  

The question I had this morning when I logged in again (note to self: sign-up for TER Anonymous), was "where is the vaunted and feared TER grammar police?"    After careful consideration and a little forensic work, I realized that the OP got a pass because it was clearly a jumbled translation from the Google engine that translates Jungleman language to English.  The message, as dictated to the computer by the OP was originally thus:

"Janes with child good, they smiley, poor them because Johns bad, Johns lying cheating with wife mucho worse, leave Janes alone,  uga, uga, uga!"    

-- Modified on 10/13/2014 10:41:43 AM

To get the F-out if this business if they are being treated so badly, instead of complaining.....  Every job, rather it's corp America or being a Hooker is going to have lows & mistreatment...  Ugh.... 😡😡😡😡

Did your ART have a bad day?

Listen, I think it's great that you are speaking for us working girls but you're making yourself a target for all the assholes on the board.

Thanks though, it was sweet.  If you're really a marine you should let girls know because most offer military rates...

XXX-Giselle Parker